Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[LeVraiPapi]

Update: Tried to set something up with ole girl for this weekend. She said she's headed back up to NYC for the weekend.

I'm not much of a texter and I really don't like to over talk to a chick on the phone. At least until we've built up a rapport after in person meetings. I'll just lay low until next week and try to set something up. I know some people will say having too long a period of silence might handicap me, but I really think you gotta do as much in person communication as possible, especially early on.

This is gonna be what I touch on, on part 2.

Breh, hit her up and let her know why you hitting her up. It sounds like a neutral innocent reason. see how she responds and take it from there.

 

[phcitywarrior]

This is gonna be what I touch on, on part 2.

Breh, hit her up and let her know why you hitting her up. It sounds like a neutral innocent reason. see how she responds and take it from there.

I'll be interested to hear your take on this. I'm not really a fan of just talking on the phone. I like to meet in person and get things flowing from there. But let me wait on your part 2.

 

[LeVraiPapi]

I'll be interested to hear your take on this. I'm not really a fan of just talking on the phone. I like to meet in person and get things flowing from there. But let me wait on your part 2.

How interested are you in this chick? Are you trynna smash or build ? Do you wanna obtain her?

That will determine your course of actions.

 

[phcitywarrior]

How interested are you in this chick? Are you trynna smash or build ? Do you wanna obtain her?

That will determine your course of actions.

Not gonna lie. She caught my eye because she had a phatty

But after our convo there could be potential in having something there. She seems pretty smart and has a good head on her shoulders.

But let's say of all intents and purposes I want something casual for the time being. I'm just not at the stage where I'd want to date a girl seriously, at least for these couple of months I'm at.

Let's be honest, a reason a good number of guys cuff a chick is for regular action. The casual dating market by and large favours women over men. For it to make sense for a guy you have to be a volume shooter and that takes a lot of time. Something I'm more and more squeezed on.

 

[BeeGoinCrazy]

Older coli homies I need some guidance. A female I’m talking to said she had a fwb in the past, all while saying “nikkas just want pussc” She likes me a whole lot and I was feeling her too. We not gone have nothing after this revelation but I’m tryna find out what to do. I don’t want to be rude or no shyt

 

[Sonny Bonds]

What happened breh?

We met up to go to a free comedy show (her idea). At the bar, we had a drink, before the show started. She had a beer (I kinda took this as she didn't want to drink too much alcohol). Anyway, the conversation was good and then we watched the show. I walked her most of the way to her hotel and then it was just a hug and over. I didn't really get any signs from her. She seemed kinda prudish. I tried to keep things light and be fun. I don't know what happened really.

 

[Ahadi]

We met up to go to a free comedy show (her idea). At the bar, we had a drink, before the show started. She had a beer (I kinda took this as she didn't want to drink too much alcohol). Anyway, the conversation was good and then we watched the show. I walked her most of the way to her hotel and then it was just a hug and over. I didn't really get any signs from her. She seemed kinda prudish. I tried to keep things light and be fun. I don't know what happened really.

I feel like she might of wanted you to be “tour guide nikka” ... she probably wanted to go to a poppin spot.

A lot of hoes do this. They’ll tel you they’re visiting your city, but not necessarily for you, but for your resources & to get fukked by someone else. She definitely had a game plan for why she decided to come here, whether it be a certain concert, or an event. Figured you might of had some pull.

 

[SATAN]

We met up to go to a free comedy show (her idea). At the bar, we had a drink, before the show started. She had a beer (I kinda took this as she didn't want to drink too much alcohol). Anyway, the conversation was good and then we watched the show. I walked her most of the way to her hotel and then it was just a hug and over. I didn't really get any signs from her. She seemed kinda prudish. I tried to keep things light and be fun. I don't know what happened really.

You needed to escalate more

 

[Travelnomad]

Older coli homies I need some guidance. A female I’m talking to said she had a fwb in the past, all while saying “nikkas just want pussc” She likes me a whole lot and I was feeling her too. We not gone have nothing after this revelation but I’m tryna find out what to do. I don’t want to be rude or no shyt

what’s the issue ? Her having a FWB from the past ?

 

[George Gooney]

BREHS!!!!! Why y’all ain’t tell me That Snapchat shyt be snitching!!!!! I chick sent me a vid of her playing with her p*ssy and I tried to screen record it and Snapchat SNITCHED!!!!! WHAT THE fukk??? That’s why I don’t fukk with social media!!!!!

 

[Koli_Kat]

BREHS!!!!! Why y’all ain’t tell me That Snapchat shyt be snitching!!!!! I chick sent me a vid of her playing with her p*ssy and I tried to screen record it and Snapchat SNITCHED!!!!! WHAT THE fukk??? That’s why I don’t fukk with social media!!!!!

Gotta record with another phone on top bro... Creep game 101

 

[George Gooney]

Gotta record with another phone on top bro... Creep game 101

Breh what the duck is wrong with Snapchat??? That’s why this bytch made me download it SMH!!!!!! I didn’t know it on that 69 shyt. I’m disgusted.

 

[BeeGoinCrazy]

what’s the issue ? Her having a FWB from the past ?

She let bro hit raw, but I got it handled thanks tho

 

[bucks3115]

If you just wanna smash, then play along and ask her what she wanna drink and if she wants you to pick up lunch. Play all along until you smash her a good 3-5 times, then taper off of her. She likes attention and she always at the club. She went there without you. So, you never know what would happen if she didn't run into you. Some other guy could have gotten lucky. She was talking to you while in a relationship. Red flag.

If you like her and want a relationship, then have her over and lead from the start. Even little things like telling her to wash her hands and compliment her. Then, you should smash and slow it down with her so you don't end up getting hurt. She seems like a fun girl who loves to have fun. Just be careful letting that girl have your heart and your time. Unless you cool with her doing her.

she finally came , we had a great time
we talked for hours (like getting to know each other) she even cooked for me

she did admit that she like me but look like she want to take it sloww cuz she used to see me with different girls

anyway she comin again next week

i wont lie, i feelin her too
shuld i take it slow or go faster

 

[LeVraiPapi]

she finally came , we had a great time
we talked for hours (like getting to know each other) she even cooked for me

she did admit that she like me but look like she want to take it sloww cuz she used to see me with different girls

anyway she comin again next week

i wont lie, i feelin her too
shuld i take it slow or go faster

If she used to see you with other girls, then dont go fast. Make her feel different. Flirt with her more to warm her up and tease her. Dont show her tou wanna get in her pants too quick. Show self control, patience and some nonchalance here and there breh. Then, one day while she at your spot go for the kill after warming her up. Do you touch her face, arms, or hair? Start by touching her.