Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Chris Cool

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I know we ain't supposed to fukk with women from work, but I seen her buss it challenge :whoo:

There's no way I can't. :yeshrug:


Ain't said more than "good morning" to her cause we in different parts of the building and it's no reason to be over there. She knows I'm interested though.


How do I approach?:jbhmm:
 

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I know we ain't supposed to fukk with women from work, but I seen her buss it challenge :whoo:

There's no way I can't. :yeshrug:


Ain't said more than "good morning" to her cause we in different parts of the building and it's no reason to be over there. She knows I'm interested though.


How do I approach?:jbhmm:

Bolded: gotta drop that link brodie.

But to answer your question: Just don't do it unless this is a menial job, and even still it's good to set boundaries for work and play. But if you must, approach it like you would any other lady. Just ask her out to grab food, drinks etc after work.

Idk how you saw her Buss It challenge video but you could possibly bring that up in convo, only after you've assessed if she's into you. Would be a natural way to escalate the convo.
 

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Bolded: gotta drop that link brodie.

But to answer your question: Just don't do it unless this is a menial job, and even still it's good to set boundaries for work and play. But if you must, approach it like you would any other lady. Just ask her out to grab food, drinks etc after work.

Idk how you saw her Buss It challenge video but you could possibly bring that up in convo, only after you've assessed if she's into you. Would be a natural way to escalate the convo.
Yeah, idgaf about this job. I tried to find her tiktok but couldn't. Another co-worker showed me off her phone on fb. I asked that co-worker if she knew if she had a boyfriend and she went back and told her I asked.

She told me the girl was like
:patrice: Who is Chris? Then once she realized


:whoa: no, no, no. That relationship is dead. I'm single.

Cause i guess she broke up with her guy not to long ago.
 

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That relationship is dead. I'm single.

Cause i guess she broke up with her guy not to long ago.

Yea, at this point it's worth a shot. Nothing to lose since the job is menial like you said. Personally, I'm not one to ask if girls have BFs. I'd rather just ask her out and let her tell me no, she has a BF/in a relationship, but that's me.

I still say stay clear from work relationships. Last thing you want is a situation where things turn out badly and you guys have to see each other at work. Now you have lady problems when you should just be focused on getting your paper.

My $0.02
 

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What does it mean when a guy describes his ex as entitled? I see guys say it here too. Can someone explain what do they mean by that?
 

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brehs whens the last time you've been out on a date?

Probably Dec 2019. Went out for dinner with this one chick in Abuja. Afterwards we went dancing. It was cool.

Kinda went on another one in Mar 2020 right before the pandemic hit. But it was more like I took a girl to a friends Bday party so Idk if I'd count that as a date.

What does it mean when a guy describes his ex as entitled? I see guys say it here too. Can someone explain what do they mean by that?

Pretty much what is said. The ex feels entitled to ABC/XYZ.

It could be attention, preferential treatment, help, etc. It usually comes about if there's a misalignment of expectations between the partners. When party A is expecting more from party B than party B is willing to give, then party B might feel like party A feels entitled.
 

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Probably Dec 2019. Went out for dinner with this one chick in Abuja. Afterwards we went dancing. It was cool.

Kinda went on another one in Mar 2020 right before the pandemic hit. But it was more like I took a girl to a friends Bday party so Idk if I'd count that as a date.



Pretty much what is said. The ex feels entitled to ABC/XYZ.

It could be attention, preferential treatment, help, etc. It usually comes about if there's a misalignment of expectations between the partners. When party A is expecting more from party B than party B is willing to give, then party B might feel like party A feels entitled.

those nigerian women :noah:
 
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