Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[twan83]

Brehs this shyt is starting to fck with me. Im stationed in TX in a city with a 3% black populationi can count on one hand how many decent looking black women ive seen in the year ive been here.

I got 18 more months but i wont lie its starting to get to meall the women here are mexican. And they either all have kids or they aint about shyt (on some bum status). And at the clubs they'll show you love but once you hit em up the day after they start trippen. I think thats where that latentcomes in.

They think you look good enough to grind on in the heat of the night but as soon as the sun comes up they wont get caught dead with you

Where in tx u at breh?

 

[SlimOG]

so that girl who asked if i love her and is aid no I never did and she said never to talk to her again, sent me this long ass msg

(BTW we were never in a relationship, all we literally did is have sex and then she asked to be official and I said no)

sent me

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And then I said
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and then she said

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and that was that

She sounds nuts bruh.But she was def fishing/gaming for some 2019 dikk from u lol women ain't slick lol

 

[Armchair Militant]

This thread is lowkey sad

I never tried to get in get in a relationship or anything like that. Been lurking in here for a bit. I didn’t know women were so flaky. Guess you gotta have options.

 

[Sonny Bonds]

I saw a chick on a dating app, she's 42. Her profile says she's looking for 30 - 45 year old dudes. It also says, she might want kids. I just wonder about her expectations. She's in shape and works out. I guess I just wonder about her timeline.

Anyway, Had a date with a chick on Saturday. She didn't give me her phone number before meeting because of bad past experiences.

We started early. Got drinks, then dinner, and then more drinks. It was 5 hours in total. The next day, I hit her up on the app, say I had a great time and get her number.

I text her, asking when can I see you again. She said, "It was really great spending time with you and we have a lot in common. But I feel like we’re in different life stages."

My response was, "different life stages?"

But she didn't respond to that.

 

[VertigoKnight]

I saw a chick on a dating app, she's 42. Her profile says she's looking for 30 - 45 year old dudes. It also says, she might want kids. I just wonder about her expectations. She's in shape and works out. I guess I just wonder about her timeline.

Anyway, Had a date with a chick on Saturday. She didn't give me her phone number before meeting because of bad past experiences.

We started early. Got drinks, then dinner, and then more drinks. It was 5 hours in total. The next day, I hit her up on the app, say I had a great time and get her number.

I text her, asking when can I see you again. She said, "It was really great spending time with you and we have a lot in common. But I feel like we’re in different life stages."

My response was, "different life stages?"

But she didn't respond to that.

Lesson I've learned in 2018, never be the first to say you had a great time. Chicks will drop the "I think you're a nice guy but... " if by end of second day you haven't heard a peep from chick shes playing.

shyts disgusting.

 

[Sonny Bonds]

Lesson I've learned in 2018, never be the first to say you had a great time. Chicks will drop the "I think you're a nice guy but... " if by end of second day you haven't heard a peep from chick shes playing.

shyts disgusting.

Man,I guess it's just that people are always telling me to be aggressive and how the man has to pursue what he wants.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Man,I guess it's just that people are always telling me to be aggressive and how the man has to pursue what he wants.

That's true.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Man,I guess it's just that people are always telling me to be aggressive and how the man has to pursue what he wants.

Always be the aggressor. That’s the best way to separate the women who are on it, from the women who aren’t. Women will be whoever they are regardless. The quicker you find out a particular woman is a waste of time, the better.

 

[semicko82]

Brehs this shyt is starting to fck with me. Im stationed in TX in a city with a 3% black populationi can count on one hand how many decent looking black women ive seen in the year ive been here.

I got 18 more months but i wont lie its starting to get to meall the women here are mexican. And they either all have kids or they aint about shyt (on some bum status). And at the clubs they'll show you love but once you hit em up the day after they start trippen. I think thats where that latentcomes in.

They think you look good enough to grind on in the heat of the night but as soon as the sun comes up they wont get caught dead with you

Where are you stationed

 

[semicko82]

This thread is lowkey sad

I never tried to get in get in a relationship or anything like that. Been lurking in here for a bit. I didn’t know women were so flaky. Guess you gotta have options.

Once you find out about the true nature of women you’re either going to be sad or angry. You just have to learn to adapt to the nature of the game.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Once you find out about the true nature of women you’re either going to be sad or angry. You just have to learn to adapt to the nature of the game.

You a learn to move without feelings eventually.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

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[ZoeGod]

Don't focus on relationships or women for awhile. You'll be happily surprised when someone walks into your life. The main thing is to be confident, do things which make you happy and improve your mind, body and soul. That makes people gravitate towards you.

@Iceson Beckford this happened to me. I haven’t posted on this thread since November and a lot changed the past 30 days. The shorty who flaked me back then hit me up a week later she wanted to meet up. At this point I threw her to the bushes. Long story short we met up had a date at the park. Two weeks later we started fukking and now cuz my sex game is so good shyt hooked on me. Calls me everyday and we fukk damn near every time we see each other. Thing is at November I was like fukk it imma focus on me and my grades and boom she came into my life. I realize that when you resist it persists. Meaning the more you focus on trying to get laid and focus on it the more it don’t come your way. That’s how life is. So just chill out, go to the gym and focus on yourself build your confidence and shyt will come your way. You still have to persuit broads but once you get rejected it won’t phase you. Everything will come in due time.

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

This heartbreak is tearing my ass into peaces, brehs

I aint been hurt by a bytch in 6 years. I dont even know how to cope with this type of feeling anymore

worst part is that it occurred unexpectedly while I only got 3 weeks to finish and submit my research paper for graduation and got 6 interviews lined up.

Cant even concentrate for more than 5 minutes without having flashbacks. Im bitter as hell right now

Spoiler

any type of non-bullshyt genuine advise is welcome. im down and out :mjcrycap:

 

[semicko82]

This heartbreak is tearing my ass into peaces, brehs

I aint been hurt by a bytch in 6 years. I dont even know how to cope with this type of feeling anymore

worst part is that it occurred unexpectedly while I only got 3 weeks to finish and submit my research paper for graduation and got 6 interviews lined up.

Cant even concentrate for more than 5 minutes without having flashbacks. Im bitter as hell right now

Spoiler

any type of non-bullshyt genuine advise is welcome. im down and out :mjcrycap:

First thing, why did you break up