Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

lamont614

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but now she contemplating if those 3 hours are worth it despite everything you tried to do for her.
:yeshrug:

it be like that bro.



she just texted me :snoop:


“I’m feeling really sad since we got off the phone. I do feel like my concerns are valid but I also don’t wanna run away, esp because I’ve grown to care for you and I really enjoy our time together. Are you willing to have patience while I learn? This is all new to me”


I think she just trying to keep me around every girl that stopped ducking with me still tried to be my friend

I guess so they don’t feel about it smh

I really thought she was different
 

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One reason I still have my exes on my ig


Never deleted didn’t take it serious
I told her I would delete them if we made it official
It’s funny she never brought it up before


Then she said never dated anyone with kids
She didn’t want to take anytime away from my daughter
My daughter 13
I’m 34
the girl is 29
She wouldn’t be taking time at all


She said she didn’t want to be a 2 month fling I told her I called her today to tell her I was serious about dating she doesn’t have to worry


I was telling the truth but also felt like I gave away too much

also the girl lives 3 hours away

she would come see me I would come see her
She didn’t know if it would be sustainable


I think I we flourished because she was lonely because corona now stufff opening back up she wants to be free

It happens.

I knew when she said she was going to "take a nap" that it was already over. If she was interested you could have called her at 3am in the morning and woke her up she would have been happy to talk. She just wanted to pass the time. She knew you had a kid so why agree to date you and then turn around and say she doesn't wanna take time away from you and your daughter? She just didn't want to tell the truth and is coming with all kinds of excuses.

Then people think we're joking or bitter when we say don't get attached.
 
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2 rules @lamont614

1. Don't date women who randomly "take naps" nobody needs to ever take a fukking nap, that's garbage..

2. Don't date a woman who plays the "I called so now he should call" game. Any relationship I've ever had that was a good relationship didn't live by those dumbass call/text game rules. We'd both wanna hit each other up constantly because we actually liked being around one another.
 

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2 rules @lamont614

1. Don't date women who randomly "take naps" nobody needs to ever take a fukking nap, that's garbage..

2. Don't date a woman who plays the "I called so now he should call" game. Any relationship I've ever had that was a good relationship didn't live by those dumbass call/text game rules. We'd both wanna hit each other up constantly because we actually liked being around one another.
I be taking naps breh
 

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So the July 4th party is later today and I heard from grape vines.. the mutual friends I had with my ex(that I cut off) are all talking shyt saying “Malik is too weak to see his ex and her new man blah blah”:stopitslime::stopitslime::stopitslime: I wish I can defend myself and black on them but imma just be the bigger man and let them talk all they want:yeshrug::yeshrug: .. I’m a very honest and like to confront people so it’s pains me every minute I can’t say anything and stay quiet:stopitslime::stopitslime:
 
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So the July 4th party is later today and I heard from grape vines.. the mutual friends I had with my ex(that I cut off) are all talking shyt saying “Malik is too weak to see his ex and her new man blah blah”:stopitslime::stopitslime::stopitslime: I wish I can defend myself and black on them but imma just be the bigger man and let them talk all they want:yeshrug::yeshrug: .. I’m a very honest and like to confront people so it’s pains me every minute I can’t say anything and stay quiet:stopitslime::stopitslime:

So you aren't going to the party?
 

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So you aren't going to the party?
Nah I see no point:yeshrug::yeshrug: all of them abandoned me post breakup,took her side, and she got a new guy going to that party:yeshrug: I don’t feel welcomed around those people:stopitslime: I been to two functions with all of them(without the new guy) post breakup and I felt like the outcast the entire time:francis:
fukk that:camby:
Plus my ex got them spying on me and trying to get info out of me:gucci::gucci:
Sneaky shyt don’t fly with me:camby:
 
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Nah I see no point:yeshrug::yeshrug: all of them abandoned me post breakup,took her side, and she got a new guy going to that party:yeshrug: I don’t feel welcomed around those people:stopitslime: I been to two functions with all of them(without the new guy) post breakup and I felt like the outcast the entire time:francis:
fukk that:camby:
Plus my ex got them spying on me and trying to get info out of me:gucci::gucci:
Sneaky shyt don’t fly with me:camby:

fukk it leave them snakes alone.. It's so easy to just ghost people. They'll show up peakin on ya timeline at some point. Just do u and improve yaself
 
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