Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Mickey Kane

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Yeah I just wasn't feeling myself I but I guess I idolized this chick in my mind.

It gets like that sometimes.

Easy rule of thumb to follow. Invest in a woman, at the same level she invests in you.

If it gets too lop-sided (which can happen from time to time in most relationships), just pull back. Allow the woman to show you who she is.
 

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I remember one breh in here a while ago talking about how much money he made in a month selling electronics, but didn't go into detail.....




Went sourcing at Goodwill on Saturday and gahdamn am I about to eat :wow:


Printers, VCRs, Keyboards, etc.

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That was me breh. I dropped some knowledge later on tho. Welcome to the flipping fold! :myman:
 

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I've lost my purpose in life and she was a big distraction. Instead of focusing on myself, I put a lot of time and attention to her and lost myself. The break up feels like a reset button for me.

My advice to the brehs is never lose yourself to please or placate somebody else. I'm not saying be totally selfish but remember who you are and you want from life. Don't settle. Cherish good friends and family because you never know when they'll leave this plane.

Never accept bullshyt because life's too short.
Had a similar situation happen with my last relationship breh. Glad you snapped out of it. Women sometimes are so self centered they don’t even realize how everything becomes about making them happy.
 

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In terms of women and 'energy' if she isnt damn near begging to see you. She's not into you like that. As a man that used to hurt my ego. I'd tell myself I could change her mind etc.

We as men need to learn to sometimes walk away. Yes, even from chicks we're really into.

Once a man makes his interest known to a woman she's either going to reciprocate it or she's going to go cold. Leaving your messages on read or taking days to get back to you. Meanwhile she has time to be posting on social media or doing other bullshyt that means she has an excuse not to talk to you.

I could have saved myself a lot of time. Just bushing chicks not giving me that good energy. A good woman should put you at ease you shouldn't always feel you have to be impressing them.

Of course the sick thing is most of them when they see you've disappeared and aren't paying them any kind of attention anymore they want to play nice again.

I now love it when a woman expels herself from being considered. Makes my life all the more easier.
 

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In terms of women and 'energy' if she isnt damn near begging to see you. She's not into you like that. As a man that used to hurt my ego. I'd tell myself I could change her mind etc.

We as men need to learn to sometimes walk away. Yes, even from chicks we're really into.

Once a man makes his interest known to a woman she's either going to reciprocate it or she's going to go cold. Leaving your messages on read or taking days to get back to you. Meanwhile she has time to be posting on social media or doing other bullshyt that means she has an excuse not to talk to you.

I could have saved myself a lot of time. Just bushing chicks not giving me that good energy. A good woman should put you at ease you shouldn't always feel you have to be impressing them.

Of course the sick thing is most of them when they see you've disappeared and aren't paying them any kind of attention anymore they want to play nice again.

I now love it when a woman expels herself from being considered. Makes my life all the more easier.

Exactly if you have to ask yourself whether she's interested, then no she's not.
 

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In terms of women and 'energy' if she isnt damn near begging to see you. She's not into you like that. As a man that used to hurt my ego. I'd tell myself I could change her mind etc.

We as men need to learn to sometimes walk away. Yes, even from chicks we're really into.

Once a man makes his interest known to a woman she's either going to reciprocate it or she's going to go cold. Leaving your messages on read or taking days to get back to you. Meanwhile she has time to be posting on social media or doing other bullshyt that means she has an excuse not to talk to you.

I could have saved myself a lot of time. Just bushing chicks not giving me that good energy. A good woman should put you at ease you shouldn't always feel you have to be impressing them.

Of course the sick thing is most of them when they see you've disappeared and aren't paying them any kind of attention anymore they want to play nice again.

I now love it when a woman expels herself from being considered. Makes my life all the more easier.
Gospel.
 

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In terms of women and 'energy' if she isnt damn near begging to see you. She's not into you like that. As a man that used to hurt my ego. I'd tell myself I could change her mind etc.

We as men need to learn to sometimes walk away. Yes, even from chicks we're really into.

Once a man makes his interest known to a woman she's either going to reciprocate it or she's going to go cold. Leaving your messages on read or taking days to get back to you. Meanwhile she has time to be posting on social media or doing other bullshyt that means she has an excuse not to talk to you.

I could have saved myself a lot of time. Just bushing chicks not giving me that good energy. A good woman should put you at ease you shouldn't always feel you have to be impressing them.

Of course the sick thing is most of them when they see you've disappeared and aren't paying them any kind of attention anymore they want to play nice again.

I now love it when a woman expels herself from being considered. Makes my life all the more easier.


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Yes I made some mistakes but I learned. DO NOT PLAY HARD TO GET. Also females that you have to chase are not worth it even if you get in a relationship it will be all about them. You will not be happy, Don't let IG full you the only plus these chicks have was that they were born pretty.
 
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