Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Have to have these chicks on probation early on and watch how they act and if you see a red flag nip it and run as fast as you can .

I was canoodling and cavorting with this chick sort of for a likkle while under a month saw her mostly after work as she lives near the hospital i work at. yes always had protection!!

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Anyways few days we were on a short likkle call and she asked me hey can i get a photo of you dressed up and i'm like sure :ehh:, so I sent one.:jawalrus:

Then she asked can you send a few more and I said nah:mjtf:, you asked for one so I sent one. If you wanted more than one should have stated it are you a woman of your word or not?.:hubie:

This chick got so mad breh like a demon took over and then she hung up the phone at me. Then she sent me a text message how shes so sorry to have hanged up on me that she just got angry.

I said no worries but I'll no longer be canoodling nor cavorting with you anymore. If this chick is getting angry and all aggressive and ish because she didn't get her way over something so small eh adios.
You think you kind of overreacted there?
 

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easier said than done.

trust me.

I was obsessed with checking one of my exes social media and barely eating for like 6 months after she broke up with me back in 2013.

I’ll never forget that pain. Ever!

imagine your digestive tract all fukked up, the stress, the constant thinking about someone, and the wondering if they’re ever coming back... day in and out. :francis:

I could barely get my meat up to fukk any new broad.

I was big sick. That trying to no contact and staying on my purpose shyt DID NOT WORK.

it literally took TIME, another tragic event, and me damn near going crazy to get over her. :hhh:


Been there as well. Ish would be like my newspaper in the morning. And then I’d find myself checking the new nikkaz who added her as a friend as my heart would beat out of my chest :mjlol:
 

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easier said than done.

trust me.

I was obsessed with checking one of my exes social media and barely eating for like 6 months after she broke up with me back in 2013.

I’ll never forget that pain. Ever!

imagine your digestive tract all fukked up, the stress, the constant thinking about someone, and the wondering if they’re ever coming back... day in and out. :francis:

I could barely get my meat up to fukk any new broad.

I was big sick. That trying to no contact and staying on my purpose shyt DID NOT WORK.

it literally took TIME, another tragic event, and me damn near going crazy to get over her. :hhh:
yeah its hard:francis: i was in a 3 year relationship with her and boom found out yesterday she with another nikka:birdman:
 

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it’s tough social media is though :heh;

I remember back then only time I wasn’t thinking of the chick was when I was sleeping. But then after a while if you stay away she becomes smaller and smaller in your mind till you don’t care
 

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easier said than done.

trust me.

I was obsessed with checking one of my exes social media and barely eating for like 6 months after she broke up with me back in 2013.

I’ll never forget that pain. Ever!

imagine your digestive tract all fukked up, the stress, the constant thinking about someone, and the wondering if they’re ever coming back... day in and out. :francis:

I could barely get my meat up to fukk any new broad.

I was big sick. That trying to no contact and staying on my purpose shyt DID NOT WORK.

it literally took TIME, another tragic event, and me damn near going crazy to get over her. :hhh:

Shyts torture I'm going through it myself and advice like "move on" doesn't really help. It's like a process you have to suffer through like going cold Turkey from an addiction.
 

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easier said than done.

trust me.

I was obsessed with checking one of my exes social media and barely eating for like 6 months after she broke up with me back in 2013.

I’ll never forget that pain. Ever!

imagine your digestive tract all fukked up, the stress, the constant thinking about someone, and the wondering if they’re ever coming back... day in and out. :francis:

I could barely get my meat up to fukk any new broad.

I was big sick. That trying to no contact and staying on my purpose shyt DID NOT WORK.

it literally took TIME, another tragic event, and me damn near going crazy to get over her. :hhh:
when I use to hear about people not eating, depressed, crying over some relationship shyt I’d look at em like :hhh:

Til I was that nikka barely eating for almost a month, compulsively checking her social media, looking at old pics of us, thinking bout shorty so much I could barely focus at work. :mjcry: Damn near texted my ex mom asking her if she could put us back on:wow:

Time gon heal them wounds, like others have said work on building a better you (physically, mentally, career wise etc) so when the next shorty come around you on A1 status. @Malik1time

Smash some Mexican shortys to pass the time, that’s what I been on :mjpls: @The God Poster
 

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when I use to hear about people not eating, depressed, crying over some relationship shyt I’d look at em like :hhh:

Til I was that nikka barely eating for almost a month, compulsively checking her social media, looking at old pics of us, thinking bout shorty so much I could barely focus at work. :mjcry: Damn near texted my ex mom asking her if she could put us back on:wow:

Time gon heal them wounds, like others have said work on building a better you (physically, mentally, career wise etc) so when the next shorty come around you on A1 status. @Malik1time

Smash some Mexican shortys to pass the time, that’s what I been on :mjpls: @The God Poster
:mjlol::mjlol::mjlol: breh ive been smashing women left and right but that whole "new p*ssy gets you over old p*ssy" is a damn lie:mjlol::mjlol:
maybe for other people but not for me
but yeah i feel you i gotta better myself for myself and not for anyone
 

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:mjlol::mjlol::mjlol: breh ive been smashing women left and right but that whole "new p*ssy gets you over old p*ssy" is a damn lie:mjlol::mjlol:
maybe for other people but not for me
but yeah i feel you i gotta better myself for myself and not for anyone
I been in some new p*ssy thinking bout that old thang I ain’t gon lie to yall :wow:
 

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when I use to hear about people not eating, depressed, crying over some relationship shyt I’d look at em like :hhh:

Til I was that nikka barely eating for almost a month, compulsively checking her social media, looking at old pics of us, thinking bout shorty so much I could barely focus at work. :mjcry: Damn near texted my ex mom asking her if she could put us back on:wow:

Time gon heal them wounds, like others have said work on building a better you (physically, mentally, career wise etc) so when the next shorty come around you on A1 status. @Malik1time

Smash some Mexican shortys to pass the time, that’s what I been on :mjpls: @The God Poster


lol yup the old if you want to lose weight just go through a breakup :heh:
I remember id wake up and chick was on my mind all day. I'd go to work on my mind, i'd stalk every social media account. Always felt the urge to text or call, wondering why she never called or text (how can someone i talk to every day for years just move on like that :damn:

I didn't want to date because what if she came back what would I do :mjlol:

Some days i'd feel great then see something and be right back at sq one. chick could be ugly azz hell but suddenly she's a 10/10 chick in your eyes.

I'd just come home from work and sleep etc. find myself fapping to my ex :hubie: then feeling like trash after

But it builds immunity its like getting covid it sucks but after you beat it you got that immunity. Then if it happens again you know what to do, you'll go "no contact" right away, you wont check social media


happy i faced those beats in my twenties I can just look back and laugh now.

I remember the last chick i sort of cared about dumped me, I just shrugged and was on hinge talking to new chicks that same night and had a few dates set up right away.

My mentality now after years of being a punching bag and crawling through the abyss of past breakups is like a job if i get fired i'ma start applying right away and get a new job. It may not be that coli six figure type of job it may just be a call centre type gig but until i land on my feet gotta do what i gotta do.
 
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