Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I've already seen too many grown people saying they can't wait until the quarantine is over so they can get back to the bullshyt.

At this stage in my life I just can't fool with anyone who doesn't have any ambition. Unless you been personally sick with covid-19 or had to deal with someone who is, I wanna know how you used your time. I don't mean I'm gonna grill or interrogate anybody, but my tolerance levels for b.s. is low - that goes for friends, chicks you mess with etc anybody. I'm not any kind of super elite, high level dude myself but I've got this book that mentions how you need to radiate value and increase in your aura to get ahead in life and see the results you want. You can't do that shyt if you're just lazing around or hanging with people that do.

This time in human history is unprecedented and we will probably never see anything like this again. If you're not using this time wisely now then you're just a loser basically.
Link to book?
 

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I didn’t respond to the last text cuz she’s starting to give me a headache. I actually like my fwb but this is like the 3rd time she “broke up“ up with me because she wanted something more. More emotion, more feeling and now she wants more commitment knowing that at this point in time it’s impossible because I’m leaving the state.

I give her credit. She tries to do the fwb thing but she likes me too much and it’s like an emotional roller coaster for her. Other then the need for more commitment in our relationship everything is a1.

Each time she blows up and attempts to end things I basically told her the same thing I said in the text. I wish her the best of luck, no hard feelings. and she’s back in 3 weeks.

We’ve always agreed we weren’t looking for a Committed relationship with each other but apparently that was just once sided.

I’m aware it’s sounding like I should end things for the sake of the both of us but Any brehs know if there’s away to salvage this and not continue down a toxic path?
 

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I didn’t respond to the last text cuz she’s starting to give me a headache. I actually like my fwb but this is like the 3rd time she “broke up“ up with me because she wanted something more. More emotion, more feeling and now she wants more commitment knowing that at this point in time it’s impossible because I’m leaving the state.

I give her credit. She tries to do the fwb thing but she likes me too much and it’s like an emotional roller coaster for her. Other then the need for more commitment in our relationship everything is a1.

Each time she blows up and attempts to end things I basically told her the same thing I said in the text. I wish her the best of luck, no hard feelings. and she’s back in 3 weeks.

We’ve always agreed we weren’t looking for a Committed relationship with each other but apparently that was just once sided.

I’m aware it’s sounding like I should end things for the sake of the both of us but Any brehs know if there’s away to salvage this and not continue down a toxic path?
You lost for continuing to respond to this chick. She thinks she has you on a string, and she does :yeshrug:
 

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I didn’t respond to the last text cuz she’s starting to give me a headache. I actually like my fwb but this is like the 3rd time she “broke up“ up with me because she wanted something more. More emotion, more feeling and now she wants more commitment knowing that at this point in time it’s impossible because I’m leaving the state.

I give her credit. She tries to do the fwb thing but she likes me too much and it’s like an emotional roller coaster for her. Other then the need for more commitment in our relationship everything is a1.

Each time she blows up and attempts to end things I basically told her the same thing I said in the text. I wish her the best of luck, no hard feelings. and she’s back in 3 weeks.

We’ve always agreed we weren’t looking for a Committed relationship with each other but apparently that was just once sided.

I’m aware it’s sounding like I should end things for the sake of the both of us but Any brehs know if there’s away to salvage this and not continue down a toxic path?
Why the hell you got 181 unread messages? :comeon:
 

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My coworker asked me yesterday a question for her "best friend" why a guy would back out of the opportunity for a friends with benefits situation with a virgin.

I said either he can't handle her "best friend" (scared) or he doesn't want the title because even FWB is its own "title". What The Coli say?

P.S.: I knew she was talking about herself though. :mjgrin:
What y'all brehs think?
 

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Is it true that women put you into two categories if they find you attractive

1. Friend with benefit
2. Potential relationship partner

What category do you usually get put in?
You put YOURSELF in either of those categories based on your actions. You can also be in both categories at the same time. It's common to be FWB and she eventually tries to lock you down with the "what are we" shyt. But don't give in.
 

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I didn’t respond to the last text cuz she’s starting to give me a headache. I actually like my fwb but this is like the 3rd time she “broke up“ up with me because she wanted something more. More emotion, more feeling and now she wants more commitment knowing that at this point in time it’s impossible because I’m leaving the state.

I give her credit. She tries to do the fwb thing but she likes me too much and it’s like an emotional roller coaster for her. Other then the need for more commitment in our relationship everything is a1.

Each time she blows up and attempts to end things I basically told her the same thing I said in the text. I wish her the best of luck, no hard feelings. and she’s back in 3 weeks.

We’ve always agreed we weren’t looking for a Committed relationship with each other but apparently that was just once sided.

I’m aware it’s sounding like I should end things for the sake of the both of us but Any brehs know if there’s away to salvage this and not continue down a toxic path?


I usually just leave messages like that on read and don't say anything again
 

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I bushed 2 bytches


One that told me she wouldnt send me nudes bcuz i wasnt on her level yet lmaoo and shes not meeting anyone during corona..

Another that told me she would HMU in a minute n 3 hours went by...i said wassup?

N she PROBLEM?? ur actn real pushy!!! Its a turn off!! Imagine basic convo being a bad thinhs

I said bytch if u actually got to know a guy u wouldnt be a single mom with 2 kids at 26...she got mad lmao

These hoes stink
 
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I bushed 2 bytches


One that told me she wouldnt send me nudes bcuz i wasnt on her level yet lmaoo and shes not meeting anyone during corona..

Another that told me she would HMU in a minute n 3 hours went by...i said wassup?

N she PROBLEM?? ur actn real pushy!!! Its a turn off!! Imagine basic convo being a bad thinhs

I said bytch if u actually got to know a guy u wouldnt be a single mom with 2 kids at 26...she got mad lmao

These hoes stink
You did the right thing to many in the sea
 

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So this chick was texted me from her job yesterday. Saying how nice the weather was and love being outside. Blah, blah, blah. Then I went to her ig last night and she said "Yall know I gotta fall off the face of the earth once a year." And had a 2 fingers for the peace sign.

So she's going ghost but how should I respond when she returns? Pretend like nothing happen? Or ask her what was going on?
 
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