Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[The Radiant One]

I had this conversation with a girl not too long ago.

We were arguing because I flaked on her for a date & she made a point that really resonated with me about it being hard for me to focus on someone as I have my energy spread so thin across, not necessarily just a variety of women, but people/things in general.

I think I've reached a point where the type of sex I want, is meant to be with a woman I'm really connecting with, as well as having components of my life aligned. Looking forward to the challenge of attaining that balance.

Yeah I like the intimate sex and I also want to be wanted by a woman. I will need a new venue for dating I can't sorely rely on dating apps but I'm going on a date on Tuesday.

 

[360dagod]

Yeah I like the intimate sex and I also want to be wanted by a woman. I will need a new venue for dating I can't sorely rely on dating apps but I'm going on a date on Tuesday.

The modern day women "feels" intimacy thru turmoil...

They want to feel bouts of panic/anxiety/competition

You can be the scumbag or the good guy

But if you don't provide a form of these attributes, you got 2 strikes against you...

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

And now folks setting off the fireworks that sound like bombs!!!

 

[MikelArteta]

Gave her a b'day gift cash app $130 sent me a thank you gift says hey love. then ghosts your ass during memorial day weekend. I liked this girl because we had good chemistry on a few dates.

you lost right then
why the hell are you sending a girl 130 dollars for her birthday

 

[The Radiant One]

you lost right then
why the hell are you sending a girl 130 dollars for her birthday

I liked her also that is typically the cost for a date. It's not like I gave her 1k or something

 

[MikelArteta]

Background: I'm a physician in Atlanta make good money 6 foot tall 215lbs and I'm in my early 30's. The girl I posted about really liking looked like this she was Eritrean. But bigger eyes and more lashes and a more round face.

A woman either likes you or not, all of that extra stuff is meh thats teh thing you should realize. She might give up the puzzay to a 5''5 guy working at mcdonalds

After she ghosted me

Right then you should have never spoken to her again. If you are a physican in atlanta making good money why the hell are you giving second chances to chicks who ghosted you?

Please do not waste time during quarantine with a chick if she isn't showing the same energy. Gave her a b'day gift cash app $130 sent me a thank you gift says hey love. then ghosts your ass during memorial day weekend. I liked this girl because we had good chemistry on a few dates. I spent 45 days while doing Hinge with other chicks but she was always the main contender she looks why better than the competition so far.

Yes do not waste time with any woman who isn't into you. Just a waste of time and money. At least you learned a hard lesson breh you gave her 130 and she prob bought some lingerie and some thug nikka changing your oil at jiffy lube has her dirty paws all over that. Just because you like a girl doesn't mean you have to give her money. Doesn't matter if you make great money and 130 is nothing to you. NEVER give a woman money unless she is your wife or woman you've been with for a while. But some chick after a few dates? She prob just saw you as a sucker after that. Whats funny you would have prob got that thank you love message if you just said happy birthday. Another thing looks mean nothing. It's better to get with maybe a less attractive woman that actually gasps likes you than to waste time with some drop dead gorgeous chick who just views you as a sucker.

I wanted this girl to be my girlfriends

Pluses
She is college educated
Good with money no car debt
No kids
Never married
Good friend group, has pics of Danny Green
Really good chemistry making out on first date
Naturally beautiful

Everything you listed is a dime a dozen nothing special

Flags:
She was in a white sorority at Emory has "friend" pics of white men but her best friend is black.
Lived in Atlanta for most of her life and is 30 and single

the biggest red flag should be she doesn't like you as much as you like her

Literally play by play on instagram keep in mind she was pressing love on my images

Again means absolutely nothing you gave her 130 and free dinners she didn't have to do anything to get all of that. Women are funny like that they may not want you but will still keep you around for favors.

Me: You want to video chat on Friday or Saturday
Her: Yes im free at 8
Me: I called
Her: Sorry Love! I was doing a deep cleaning and both my hands are wet I'll call back
Me: *Calls*
on Monday Me how as your weekend
Her: *Response seen.

Sigh I might as well start dating white women.

