How do I deal with having a higher libido than my partner. That shyt fukks with my emotions. Like i can't sit there fake smiling while i have exes on the side throwing it at me. I've never been in a relationship that required me to go once every few weekends. And when she talks about how freaky she use to be, I wanna cheat more.
How freaky she used to be?. You ever ask her why yall don't do it more often?
How freaky she used to be?. You ever ask her why yall don't do it more often?
Bruh, she don't even like talking about sex. When we first met, we had some crazy ass sex and she gave fire head, now all of a sudden she's ultra conservative and I'm just smh cause I gave up all my side chicks for this. I got one waiting on the other line and others wondering where I went. I can't even talk about sex with her unless she initiates it and to make matters worse something happened where she had to move with me so now I'm stuck with blue balls being heavily monitored. She tripped out and started crying when I told her I was gonna sneak outta work and treat myself to a movie, code for getting side p*ssy. shyt's ass backwards. To make matters worse, I even cut out hanging with my friends because I frequently run into my ex and the sexual chemistry is still there. I go to work and girls hit on me. I can control myself but I'm not gonna sit here waiting every 2 weeks for some simple ass 1 and done sex. This shyt is complicated. Her being under the same roof makes it harder cause she texts me throughout the day and I have to chauffeur her with blue balls sharing 1 car.
What made her change?. I probably would tho, go ahead and get some p*ssy on the side
Thanks bruh. I'm just sitting here wondering if I'm an a$$hole or some shyt cause lately I've been cold to her and the only time shorty wants sex is if I go outta town for work. I never cheated even though, I got hit on out there too but I'm just tired. Now I see why guys cheated on her in the past.
Too late, she moved in for a month temporarily but I'm stepping out for the night to fukk something. bytch was crying last night cause she knew my next move and honestly I think we both playing mind games with each other, only difference is, I follow through with mines. I think these chicks be playing cause I'm lightskin and look soft. She knows I'm sneaky.She's playing games. Her p*ssy just happens to get wet each time you need to go out of town but any other time she's stone cold?
Dude, life is too short for all that nonsense. Bush this girl. Seriously.
If she's got all these hangups and issues then she needs to see a therapist or something. But I really think she's trying to control you by using mental and emotional manipulation so you can be isolated. Any time you find yourself cutting off other people and burning bridges for the sake of someone else is a step into dangerous territory. She knows what she's doing. Don't be fooled.
Bush her yesterday and live a normal life.
First mistake you made is letting the girl move in with you. That chick was plotting the move in with you from jump. Created her "save me" scenario to take advantage of your soft side and exploited it for her gain. The reason she aint giving you none is because she doesn't have to. She got what she wanted which was a roof over her head. In her head, you're her simp.
You would've been better off and lived a more peaceful environment if you left her homeless on the street
Anyway, cheating in your case is the only thing to do. I'd just break up with her and tell her that she isn't meeting your needs and you need time to pursue other goals in life. Future endeavor that ho.