Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Question for brehs my age(25) or older:

How different are your tastes now compared to when you were younger?

Could be anything(personality/race/income)

Forgot to answer this:

- No c00ns. I was gonna check for this one broad I matched with when I first got on the apps, but she's been defending Liam Neeson HARD on IG over his comments which let's me know where her mind is, so it's a no from me.
- Not dating any chick who is super down for LGBTQ and thinks it's cool for boys to wear dresses and be effeminised and all that other weirdo shyt going on these days.
- Must be fairly slim and engage in some form of regular physical activity. Sorry, no so called 'BBWs' (which is just a nice way of saying fat).
- Has a good job. I'm not subsidising anyone.
- Must be totally FEMININE. I used to tolerate a bit of harshness/aggression, not any more.
- No children
 

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Man, the flakiness nowadays gets tiring. I mean, I get how the game goes nowadays with social media and dating apps giving women all kinds of options, but it's still hard on your psyche to have airtight game and be high value yet still have women ghosting you left and right :francis:

I'm a business owner making six figures, 5'11", well dressed, well groomed, 12% body fat, gym and active lifestyle, several women on Tinder have told me "I'm too cute to be on there," I'm usually the life of the party in social gatherings and I got enough game to where I can predict what dating coaches are gonna say majority of the time. Even with all that, last two months have been nothing but flakes despite all the conversations/dates going well. 14 strikes in two months brehs. Must be picking them wrong or something. This shyt never gets easier.
 

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Man, the flakiness nowadays gets tiring. I mean, I get how the game goes nowadays with social media and dating apps giving women all kinds of options, but it's still hard on your psyche to have airtight game and be high value yet still have women ghosting you left and right :francis:

I'm a business owner making six figures, 5'11", well dressed, well groomed, 12% body fat, gym and active lifestyle, several women on Tinder have told me "I'm too cute to be on there," I'm usually the life of the party in social gatherings and I got enough game to where I can predict what dating coaches are gonna say majority of the time. Even with all that, last two months have been nothing but flakes despite all the conversations/dates going well. 14 strikes in two months brehs. Must be picking them wrong or something. This shyt never gets easier.

nah you are not alone with this, expect a few disappointments these upcoming months breh

you have to remember , none of these tinder chicks are the grail, none of them are 11/10, alot of them have their own agenda , alot of them are actually boring to talk with

im a busy guy myself but have made time for two chicks in January both were enthusiastic in meeting and doing something, mind you i wasn't even trying to date the conversations just went in that direction , both flaked on me last minute, both responded hours later one of them be on whatsapp everyday but im not going to chase, ive got me a roster of hoes to fukk to sleep so i cant even be mad, its just funny observing women's behavior , but dont worry yourself, plenty more fish in the sea, that big fish will come.

another thing, maybe winter isn't the best time for this, personally for me winter is more for the chicks that are really down to fuk and spoon so maybe some of these chicks have someone else on stand by cause i know ive got 3 certified hoes on deck ready for dikk when i want it, spring time i'll jump back on tinder and do some more experiments
 

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Idk if I’m overthinking this but I’m in the Corporate party at this snazzy hote and One of our corporate sales people gets all buddy buddy with me. Mind you, she’s like 40ish married with 2 kids.

I told her I had an uncle in LA I planned on seeing in a few months, plus I had never been that far out west.

She then said that if I come to LA she’s show me a good time personally. Said that:

“Oh my husband and 2 kids are in LA but if we had to get away to San Diego then so be it”

I’m like :dwillhuh:

Is it just the wine or is ole girl really trynna tell me something.

She works remotely so that’s cool.

But if I was in LA I might give her a buzz:mjgrin:
 

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Man, the flakiness nowadays gets tiring. I mean, I get how the game goes nowadays with social media and dating apps giving women all kinds of options, but it's still hard on your psyche to have airtight game and be high value yet still have women ghosting you left and right :francis:

I'm a business owner making six figures, 5'11", well dressed, well groomed, 12% body fat, gym and active lifestyle, several women on Tinder have told me "I'm too cute to be on there," I'm usually the life of the party in social gatherings and I got enough game to where I can predict what dating coaches are gonna say majority of the time. Even with all that, last two months have been nothing but flakes despite all the conversations/dates going well. 14 strikes in two months brehs. Must be picking them wrong or something. This shyt never gets easier.
14 out of how many though.

