VertigoKnight
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Yeah it sucks, seeing the enthusiasm leak from the convo. But all you can do is fall back. In some cases some chicks circle back round, by that point it's up to you if you think they're still worth pursuing.
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Yeah it sucks, seeing the enthusiasm leak from the convo. But all you can do is fall back. In some cases some chicks circle back round, by that point it's up to you if you think they're still worth pursuing.
The Radiant One
Superstar
Hinge has changed the game I only have Tinder and Hinge bumble is wack
Malik1time
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Since my breakup it’s been hard to go out and get drinks/club etc
none of my friends wanna go and I really want to go and dance and enjoy myself
meanwhile when others are down and out I’m first to cheer them up idk guys I feel alone at times...where my real friends at and I don’t think I got the confidence to go to a bar/club alone
none of my friends wanna go and I really want to go and dance and enjoy myself meanwhile when others are down and out I’m first to cheer them up idk guys I feel alone at times...where my real friends at and I don’t think I got the confidence to go to a bar/club aloneThey're not your real friends if they don't support you during a tough timeSince my breakup it’s been hard to go out and get drinks/club etc
Rich Spirit
#LeveledUp
Being on a dry spell will make you do some uncharacteristic shyt 
Since my breakup it’s been hard to go out and get drinks/club etc
We went over this
You need to learn how to be emotionally self-sufficient and how to not need other people to help you feel happy. You have to know how to cheer yourself up when something like this happens to you. It's normal to feel sad for a min, but you have to know how to feel happy without others inviting you to hang out.
You can't truly rely on anyone else for shyt, just remember that.
EDIT: I don't mean to just cut everyone off and be alone. But just don't expect to be able to rely on anyone for shyt. Don't expect anyone to repay your kindness. Could be your wife, your parents, your best friend of 15 years, whoever.
Regarding going out solo:
Check out my previous post here.
https://www.thecoli.com/posts/36367916/
U might be coming off like a relationship dude. I get asked that but it’s usually later in the convo and they move on quick after I tell them.
I’ve actually had girls that never asked me at all, and I guess it feels good? I’m assuming she doesn’t care and just wants me? Lol
Just be vague as possible and don’t mention much. Works every time.
I don’t even say much, I just go direct. Maybe I gotta change my photos up. I got a lot of travel photos.
Lol it’s hilarious you have to come off as a scumbag to get women to not act different and put you in a category as opposed to being a good dude and being put in a relationship category.
What app you use? Idk my pics make me come off like I’m nice I think? Idk, I am glad they don’t ask like that, but I don’t know why.
I mean they do, but that’s way later in the convo. It doesn’t mean you come off as a relationship guy off the bat, it could be because of the photos and it looks like you have money maybe?
It puts more pressure on you when she thinks highly of you. Happened a lot to me. Some let you fukk, some are surprised you want to fukk so quick and want to try to hold out so you don’t think they’re a slut.
The girls I fukked that wanted a relationship from me tried to use their p*ssy to get me.
They would be surprised that I didn’t wife them, like I’m supposed to commit to you because we fukked lmao.
Yeah though, women like getting treated like shyt, that nice guy shyt does not cut it.
Real talk. I say less on purpose. Throw my google number out, to cut the text bs and meet face to face ASAP
hinge: yeah exact situation as you. Some ask later. Others ask right off the bat & get mad when I don’t tell em. Few girls threatened to unmatch if I didn’t tell em. I’m just like, I’ll let you know when we link.
What are the rules about hollering at bartenders?