Brehs... I already told her it's pretty much over. I told her if she meets dude and nothing happens, I prefer not having to go through the stress of worrying.
Girl spent the last 12 hours sending me long texts, trying to call me.
Tell her “we’re done” & Cease all communication. You are not a back up guy. You have value. fukk her and move on.
She wants to keep you around because you’ll do things the other guy SHE really likes won’t do. Value yourself and leave her.

Just let it grow organically without labeling it. Once you bring in labels like "boyfriend", "girlfriend", you start placing people into these pre-conceived societal boxes of what a relationship is "supposed" to look like, which most people are not going to fit. I think that's why so many relationships fail. 
She told they have met a few time even when she was in a relationship but nothing ever happened.
