Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Mansur Brown - "Heiwa"
"So serious, so comfortable, so silly at times she said im wonderful, median she chilling wit because im comfortable doing my own thing im comfortable man, So serious, so comfortable, so silly at times she said im wonderful, won't bring drama to your crib coz im comfortable doing my own thing"
Ever since i first heard this song back in 02 i've set along my life to be as "comfortable" as i can be.( and this thread has spurred me on to keep this up) Especially in this life where we can be easily convinced to be this or that or by chasing this you will be happy. At the end of the day being comfortable is where i wanna be. I have no real goals or rather i have no stringent goals that i MUST attain. Just some ideas and dreams that if they pan out will be cool and if not que sera sera.
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darius19
R.I.P. Kobe and Nip, that’s off the rip
need your advice brehs
lets say theres a chick you had a thing with but suddenly broke it off (no texting, calls, etc), and havent seen her for 6 months. How should I play it next time I see her at a party or whatever (which is probably gonna be soon)
lets say theres a chick you had a thing with but suddenly broke it off (no texting, calls, etc), and havent seen her for 6 months. How should I play it next time I see her at a party or whatever (which is probably gonna be soon)
Don't take her serious and don't worry about approaching her or doing anything at all. If she can stuff you in the background so quick and just flat out ignore you, she places little real value on you, so attempting to take her serious in any regard will result in a waste of your time. If you see her and chop it up, enjoy that little interaction, but gameplanning to catch this gal is a waste of your time.
There's pretty much three categories of women. There are those that actually like you, there are those who like what you can do for them and there are those who don't like you at all.
The women that like you for you are the ones who you never really have to put much effort into getting their time. They do what it takes to spend time with you. They hang on to your every word. They are always friendly to you.
Those that like what you can do for them are the women that MAY act friendly, but only after some condition is met. Like maybe they weren't feeling you before and wasn't giving you any time, but as soon as they see you rolling in a fly car, all of a sudden they dig you. These are the gold diggers and fame jockers. These are the leeches. This is the category of woman who will pay you time, but will require you to take her to dinner, take her to the movies, entertain her, buy her gifts, etc. Once you cease doing that, she ceases dealing with you... hence, she likes what you can do for her. This kind of girl, you do not deal with.
The last category is obvious enough. This is the brand of women that just ain't feeling you. This is where a lot of men get stashed into the friend category, because they keep doing anything to win the affections of the type of women that ain't feeling them. The woman isn't really feeling you, she doesn't want to use you, but she doesn't want to hurt your feelings, so she stuffs you in the buddy category. When coming across this kind of woman, just learn to cut your losses and keep it pushing.
The key to winning in this game is to learn to deal with women that like you for you and that want to be caught. As you notice, it's a COMPLETELY different interaction between these categories of women. In the first category, the woman is mad easy to talk to, you will have a lot of fun with her, and everything is smooth. In the second category, it can be a lot of fun, but it is an illusion. She is cool with you until she gets what she wants. This second and third category is where a lot of men can really get caught up and get played because they aren't watchful.
When a woman doesn't like you, and thus has no feelings for you, she can justify doing just about anything to you if that is what is in her moral make-up. This is why I see the second category of the one who likes what you can do for them as the absolute worst to deal with... They can feign interest in you, but once they got what they want or if you won't give it to them, you become completely expendable in their eyes.
ALWAYS deal with the first category of woman. This will make things 10,000 times easier. If you have to bedazzle a woman, do these magic tricks, buy her dinners or all sorts of trickery to maintain her interest, then she isn't for you. Learning how to successfully classify women will save you a ton of time and sanity in the future.
The women that like you for you are the ones who you never really have to put much effort into getting their time. They do what it takes to spend time with you. They hang on to your every word. They are always friendly to you.
Those that like what you can do for them are the women that MAY act friendly, but only after some condition is met. Like maybe they weren't feeling you before and wasn't giving you any time, but as soon as they see you rolling in a fly car, all of a sudden they dig you. These are the gold diggers and fame jockers. These are the leeches. This is the category of woman who will pay you time, but will require you to take her to dinner, take her to the movies, entertain her, buy her gifts, etc. Once you cease doing that, she ceases dealing with you... hence, she likes what you can do for her. This kind of girl, you do not deal with.
The last category is obvious enough. This is the brand of women that just ain't feeling you. This is where a lot of men get stashed into the friend category, because they keep doing anything to win the affections of the type of women that ain't feeling them. The woman isn't really feeling you, she doesn't want to use you, but she doesn't want to hurt your feelings, so she stuffs you in the buddy category. When coming across this kind of woman, just learn to cut your losses and keep it pushing.
The key to winning in this game is to learn to deal with women that like you for you and that want to be caught. As you notice, it's a COMPLETELY different interaction between these categories of women. In the first category, the woman is mad easy to talk to, you will have a lot of fun with her, and everything is smooth. In the second category, it can be a lot of fun, but it is an illusion. She is cool with you until she gets what she wants. This second and third category is where a lot of men can really get caught up and get played because they aren't watchful.
