Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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i don't know at what point men will collectively turn things around, but in this day and age, it's sad to see how disposable and insignificant we have become. Now more than ever, brehs must do whatever they can to try and not become another statistic.

At a time where our masculinity is being attacked by society, higher ups and women, it is absolutely IMPERATIVE you do whatever it takes to excel.

body & health, academia, financially, mentally.

stop seeking female attention. stop simping. stop over-analyzing other people's actions. These are all counter-intuitive and distractions to you.

YOU brehs. That's it.

I know, it's like nothing I've ever seen. It's like black men in particular are just shells of their former selves on a mass level. I remember when brothas generally were confident in who they were, now this world tries to shame you for even having the slightest bit of confidence.

You definitely gotta look after yourself and adjust your thinking.
 

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I know, it's like nothing I've ever seen. It's like black men in particular are just shells of their former selves on a mass level. I remember when brothas generally were confident in who they were, now this world tries to shame you for even having the slightest bit of confidence.

You definitely gotta look after yourself and adjust your thinking.

Honestly this era has made me even more proud to be a man because it's easy to stand out in a world full of pussies. The more and more I get shamed for being a man, the more I feel compelled to double down on my machismo because I know the real ladies will appreciate it even when they don't want to. :yeshrug:
 
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word up. within our current landscape, being a man is held at a premium. brehs just dont get it. even going a step further, being a principled man with his shyt together in this climate is like witnessing jesus turn water into wine.

in 2019 nikkas are walking through a scorched earth of thirsty lame nikkas and simps. :mjlol:

this era is at so much of a deficit for official dudes...that at the very least, if youre just decisive, confident, bold, able to tell a chick no and not tolerate any of her foolishness, you got the juice.

broads can only do two things when they recognize a thorough dude, either get the fukk out of his way or straight up cooperate.
The bold is a 100 truth. I was just saying that yesterday. Its certain nikkas bytches clown/treat like goofys.and the. Its thorough dudes who they either fall in line or move around for like y said. The thing is how do most of these lame/simps become thorough? Is it that lact of options?
 

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i don't know at what point men will collectively turn things around, but in this day and age, it's sad to see how disposable and insignificant we have become. Now more than ever, brehs must do whatever they can to try and not become another statistic.

At a time where our masculinity is being attacked by society, higher ups and women, it is absolutely IMPERATIVE you do whatever it takes to excel.

body & health, academia, financially, mentally.

stop seeking female attention. stop simping. stop over-analyzing other people's actions. These are all counter-intuitive and distractions to you.

YOU brehs. That's it.
This.

I see dudes on here still living at home,no car worrying about how to get bytches.

I mean I was that guy once but you'll be better off focusing on improving yourself..

We as men are fortunate..it's never too late for us..we can fukk up in our 20s and still bounce back in our 30s by leveling up physically and/or financially.
 

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Honestly this era has made me even more proud to be a man because it's easy to stand out in a world full of pussies. The more and more I get shamed for being a man, the more I feel compelled to double down on my machismo because I know the real ladies will appreciate it even when they don't want to. :yeshrug:
Yea..

Having a backbone goes a long way..

I mean little things that were typical of men 10-20 years ago seem to be rare nowadays.

shyt just simple basic shyt like acknowledging them when they're in your space and making eye contact makes you stand out so much it's crazy.
 