The percentage is what matters, not the numbers. These chicks are CRAZY these days.
 

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To ATTRACT a woman, ignore her texts for a few hours/days
.To LOSE a woman, ignore her texts for a few hours/days.

If your bank account is good, she will think 24/7 about you, is not a matter of ignoring her is about what you have.

It's simple If she likes you, you dont have to do too much to have her. If she doesnt like you, dont force her to like you!!! Let her GO.


I went out to a club tonight and just observed the scene instead of approaching I just watched all the Alphas and beta males do their thing...Funny how you can see peoples essence when you really pay attention...I seen multiple girls give out their phone numbers to multiple guys...I had multiple women bumping into me all night long trying to get my validation attention I noticed. I just ignored all bumps and touches with a slight nonchalant gaze. Reality set in while I was just observing. That reality is I'm the prize and it wasn't not one attention seeking woman in there I wanted. Power is power...Seek power...Seek to be a powerfully grounded person Gents!!! Fix and focus on your self and your own personal issues for growth....The rest will follow....Then you will realize that the rest is just a distraction for you while you're in your pursuit of real power. I think the male species has it backwards now in days.... They seek money for p*ssy and power over the p*ssy when men should seek power overall in life in general for there own comfort...Men with no real power seeks validation from the posession of material things and other people...Powerful people are their own self sustaining Universe...
 

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nah you are not alone with this, expect a few disappointments these upcoming months breh

you have to remember , none of these tinder chicks are the grail, none of them are 11/10, alot of them have their own agenda , alot of them are actually boring to talk with

im a busy guy myself but have made time for two chicks in January both were enthusiastic in meeting and doing something, mind you i wasn't even trying to date the conversations just went in that direction , both flaked on me last minute, both responded hours later one of them be on whatsapp everyday but im not going to chase, ive got me a roster of hoes to fukk to sleep so i cant even be mad, its just funny observing women's behavior , but dont worry yourself, plenty more fish in the sea, that big fish will come.

another thing, maybe winter isn't the best time for this, personally for me winter is more for the chicks that are really down to fuk and spoon so maybe some of these chicks have someone else on stand by cause i know ive got 3 certified hoes on deck ready for dikk when i want it, spring time i'll jump back on tinder and do some more experiments

My hunch is that a lot of women see a guy with his shyt together and think "husband" which translates to "play games with him and hold out on the p*ssy to get him to commit fully." fukking warped thinking. You should be throwing high value men p*ssy ASAP to lock a breh down with the sweetness.

I'm thinking of getting a Harley-type cruiser bike, leather jacket and aviators to counteract the "husband" vibes I'm sending these bytches. Won't ride the bike much though, that shyt is dangerous as fukk.
 
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My hunch is that a lot of women see a guy with his shyt together and think "husband" which translates to "play games with him and hold out on the p*ssy to get him to commit fully." fukking warped thinking. You should be throwing high value men p*ssy ASAP to lock a breh down with the sweetness.

I'm thinking of getting a Harley-type cruiser bike, leather jacket and aviators to counteract the "husband" vibes I'm sending these bytches. Won't ride the bike much though, that shyt is dangerous as fukk.
im always the first to say how flakey the are but...

how are you on the dates? is it like...just getting to know you vs. im trying to fukk you tonight?
maybe youre playing the nice guy role and not more fukkboy-ish. or you could be coming across too high value and they think youre arrogant.
 
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Dudes really still think money can get women to like you, no money makes women tolerate you. Plenty of broke dudes out here that have gorgeous women in love with them. You have to be yourself explore and find the kind of women that like you. I’ve sadly graduated out of stage where hoodrata like me(my favorites to just fukk) but quality women seem to seek my attention when I approach them. I truly think every man can attract good looking women but it may just be a specific kind of women you attract. Stop trying to force it with one kind of women and truly find yours. You May be the kind of guy that attracts nerds and there’s plenty of attractive nerdy women that are looking just as hard for dikk than it is ig thot type of women.
 
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