Like I said should be adios. Chicks have their phone on them and constantly check every few min they are awake.


white women ain't any better

 

[MikelArteta]

I liked her also that is typically the cost for a date. It's not like I gave her 1k or something

where the hell are you taking women that you spend 130 on a date

breh even giving her a dollar wasn't needed

a happy birthday is all that was needed.

Breh we've all made mistakes before the beauty is you can change them all. Think of all you have done throughout your life all your relationships and they failed right? so why continue following that same pattern.

if spending 130 on a date is typical but its not equaling success why continue to do it?
if sending a chick 130 dollars for her birthday and nothing happens why continue to do it?

because guess what if you spend like 10 dollars on that date and just sent a happy birthday the outcome would have been the exact same

a Woman likes you or she doesn't like you

I'm talking to this rich azz nigerian chick at the moment who had a list of all these standards and requirements

I told her I just make min wage and just have my hs diploma this chick is still on me like white on rice . We met up at walmart last time , and she was all willing to pay for all of my groceries .

What i'm saying is if that if a woman is feeling you everything for her goes out the window, you can be dead broke without a penny to your name and working two dead end jobs and if she's feeling you she will twist that in her mind to he's a hard worker really trying to better himself

now if a woman is not feeling you it doesn't matter what you do

 

[Youseenmywork]

 

[The Radiant One]

Yeah I just wasn't feeling myself I but I guess I idolized this chick in my mind.

 

[mortuus est]

kneegas really said "I'm a physician in Atlanta make good money 6 foot tall 215lbs and I'm in my early 30's"


then i see this

Me: You want to video chat on Friday or Saturday
Her: Yes im free at 8
Me: I called
Her: Sorry Love! I was doing a deep cleaning and both my hands are wet I'll call back
Me: *Calls*
on Monday Me how as your weekend
Her: *Response seen.

i also see this

Gave her a b'day gift cash app $130 sent me a thank you gift says hey love. then ghosts my ass during memorial day weekend.

cot damn this thread just keeps on delivering the fukery

 

[mortuus est]

Think of all you have done throughout your life all your relationships and they failed right? so why continue following that same pattern.

if spending 130 on a date is typical but its not equaling success why continue to do it?
if sending a chick 130 dollars for her birthday and nothing happens why continue to do it?

i dun told you these kneegas are trapped in the matrix , we cant help them they can only save themselves

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

I liked her also that is typically the cost for a date. It's not like I gave her 1k or something

you're missing the big picture

 

[Astroslik]

Background: I'm a physician in Atlanta make good money 6 foot tall 215lbs and I'm in my early 30's. The girl I posted about really liking looked like this she was Eritrean. But bigger eyes and more lashes and a more round face.

After she ghosted me

Please do not waste time during quarantine with a chick if she isn't showing the same energy. Gave her a b'day gift cash app $130 sent me a thank you gift says hey love. then ghosts your ass during memorial day weekend. I liked this girl because we had good chemistry on a few dates. I spent 45 days while doing Hinge with other chicks but she was always the main contender she looks why better than the competition so far.

I wanted this girl to be my girlfriends

Pluses
She is college educated
Good with money no car debt
No kids
Never married
Good friend group, has pics of Danny Green
Really good chemistry making out on first date
Naturally beautiful

Flags:
She was in a white sorority at Emory has "friend" pics of white men but her best friend is black.
Lived in Atlanta for most of her life and is 30 and single

Literally play by play on instagram keep in mind she was pressing love on my images

Me: You want to video chat on Friday or Saturday
Her: Yes im free at 8
Me: I called
Her: Sorry Love! I was doing a deep cleaning and both my hands are wet I'll call back
Me: *Calls*
on Monday Me how as your weekend
Her: *Response seen.

Sigh I might as well start dating white women.

Just some constructive critique breh..
This is a Perfect example of how book intelligence and social intelligence are polar opposites. Also how money and career status doesn’t mean you’ll be drowning in p*ssy. You’re giving chicks you haven’t even smashed gifts.

why are you talking to 30 year old single women anyway? All those women in Atlanta and you cant find a under 25 baddie?

 

[Astroslik]

I just got a BMW brehs

I dont know alot about cars but this shyt nice....had two hoes dm me on some random shyt...put the pic on the gram

What series?

 

[Max.]

What series?

530i ?