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The thing is how do most of these lame/simps become thorough? Is it that lact of options?
yeah its lack of options. and they need to realize their self worth or link up with cats who are getting the results they want. or at least mirror their behavior.

luckily i grew up with a dad and two older brothers. my pops LACED us with game and would even clown us if we were boo-hooing over a girl.

and then in college i ran with wolves who had black hearts. lol nikkas would blaze the shyt outta you for even the slightest level of simpin.

i just came up in an era where that shyt was unacceptable and down right :scust:

i had men hold me accountable when my heart started pumping koolaid with these girls. shyt got me in check real quick
 
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yeah its lack of options. and they need to realize their self worth or link up with cats who are getting the results they want. or at least mirror their behavior.

luckily i grew up with a dad and two older brothers. my pops LACED us with game and would even clown us if we were boo-hooing over a girl.

and then in college i ran with wolves who had black hearts. lol nikkas would blaze the shyt outta you for even the slightest level of simpin.

i just came up in an era where that shyt was unacceptable and down right :scust:

i had men hold me accountable when my heart started pumping koolaid with these girls. shyt got me in check real quick
What's some game your pops told you
 

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What's some game your pops told you
my pops used to hit me and my brothers with the acronyms heavy lol

"the three B's":
ball, books, and bytches. :mjlol:

ball - playing sports, being physically fit and eating right
books - being intelligent + street smarts
bytches - having game

having all three meant you were doing big things but he always stressed understanding women the most. he told us countless stories of brothas he knew personally or read about, past & present who played pro ball or were ceo's and made millions only to ended up broke, locked up or dead because they didn't know how to deal with women. as men we strive to acquire resources and if we deal with the wrong woman, all of what we built can be destroyed.

then he hit us with "the three A's":
only fukk with women who are...
Approachable
Agreeable
and
Affordable

that shyt is self explanatory lol

ive been following the 3 a's and b's since i was a teenager and i can say my pops advice has never done me wrong!
 

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my pops used to hit me and my brothers with the acronyms heavy lol

"the three B's":
ball, books, and bytches. :mjlol:

ball - playing sports, being physically fit and eating right
books - being intelligent + street smarts
bytches - having game

having all three meant you were doing big things but he always stressed understanding women the most. he told us countless stories of brothas he knew personally or read about, past & present who played pro ball or were ceo's and made millions only to ended up broke, locked up or dead because they didn't know how to deal with women. as men we strive to acquire resources and if we deal with the wrong woman, all of what we built can be destroyed.

then he hit us with "the three A's":
only fukk with women who are...
Approachable
Agreeable
and
Affordable

that shyt is self explanatory lol

ive been following the 3 a's and b's since i was a teenager and i can say my pops advice has never done me wrong!


Solid advice.!

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my pops used to hit me and my brothers with the acronyms heavy lol

"the three B's":
ball, books, and bytches. :mjlol:

ball - playing sports, being physically fit and eating right
books - being intelligent + street smarts
bytches - having game

having all three meant you were doing big things but he always stressed understanding women the most. he told us countless stories of brothas he knew personally or read about, past & present who played pro ball or were ceo's and made millions only to ended up broke, locked up or dead because they didn't know how to deal with women. as men we strive to acquire resources and if we deal with the wrong woman, all of what we built can be destroyed.

then he hit us with "the three A's":
only fukk with women who are...
Approachable
Agreeable
and
Affordable

that shyt is self explanatory lol

ive been following the 3 a's and b's since i was a teenager and i can say my pops advice has never done me wrong!

bless ya pops, alot of brehs had fathers with moist pimp game

may i add saying "no" to a woman goes a long way
 

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but yeah i jumped on tinder again, got 5 numbers, got two certified chicks im looking to add to my roster , not bad for the first month of 2k19, haven't even reached my final form yet :ehh:
Yea I got a get on point. Yall making shyt happen
 
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Honestly this era has made me even more proud to be a man because it's easy to stand out in a world full of pussies. The more and more I get shamed for being a man, the more I feel compelled to double down on my machismo because I know the real ladies will appreciate it even when they don't want to. :yeshrug:

This is absolutely true.
 
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How do you guys message girls on IG?

I’m not talking about random ig thots.

I met this girl a few months back at a party, she is a friend of a friend of a friend. We talked a bit, but I was dating someone at the time so I never got her contact info.

Now that I’m single, I randomly thought of her and found her on ig... would it be strange to send her a friend request a few months later?
 
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