Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Rev Leon Lonnie Love

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First thing, why did you break up

first it was cause Im too strict and dont allow her to have her freedom (aka be out there getting sloppy drunk with guy friends and living irresponsibly without accountability.)

then she finally admitted the day she bushed me for good that its not me, its her. She just wanna be free and live life and have all the male friends to party with without feeling like she's disrespecting her relationship, and that its her loss and all that other bullshyt they tell u to let your ass down easy :mjcry:

funny enough she was so head over hills for me and was behaving normally until she just got tired of being the submissive, straight-and-narrow typa girl. she suddenly felt like im holding her back from all the fun thats out there and that she's young and doesnt want to regret not having had taken advantage of her early 20s.

ended up spending New Years eve with the :to: face on.
cuff young adrenaline junkies and end up getting bushed abruptly, brehs. :wowjb::mjcrycap:
 

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first it was cause Im too strict and dont allow her to have her freedom (aka be out there getting sloppy drunk with guy friends and living irresponsibly without accountability.)

then she finally admitted the day she bushed me for good that its not me, its her. She just wanna be free and live life and have all the male friends to party with without feeling like she's disrespecting her relationship, and that its her loss and all that other bullshyt they tell u to let your ass down easy :mjcry:

funny enough she was so head over hills for me and was behaving normally until she just got tired of being the submissive, straight-and-narrow typa girl. she suddenly felt like im holding her back from all the fun thats out there and that she's young and doesnt want to regret not having had taken advantage of her early 20s.

ended up spending New Years eve with the :to: face on.
cuff young adrenaline junkies and end up getting bushed abruptly, brehs. :wowjb::mjcrycap:
You liked her more than she liked you so it was bound to fail. Good thing because more than likely you weren’t compatible with this chick. She also seems like she was really immature. You don’t have to deal with her anymore.

How old are you breh ?
 

Rev Leon Lonnie Love

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You liked her more than she liked you so it was bound to fail. Good thing because more than likely you weren’t compatible with this chick. She also seems like she was really immature. You don’t have to deal with her anymore.

How old are you breh ?
27, she 22. Man i aint been in a relationship for a very long time and have been fukking random hoes until I stumbled across her. Thats why I dont know how to deal with this hearbreak


funny thing is she's the one who liked me more, and was determined to tire me down and was doing any and everything to earn my respect and cuff her. I eventually did cause i geneuinely liked her after a while.

now she did this to me :wow:
 

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27, she 22. Man i aint been in a relationship for a very long time and have been fukking random hoes until I stumbled across her. Thats why I dont know how to deal with this hearbreak


funny thing is she's the one who liked me more, and was determined to tire me down and was doing any and everything to earn my respect and cuff her. I eventually did cause i geneuinely liked her after a while.

now she did this to me :wow:
22 no wonder :laff:

Look breh you’ll get over the heartbreak, and just be glad you didn’t have a kid or you’re not any financial damage.

Just be glad she told you the truth before it got any further. You’re all emotional now so most of what I’m saying is not sinking in. Trust me you’ll be ok.
 

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I’m trying to figure out what homie thought would happen with a 22 year old. That whole situation had a shelf life from the beginning. You were definitely way more into her, than she was in you. You pretty much let us all know that by saying you were strict with her. You held on so damn tight and she still slipped through your fingers.

So what does that tell you?
 

Rev Leon Lonnie Love

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I’m trying to figure out what homie thought would happen with a 22 year old. That whole situation had a shelf life from the beginning. You were definitely way more into her, than she was in you. You pretty much let us all know that by saying you were strict with her. You held on so damn tight and she still slipped through your fingers.

So what does that tell you?
i'll take my L :francis:. im in no position to try and deny my role in this whole mess
 

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Once you find out about the true nature of women you’re either going to be sad or angry. You just have to learn to adapt to the nature of the game.
Let it turn you into a sophisticated and refined savage. Treat a bish like a ho, and have a pimps mentality when it come to a bish. All that sad and angry shyt fade when you already in touch with reality.
 

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Let it turn you into a sophisticated and refined savage. Treat a bish like a ho, and have a pimps mentality when it come to a bish. All that sad and angry shyt fade when you already in touch with reality.
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i'll take my L :francis:. im in no position to try and deny my role in this whole mess
Not trying to diss you or anything but next relationship you get in you have to stomp that simp shyt out of you or you’ll never be in a content relationship
 

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Not trying to diss you or anything but next relationship you get in you have to stomp that simp shyt out of you or you’ll never be in a content relationship

been HOH for over 5 years fukking and dumping these hoes so that savage lifestyle is the one thing I know how to do best. This situation caught me off guard cause I aint used to cuffing hoes and doing lovey dovey stuff so maybe thats why I went all out on her. it is what it is, i'll take my L and go back to my old ways :yeshrug:
 

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been HOH for over 5 years fukking and dumping these hoes so that savage lifestyle is the one thing I know how to do best. This situation caught me off guard cause I aint used to cuffing hoes and doing lovey dovey stuff so maybe thats why I went all out on her. it is what it is, i'll take my L and go back to my old ways :yeshrug:
What was it about this particular chick that made you dump your HOH ways
 

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breh's need to be comfortable being single and alone because when you're comfortable being single & alone you become less thirsty. Stop yearning for a relationship, fukk buddy, female attention or whatever else your searching for. Do you're own thing. Be in your own space. Clear your mind and thoughts.
Word..gotta stop letting peer pressure get to you too..

I know for many of us we don't feel like a man if we ain't getting p*ssy but relax.

I found out when I wasn't being thirsty and wasn't expecting broads to be checking for me that's when they would be choosing.
 

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Im thinking of bushing this young bird. She wanted me to come over for NYE Im like Im barely know your ass Im jot trying to game you around all your people so I declined. She keep telling me to set a day and she down with whatever we do, I pick a day she say naw. Okay w/e. She hit me back and say pick another day , she say she want to chill wherever I am. I say slide through my spot and we cook. She say shes having a nice dinner at her place, come over :dahell: how tf you having a nice dinner on a day we was posed to link :dahell: I already told.yself in 2019 Im not dealing with goofy wishy washy behavior at all but maybe Im overreacting. Thoughts. I have no real attachment to this girl fwiw
 
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@Iceson Beckford So just chill out, go to the gym and focus on yourself build your confidence and shyt will come your way. You still have to persuit broads but once you get rejected it won’t phase you. Everything will come in due time.

I remember you posting about it breh, could relate heavy Ill def take this onboard and keep a tunnel vision.

May you continue to keep progressing this year brodie, drop me some game along the way :salute:
 

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Im thinking of bushing this young bird. She wanted me to come over for NYE Im like Im barely know your ass Im jot trying to game you around all your people so I declined. She keep telling me to set a day and she down with whatever we do, I pick a day she say naw. Okay w/e. She hit me back and say pick another day , she say she want to chill wherever I am. I say slide through my spot and we cook. She say shes having a nice dinner at her place, come over :dahell: how tf you having a nice dinner on a day we was posed to link :dahell: I already told.yself in 2019 Im not dealing with goofy wishy washy behavior at all but maybe Im overreacting. Thoughts. I have no real attachment to this girl fwiw


Sounds like she aint with the program. That means :camby:
 
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