When a woman doesn't like you, and thus has no feelings for you, she can justify doing just about anything to you if that is what is in her moral make-up. This is why I see the second category of the one who likes what you can do for them as the absolute worst to deal with... They can feign interest in you, but once they got what they want or if you won't give it to them, you become completely expendable in their eyes.
ALWAYS deal with the first category of woman. This will make things 10,000 times easier. If you have to bedazzle a woman, do these magic tricks, buy her dinners or all sorts of trickery to maintain her interest, then she isn't for you. Learning how to successfully classify women will save you a ton of time and sanity in the future.
I have to give
to The Coli about that. Those mods on SOHH were power hungry and mad disrespectful. Maybe SOHH's demise was really for the best, cause they treated posters on some terrorist shyt. Like what happened to Reincar and that mini war with them shaming tactics.
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I think its that chick Malfoy or something. She and a couple of other chicks ganged up on him and said all kinds of degrading terms like "black c00n" "simp ass nikka" "no p*ssy getting ass nikka." Talking about some shyt that even the devil would have been in awe. That is the type of shaming language that women use on men that they cannot control. That's why this thread been made cause it can preserve masculinity while effectively combat against those false and degrading terms.
i only see two categories there. those that like you and those that don't. all women like what you can do for them even the ones that don't like you.
I think the honest secret of getting women and blowing this whole thing open and the one principal that every man that wants success with women should master is Indifference.
a lot of men stumble upon this saying stuff like for some reason when i have a girlfriend all women want me. that's indifference. when you have that girl your needs are being met and the rest of these chicks don't matter to you.
i've heard people say confidence is important when getting women. well indifference makes confidence irrelevant and is more attractive to women than confidence anyway. they say women want what they can't have and when you become indifferent you become the thing they can't have.
i can best describe indifference as this: there's a woman and you know for a fact she likes you but you're lukewarm on her at best and you decide that you'll give her a chance and if she acts right she might get the pleasure of sucking your dikk. imagine the power you could have if you walked up to a dime that found you attractive and had that attitude. in a world where men bend over backwards to get at her you're the guy that really doesn't give a shyt.
in any deal the person that cares the least holds all the power. indifference is only gonna work on women that find you at least somewhat attractive though. if she's not into you at all and you don't care then nothing from nothing leaves nothing.
the paradox is how does one master indifference? how do you not care about something you want? the answer probably is to stop wanting it, stop valuing it.
a lot of men stumble upon this saying stuff like for some reason when i have a girlfriend all women want me. that's indifference. when you have that girl your needs are being met and the rest of these chicks don't matter to you.
i've heard people say confidence is important when getting women. well indifference makes confidence irrelevant and is more attractive to women than confidence anyway. they say women want what they can't have and when you become indifferent you become the thing they can't have.
i can best describe indifference as this: there's a woman and you know for a fact she likes you but you're lukewarm on her at best and you decide that you'll give her a chance and if she acts right she might get the pleasure of sucking your dikk. imagine the power you could have if you walked up to a dime that found you attractive and had that attitude. in a world where men bend over backwards to get at her you're the guy that really doesn't give a shyt.
in any deal the person that cares the least holds all the power. indifference is only gonna work on women that find you at least somewhat attractive though. if she's not into you at all and you don't care then nothing from nothing leaves nothing.
the paradox is how does one master indifference? how do you not care about something you want? the answer probably is to stop wanting it, stop valuing it.
All women nag, it's just as a male how much can you take?
Women complain about the smallest things in life, yet they get mat leave, child benefits, flex hours etc.,
It's why western women are the worst, women in Africa getting their genitals multitated, gang raped, women in the Middle East not having their full rights to vote etc. yet try dont woe is me as much as these privileged western women.
No one tells these chicks to whore around, wear scandalous clothes erc
They dug their hole.
Women complain about the smallest things in life, yet they get mat leave, child benefits, flex hours etc.,
It's why western women are the worst, women in Africa getting their genitals multitated, gang raped, women in the Middle East not having their full rights to vote etc. yet try dont woe is me as much as these privileged western women.
No one tells these chicks to whore around, wear scandalous clothes erc
They dug their hole.
When there is no enemy within, the enemies outside cannot hurt you.
DeuceZ
Li pitit gason
hmmm so stopping to put the **** on a pedestal
Dale Carnegie said in his book that "you can measure the size of a person by what makes him or her angry."
When I read that it hit me like a brick in the head. Of course!!! It's what separates adults from children. Children are supposed to be the ones that stomp their feet every time one of their little caprices aren't being met, not fukking women.
How am I supposed to take most of these broads seriously when they get upset or cry their eyes out over the smallest, pettiest of reasons? They aren't aware or won't spare a thought to the many social injustices being perpetrated daily against people and all the other fukked up shyt in this world, yet they go out of their mind over a supposedly 'offensive' comment or perceived slight?
How can I trust my significant other to stay strong and support me during painful times when she gets upset because Sally made a comment about her makeup at work or that I asked her to be quiet while I'm watching the game? How can my s/o stay strong and support me during financial troubles, illness, losing a parent, a child being seriously sick(god forbid) or all the other fukked up shyt that happens in life when she goes psychotic if I don't get her a gift on Valentine's day?