Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Sonny Bonds]

U might be coming off like a relationship dude. I get asked that but it’s usually later in the convo and they move on quick after I tell them.

I’ve actually had girls that never asked me at all, and I guess it feels good? I’m assuming she doesn’t care and just wants me? Lol

Just be vague as possible and don’t mention much. Works every time.

She asked what I do saying she was just curious. I say, "IT at a startup" and then she asks what startup.

Why does she want to know that?

 

[Balla]

She asked what I do saying she was just curious. I say, "IT at a startup" and then she asks what startup.

Why does she want to know that?

Bro idk why they would ask even more, that’s weird. I don’t get asked anything else after I say what I do.

I say it, then we go right to the next topic quickly.

Try this; if they ask tell them those two things vaguely, say IT, and if she ask where tell her a company out in .... lie to the bytch, or ask her why you wanna know all that?

Maybe the girl is into IT? Me personally I would ask her why she need to know all that? Make her seem like she’s being noisy and has to fall back.

I do that all the time, and you have the right too; it’s your fukkin business she doesn’t need to know all that shyt and shouldn’t really.

Don’t try to do it like you’re angry, it’s more of a, you’re weird for tryna find out where I work type thing, you can smile about it.

Or just be very very vague, I do that all of the time even with nosey people that I know that are tryna know all my business.

I tell I do such n such, they ask where, say start up company and keep it moving to something else quick.

Next time don’t even say start up in IT, just say IT and keep it moving to another question you want to ask her.

what did u say when she asked you what start up?

@TheManFromVA use this too.

 

[Malik1time]

We went over this



You need to learn how to be emotionally self-sufficient and how to not need other people to help you feel happy. You have to know how to cheer yourself up when something like this happens to you. It's normal to feel sad for a min, but you have to know how to feel happy without others inviting you to hang out.

You can't truly rely on anyone else for shyt, just remember that.

EDIT: I don't mean to just cut everyone off and be alone. But just don't expect to be able to rely on anyone for shyt. Don't expect anyone to repay your kindness. Could be your wife, your parents, your best friend of 15 years, whoever.

Regarding going out solo:
Check out my previous post here.

https://www.thecoli.com/posts/36367916/

Yeah breh I know I’m wrong
Most people would think I would flourish going out alone because my personality is so outgoing but damn I’m scared

 

[Sonny Bonds]

@Balla I told her where I worked for real.

She read the message and hasn't responded yet.

 

[SATAN]

Yeah breh I know I’m wrong
Most people would think I would flourish going out alone because my personality is so outgoing but damn I’m scared

It's normal, breh. I was scared to death the first time I went out solo, but I ended up having fun. That's why it's helpful to pick a scene where you're already comfortable, and go to a club that caters to that scene.

 

[Rich Spirit]

Tell me about it. What did you do?

Basically begging a chick to let me fukk lol

 

[semicko82]

Basically begging a chick to let me fukk lol

If you don't mind me asking, why are you going through a dry spell and how long has it been

 

[Rich Spirit]

If you don't mind me asking, why are you going through a dry spell and how long has it been

It’s been since November 30

i honestly have no idea why. I haven’t been in the dating scene in a minute and just been laying low. Really trying to look for a fukk buddy situation but these chicks i run into ain’t down for that.

 

[semicko82]

I was at the gym today, and I saw this chick who rejected me a while ago.

Damn she was looking good


I had to fight the simp in me not to kiss her a$$

 

[semicko82]

It’s been since November 30

i honestly have no idea why. I haven’t been in the dating scene in a minute and just been laying low. Really trying to look for a fukk buddy situation but these chicks i run into ain’t down for that.

Damn breh, I feel you. You might have to sell them a dream

 

[mortuus est]

anyone go out to bars by themselves? thinking about going tonight. never went out alone. feel like it's tough trying to entertain multiple girls by yourself.

 

[Canon]

so what is she bringing to table then?

i don't know when we allowed bytches to determine what makes a man

"paying all the bills" prob aint on the list

 

[Canon]

Since my breakup it’s been hard to go out and get drinks/club etc none of my friends wanna go and I really want to go and dance and enjoy myself meanwhile when others are down and out I’m first to cheer them up idk guys I feel alone at times...where my real friends at and I don’t think I got the confidence to go to a bar/club alone

this a good lesson to learn bro

your will be better for it

 

[Malik1time]

ive gone to clubs by myself cause the mandem couldnt make it or they dropped out last minute
going on your own is fun cause you never know whats going to happen, i drink and smoke weed tho so that helps with alot of things

most of the time i smoke weed outside and can catch some chicks attention just being on the corner by myself, usually they ask for a lighter or they say my gas is loud

i bagged a sexy spanish chick one time before i even got in the club, i was on the corner just smoking and she walked past and smelt it and was like can i have a puff that smells good, shyt like that just happens randomly , just do you , you dont have to overwhelm yourself with loads of girls , spark a convo with 1 or 2 and go from there

i dont undertsand why its so hard for me to do it im literally so outgoing in every situation

 

[Malik1time]

this a good lesson to learn bro

your will be better for it

yeah i figure so