Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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If a chick ever tells you something like:

"If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best"

or

"I need a man strong enough to handle me"


and you still end up choosing her? you lose the right to say "there were no signs she would be crazy" when shyt hits the fan. Let the suckers "handle" her.

:wow: so true

my girl said the same thing when we had our first real argument. all i said was something along the lines of "if you think you need to be handled like some deranged wild animal, we should stop talking. "


she responded on some "you right, im sorry :to: " type shyt. but i realize that attitude is laying dormant.
 

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@Nudie that is true

Go do a search on a dating website women 27-32 who want a ltr and you will be like :wow:

yeah, that's when it's just sad. women my age (28) out there looking straight up lost. they all searching for a "real man" too.
 
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I'm really thinking of pursuing this 21 y.o. I met a week ago. She was the one making the effort to to see me, no nagging, driving all over South FL to be where I'm at. It's so refreshing being chased and not doing the chasing that it kind of blew my mind a little. She's Latina BTW.

Her body is :ohlawd: and :whew: I just laugh at how many dudes sweat her and she ignores them and directs all of her attention to me.

I hope she isn't just being on her best behavior because we just met. They say if something is to good to be true it probably is... But I want it to be true. :snoop:

:noah: I'm trying really hard to prevent simp mode from being activated. Knowing that age doesn't really guarantee that she's a good or a bad choice weather she's younger or my age, ain't helping either

I need help brehs :to:
 

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I'm really thinking of pursuing this 21 y.o. I met a week ago. She was the one making the effort to to see me, no nagging, driving all over South FL to be where I'm at. It's so refreshing being chased and not doing the chasing that it kind of blew my mind a little. She's Latina BTW.

Her body is :ohlawd: and :whew: I just laugh at how many dudes sweat her and she ignores them and directs all of her attention to me.

I hope she isn't just being on her best behavior because we just met. They say if something is to good to be true it probably is... But I want it to be true. :snoop:

:noah: I'm trying really hard to prevent simp mode from being activated. Knowing that age doesn't really guarantee that she's a good or a bad choice weather she's younger or my age, ain't helping either

I need help brehs :to:

Remember your code...save your dignity and self-respect at all costs.

With that said...ask her out, talk to her...see where her head is, background, etc.
 

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I'm really thinking of pursuing this 21 y.o. I met a week ago. She was the one making the effort to to see me, no nagging, driving all over South FL to be where I'm at. It's so refreshing being chased and not doing the chasing that it kind of blew my mind a little. She's Latina BTW.

Her body is :ohlawd: and :whew: I just laugh at how many dudes sweat her and she ignores them and directs all of her attention to me.

I hope she isn't just being on her best behavior because we just met. They say if something is to good to be true it probably is... But I want it to be true. :snoop:

:noah: I'm trying really hard to prevent simp mode from being activated. Knowing that age doesn't really guarantee that she's a good or a bad choice weather she's younger or my age, ain't helping either

I need help brehs :to:
Don't front on her or try to "act" too cool with her.

but at the same time realize she's treating you this way because she's attracted to who you are right now. If you start simping on her then you will become someone else in her eyes and you won't be who she was treating good so she'll look for a guy like she wants elsewhere. in other words, if you want her to keep treating you like she does, keep being that dude.
 

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I'm really thinking of pursuing this 21 y.o. I met a week ago. She was the one making the effort to to see me, no nagging, driving all over South FL to be where I'm at. It's so refreshing being chased and not doing the chasing that it kind of blew my mind a little. She's Latina BTW.

Her body is :ohlawd: and :whew: I just laugh at how many dudes sweat her and she ignores them and directs all of her attention to me.

I hope she isn't just being on her best behavior because we just met. They say if something is to good to be true it probably is... But I want it to be true. :snoop:

:noah: I'm trying really hard to prevent simp mode from being activated. Knowing that age doesn't really guarantee that she's a good or a bad choice weather she's younger or my age, ain't helping either

I need help brehs :to:

How old are you? You gotta be careful with this one....she might get attached to early and your gonna have a hard time lettin loose.
 

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I'm really thinking of pursuing this 21 y.o. I met a week ago. She was the one making the effort to to see me, no nagging, driving all over South FL to be where I'm at. It's so refreshing being chased and not doing the chasing that it kind of blew my mind a little. She's Latina BTW.

Her body is :ohlawd: and :whew: I just laugh at how many dudes sweat her and she ignores them and directs all of her attention to me.

I hope she isn't just being on her best behavior because we just met. They say if something is to good to be true it probably is... But I want it to be true. :snoop:

:noah: I'm trying really hard to prevent simp mode from being activated. Knowing that age doesn't really guarantee that she's a good or a bad choice weather she's younger or my age, ain't helping either

I need help brehs :to:

im no expert breh

but whatever you do DO NOT ACTIVATE SIMP MODE
 

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I'm really thinking of pursuing this 21 y.o. I met a week ago. She was the one making the effort to to see me, no nagging, driving all over South FL to be where I'm at. It's so refreshing being chased and not doing the chasing that it kind of blew my mind a little. She's Latina BTW.

Her body is :ohlawd: and :whew: I just laugh at how many dudes sweat her and she ignores them and directs all of her attention to me.

I hope she isn't just being on her best behavior because we just met. They say if something is to good to be true it probably is... But I want it to be true. :snoop:

:noah: I'm trying really hard to prevent simp mode from being activated. Knowing that age doesn't really guarantee that she's a good or a bad choice weather she's younger or my age, ain't helping either

I need help brehs :to:

Just joke on her and reveal as little as you possibly can. Plus don't do no dinner/ movie date either.
 

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She introduced you to her friends after 1 week? :what:


:whoa: something not right here


how are her friends like tho? :ld:

Her friends a cool, they seem like they got her back and her theirs.

Yeah i know how that appears ... but, Well we all kinda met at the same time... Since I was already familiar with the first set of friends, and you know how women talk among themselves, I guess I came up in the discussion with her other friends. And I guess her other friends wanted to know who I was
 

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brehs you ever chill with a brawd and she's always on her phone then when you alone and text her and she takes forever to respond? :beli:
 
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