Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Ahadi

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Brehs... I already told her it's pretty much over. I told her if she meets dude and nothing happens, I prefer not having to go through the stress of worrying.

Girl spent the last 12 hours sending me long texts, trying to call me.

Tell her “we’re done” & Cease all communication. You are not a back up guy. You have value. fukk her and move on.

She wants to keep you around because you’ll do things the other guy SHE really likes won’t do. Value yourself and leave her.
 

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Brehs... I already told her it's pretty much over. I told her if she meets dude and nothing happens, I prefer not having to go through the stress of worrying.

Girl spent the last 12 hours sending me long texts, trying to call me.

The fact she even said it ur relationship was OVER
I dont see how u comeback from that cuz its downright disrespectful and trust would be gone period
She can plead and beg all she want imo :camby:
Women can be disrespectful and u can check them and move on I get that but breh

If ur girl telling u she gonna meet a dude and say I dont care what u said that was fwb
How u comeback from that

Ask urself this how u gonna know she ain't gonna still be meeting a breh behind ur back or texting and calling and shyt
No sorry gonna fix that cuz that seed of doubt is planted and it will sprout
Question is how fast will it grow

If my wife told me that shyt of 10 years I would divorce her let that sink 10 years mother of my 5 kids breh
Trust is too big for me and I be damn I get disrespected like that on top of it
 

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Real talk, I'm starting to believe the key to a good "relationship" is to not define it. :yeshrug: Just let it grow organically without labeling it. Once you bring in labels like "boyfriend", "girlfriend", you start placing people into these pre-conceived societal boxes of what a relationship is "supposed" to look like, which most people are not going to fit. I think that's why so many relationships fail.

Been seeing this girl, smashing her on a weekly basis, going on dates, all without labels, shyt is wonderful :blessed:

Just my 2 cents
 

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Real talk, I'm starting to believe the key to a good "relationship" is to not define it. :yeshrug: Just let it grow organically without labeling it. Once you bring in labels like "boyfriend", "girlfriend", you start placing people into these pre-conceived societal boxes of what a relationship is "supposed" to look like, which most people are not going to fit. I think that's why so many relationships fail.

Been seeing this girl, smashing her on a weekly basis, going on dates, all without labels, shyt is wonderful :blessed:

Just my 2 cents

Yeah you gotta let every interaction with a woman just flow. This is why women kill a good thing going when they ask “What are we?”

As soon as that comes up. It’s time to make an exit & you’ll begin to be placed in that said “box”
 

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Real talk, I'm starting to believe the key to a good "relationship" is to not define it. :yeshrug: Just let it grow organically without labeling it. Once you bring in labels like "boyfriend", "girlfriend", you start placing people into these pre-conceived societal boxes of what a relationship is "supposed" to look like, which most people are not going to fit. I think that's why so many relationships fail.

Been seeing this girl, smashing her on a weekly basis, going on dates, all without labels, shyt is wonderful :blessed:

Just my 2 cents

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Real talk, I'm starting to believe the key to a good "relationship" is to not define it. :yeshrug: Just let it grow organically without labeling it. Once you bring in labels like "boyfriend", "girlfriend", you start placing people into these pre-conceived societal boxes of what a relationship is "supposed" to look like, which most people are not going to fit. I think that's why so many relationships fail.

Been seeing this girl, smashing her on a weekly basis, going on dates, all without labels, shyt is wonderful :blessed:

Just my 2 cents


Yeah but you know you can only milk the cow so much before the what are we,
 

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I don't wanna dump my girl on valentines but I think I might have to brehs.

Girl had the balls to tell me she's not hanging out with me on her day off because she meeting up a friend... that she used to be FWBs :skip: She told they have met a few time even when she was in a relationship but nothing ever happened.

I told her I'm not gonna stop from doing that but I'm not cool with it, now she was trying to spin on some "you can't stop me from seeing my friends". Dude in question is in a long-distance relationship, that is open most of the time. Girl is carrying a whole damn Chinese flag with her and she knows it.

It was just my turn I guess.
Kill it with fire
 

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I don't wanna dump my girl on valentines but I think I might have to brehs.

Girl had the balls to tell me she's not hanging out with me on her day off because she meeting up a friend... that she used to be FWBs :skip: She told they have met a few time even when she was in a relationship but nothing ever happened.

I told her I'm not gonna stop from doing that but I'm not cool with it, now she was trying to spin on some "you can't stop me from seeing my friends". Dude in question is in a long-distance relationship, that is open most of the time. Girl is carrying a whole damn Chinese flag with her and she knows it.

It was just my turn I guess.

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& it’s usually after you smash the 3rd or 4th time :mjlol:
I dread that shyt every time lmao

They always hinting at shyt even before you smash

Once you start smashing and the dates stop. They try to hint at dates again smh.

Is killed one on the first date. Next 4 meet ups were straight to the crib smashing and watching Netflix.

Then she want to talk about how I should take her rock climbing and go to her church with her :camby:

On a side note the church girls are always the freakiest. I'm not religious but I might dabble a Sunday or two just to see what's out there
 

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I dread that shyt every time lmao

They always hinting at shyt even before you smash

Once you start smashing and the dates stop. They try to hint at dates again smh.

Is killed one on the first date. Next 4 meet ups were straight to the crib smashing and watching Netflix.

Then she want to talk about how I should take her rock climbing and go to her church with her :camby:

On a side note the church girls are always the freakiest. I'm not religious but I might dabble a Sunday or two just to see what's out there

yup
but it's true what @GodinDaFlesh said though up until they ask its the best thing ever, alot of women just like he said ruin a great thing. It's like someone coming up to you and be like you know what i'll give you a million dollars a day just enjoy it and the ride but these chicks will be like after a while why are you giving me a million dollars what are we? And then it crumbles
 
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