Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[OSUBaneBrowns]

Fellas I need some advice on one of these gal on campus, this is a really shy gal (if that matters)

About a year ago, when my game was still wack, I wasn't good with talking to girls then, I saw this gal that caught my eye, I approached her and got her BBM pin even though it was an awkward approach. I approached her just before everyone was going home for summer, so I couldnt set up anything because we couldnt see each other, my only option is message on the phone We talked on BBM for a few weeks, she started to take time to respond to my messages, I sensed disinterest, then few days later she deleted me off her BBM

When the semester resumed after summer, each time we bumped in to each other on campus we just said "hi" n "bye". We never talked, I accepted she might not have been feeling me, I moved on, got other gals n got better with my social skills with girls

fast forward now, on Thursday we were in the same club, the whole night she was watching a niggga, making eye contact throughout the night, what should I do fellas?

The first time I approached her I made loads of mistakes, it was an awkward approach and her being shy made it worse , I avoided making a phone call to her because my social skills were wack then, I was busy texting/bbming because it was safe and comfortable. Over the year since then I have had other gals and am now a confident n better dude

What advice can u give me fellas????especially a gal who has seen my wack side.

When you see her the next time, just make small talk but don't ask for her number/bbm unless she ask to do something. She blew you off before so don't chase her. Keep doing you and make her see that you are not the same dude that you was before. She may give you a 2nd shot if you play your cards right.

 

[kevm3]

man it's just amazing what being blessed with this knowledge will do for you and even how God will bring certain revelations to your life.

Been talking friendly to this girl for a while but was thinking about getting at her, but ended up finding she is pregnant. I knew that 'friend' of hers was much more lol. Dodged a bullet there.

It's cool getting to the point in your life where you really aren't tripping off of females like that and just having the knowledge that doing the dinner thing with a woman that ain't yours is sucka business. Helps keep a ton of money in your pocket and keeps you from looking crusty out there.

 

[kevm3]

Yeah, I'm just gonna treat her how I've always have. I'll speak, but won't go out of my way. Now if she goes out of her way to converse with me, then that'll give me a better gauge of the situation.

honestly, don't even trip off of her. A lot of those gym women are real friendly, but I'm not going to say disqualify her off the bat. Sit back and chop it up with her and if the vibe is real cool, invite her out if that's what you feel like doing. But then again, if your gut is telling you otherwise, leave it alone, because the gut has a way of picking up on knowledge the brain overlooks. My thing though is I don't know if I could take overly friendly girls too serious for the long term.

 

[sixsixtwo]

– An Interview with a Wingwoman

 

[darius19]

what percentage of women do you guys think are wifey material? It seems like less than 5% to me

 

[TRUEST]

honestly, don't even trip off of her. A lot of those gym women are real friendly, but I'm not going to say disqualify her off the bat. Sit back and chop it up with her and if the vibe is real cool, invite her out if that's what you feel like doing. But then again, if your gut is telling you otherwise, leave it alone, because the gut has a way of picking up on knowledge the brain overlooks. My thing though is I don't know if I could take overly friendly girls too serious for the long term.

nah u cant. like that chick at my job who i later found out had a husband, i dont know man, i dont want my wife or girl being that friendly with anyone of the opposite sex.

u should see this girl. i hardly ever see her in the company of just women. friendliness like that begs for trouble cause i know if given the tiniest of chances those lames would fucck with the quickness.

 

[DaRealness]

what percentage of women do you guys think are wifey material? It seems like less than 5% to me

I dunno, what percentage of women do YOU think are wifey material?

 

[Po pimp]

Fellas I need some advice on one of these gal on campus, this is a really shy gal (if that matters)

About a year ago, when my game was still wack, I wasn't good with talking to girls then, I saw this gal that caught my eye, I approached her and got her BBM pin even though it was an awkward approach. I approached her just before everyone was going home for summer, so I couldnt set up anything because we couldnt see each other, my only option is message on the phone We talked on BBM for a few weeks, she started to take time to respond to my messages, I sensed disinterest, then few days later she deleted me off her BBM

When the semester resumed after summer, each time we bumped in to each other on campus we just said "hi" n "bye". We never talked, I accepted she might not have been feeling me, I moved on, got other gals n got better with my social skills with girls

fast forward now, on Thursday we were in the same club, the whole night she was watching a niggga, making eye contact throughout the night, what should I do fellas?

