We already friends / friendly. I'm in a class with her and we sit next to each other and whatnot and have had a bunch of normal conversations and I've flirted with her a little bit too. We even kinda hung once after class but that was just sitting around talking. I'm just a little stuck now I suppose (I'm not even sure if she's into me like that but that's what I'm tryna find out by asking her to something)
You have to initiate. I mentioned this before in the thread. Women aren't natural leaders, they follow, and they follow when instructed properly. Now.....before I dive in....don't be rapey, keep your hands to yourself. When you do start physical contact, keep it light, hand touching, arms, shoulders...its a slow build (kino escalation)....don't just grab her legs and assume its gonna be A-ok. Let's say you already know that bit, then work on small/light touches. From hands to wrists...my technique is to neg/instruct via small things like greetings; "Thats not how you shake like an adult"...and follow through. For some reason, patty cake has always worked, don't ask me why, or how, but women love that silly fukking "game", and will play it with a guy almost instantly...same thing with Numbers, they just can't say no...use that to your advantage.
Basically, think of her like a horse, you want to get her used to your touch, don't just slap her ass right away, thats how you get kicked into oblivion. I get away with a lot, seeing as I'm a natural/chad so I do whatever, from playing with hair, to picking up girls without the escalation part...this of course is highly subjective and built around the kind of guy you are and or look like. If you look like a troll, you can't just jump into level 10, but if you go to the gym, take care of yourself, and are the life of the party, the energy is understood and wanted.
I take it you're more of the quiet type? Nothing wrong with that, your strength is a quiet storm, spread yourself all over, from the mental game, to the physical, and she'll be thinking about your touch/assertiveness and wit, all the time. Don't be friendly, be a beacon of guidance. Be a teacher, not a friend. Instruct her, guide her, like a silk scarf in a flowing river, you flow in any current. Don't over think it either, amuse yourself, but also keep her understanding that you aren't there to waste time, instead use that time to flirt.
....but history wont let me shake off the feeling that I shot myself on the foot and its only a matter of time she uses that shyt against me 