The first time I approached her I made loads of mistakes, it was an awkward approach and her being shy made it worse , I avoided making a phone call to her because my social skills were wack then, I was busy texting/bbming because it was safe and comfortable. Over the year since then I have had other gals and am now a confident n better dude

What advice can u give me fellas????especially a gal who has seen my wack side.

Real talk, she already dissed you before, and you have since moved on to other chicks. I wouldn't even dwell on the past if I were you.

 

[Turbulent]

Real talk, she already dissed you before, and you have since moved on to other chicks. I wouldn't even dwell on the past if I were you.

it's kinda like stocks.

she could have bought shares in you when your price was low. maybe she saw your potential but at the same time the way you were acting made you a risky investment in her eyes. so she passed.

it's nothing personal. now your company seems to be doing a lot better and she's interested in buying. don't hold a grudge. it's business, nothing personal. but at the same time you gotta sell at a higher price. don't give her the same price you gave her back then. meaning back then you made it easy on her (low price). now you gotta make her come after you if she wants to buy (higher price). let her decide if she's buying or not but you set the price. if she doesn't, someone else will.

in other words, don't even sweat her. let her do the choosing and come to you. if she doesn't who gives a fukk. but don't be mean and don't hold a grudge. let her make ther move.

 

[International Playa]

it's kinda like stocks.

she could have bought shares in you when your price was low. maybe she saw your potential but at the same time the way you were acting made you a risky investment in her eyes. so she passed.

it's nothing personal. now your company seems to be doing a lot better and she's interested in buying. don't hold a grudge. it's business, nothing personal. but at the same time you gotta sell at a higher price. don't give her the same price you gave her back then. meaning back then you made it easy on her (low price). now you gotta make her come after you if she wants to buy (higher price). let her decide if she's buying or not but you set the price. if she doesn't, someone else will.

in other words, don't even sweat her. let her do the choosing and come to you. if she doesn't who gives a fukk. but don't be mean and don't hold a grudge. let her make ther move.

But she is a shy girl, breh, she will never make the first move

 

[sixsixtwo]

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[Ohene]

But she is a shy girl, breh, she will never make the first move

a risk averse investor isnt gonna make any money either. fukk her. why do you want her so bad anyway?

 

[International Playa]

a risk averse investor isnt gonna make any money either. fukk her. why do you want her so bad anyway?

Nah breh, it's only been lately whenever we are in the same venue (house party, club etc), she just be staring @ me

 

[killacal]

Fellas I need some advice on one of these gal on campus, this is a really shy gal (if that matters)

About a year ago, when my game was still wack, I wasn't good with talking to girls then, I saw this gal that caught my eye, I approached her and got her BBM pin even though it was an awkward approach. I approached her just before everyone was going home for summer, so I couldnt set up anything because we couldnt see each other, my only option is message on the phone We talked on BBM for a few weeks, she started to take time to respond to my messages, I sensed disinterest, then few days later she deleted me off her BBM

When the semester resumed after summer, each time we bumped in to each other on campus we just said "hi" n "bye". We never talked, I accepted she might not have been feeling me, I moved on, got other gals n got better with my social skills with girls

fast forward now, on Thursday we were in the same club, the whole night she was watching a niggga, making eye contact throughout the night, what should I do fellas?

The first time I approached her I made loads of mistakes, it was an awkward approach and her being shy made it worse , I avoided making a phone call to her because my social skills were wack then, I was busy texting/bbming because it was safe and comfortable. Over the year since then I have had other gals and am now a confident n better dude

What advice can u give me fellas????especially a gal who has seen my wack side.

Throw your feelings for her in the bushes. You initially had a chance with her as there is no such things as an awkward introduction. Its only as awkward as you allow it to be. When she slowed down responding to you, you should have realized that was your cue and dead it.

Now back to the club meeting heres where things get a little weird. A girl who may not feel/like you, will jock you in a club because other females are joking. Trust me that chick is still wasting your time, the only chance you have is to pull her again while at the club which is probably your best bet if youre stuck on her.But again detach yourself emotionally and ask yourself if you should even give this chick the time of day after she played you.

And no shes not shy if shes in a club breh

Nah breh, it's only been lately whenever we are in the same venue (house party, club etc), she just be staring @ me

Im assuming you're in college? If so go out and try to get as many girls as possible youll regret not doing that later. Also dont be stuck on her on some I want what I cant have shyt