Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Chick complaining about me not talking to her lmao.
Last message sent was me and chose to read and not reply, so I continued my day watched her stories posted mine :yeshrug:

Is it crack??

If she had messaged me last and I hadn't replied I could understand

We in a pandemic everythings closed i aint gonna see you for next 2 months at least fukk am I double messaging you when you aint even making the same effort.
Like If you wanna talk you could easily reply to the message I sent or simply use initiative and strike up new convo.

i don't even burn brain cells thinking about them goofy ass "hey stranger" type texts.
they really think we're their digital court jesters lol
 
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brehs whens the last time you've been out on a date?


Mid october 2020.


And you can guess who that was with.


It would also mark the last time i would see her.



Damn.



What about you fam? been mingling lately during these precariously covicious times?
 

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Mid october 2020.


And you can guess who that was with.


It would also mark the last time i would see her.



Damn.



What about you fam? been mingling lately during these precariously covicious times?

Went on one date this year nothing came out of it but it sucked all we did is go on a walk and she was wearing a mask the whole time. Before that last one was in July.

That's going to be it for awhile. To much risk and nothing to do but go on a walk
 

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Went on one date this year nothing came out of it but it sucked all we did is go on a walk and she was wearing a mask the whole time. Before that last one was in July.

That's going to be it for awhile. To much risk and nothing to do but go on a walk

use this time to get your mind, body, and pockets right, to come out with vengeance once we enter a state of normalcy
 

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brehs whens the last time you've been out on a date?
maybe July.

Was suppose to link a chick off hinge in like October. Cute chic but she was late af. And this was after already cancelling the first date. I dipped after a few minutes. She hits me up when she arrives. I tell her to be on time for the next nikka I'm almost home :manny:

No indoor dining in NYC and I'm not sitting in the cold trying to game any bytch this winter. Would rather save my bread And Can't be bothered otherwise
 

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Man I wasted so much time last year trying to get some p*ssy and instead I just got my time wasted and cancelled dates :skip:

Now I’m enjoying not talking to anyone and like @TradePascalSiakam says, it gets easier the older you get.

Even at 21, this shyt does feel easier than 18, I know what type of interest indicators to look for and what dates I want to do, not them. I had to do some self introspection on where to improve physically too.
 

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Man I wasted so much time last year trying to get some p*ssy and instead I just got my time wasted and cancelled dates :skip:

Now I’m enjoying not talking to anyone and like @TradePascalSiakam says, it gets easier the older you get.

Even at 21, this shyt does feel easier than 18, I know what type of interest indicators to look for and what dates I want to do, not them. I had to do some self introspection on where to improve physically too.
Not actively talking to women is great lmao.

Like when a girl flakes or starts acting different, I just drop them and move on with my day.
My homie be like go call her or message her, I’m like for what?? I don’t care enough.
I’m only trying to fukk I ain’t even trying to make her my shorty so fukk am I chasing her for?
Don’t care if she “bad”.
bytches come and go.

If you ain’t on the same page as me let’s not waste time
 

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brehs whens the last time you've been out on a date?

February 2019. She flaked a bunch of times and when we finally went out, it didn't go well. I'll take the L on that and I have since learned my lesson on simping.

I messed around with two other girls since then but I haven't went on any dates.
 
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brehs whens the last time you've been out on a date?
Man I don’t even remember when the last time I been on a “date”

Maybe 2018/2019?

Been trying to get to my shyt together mentally physically and financially.

Was speaking to my dad the other day he’s like you’re young man just get out there and enjoy so you don’t look back 10 years down the line and regret not living life.

He right so when Corona shyt calms down I’m just gonna put myself out there more, life short.

Hopefully by then I’ll be in a much better space too!
 

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Man I wasted so much time last year trying to get some p*ssy and instead I just got my time wasted and cancelled dates :skip:

Now I’m enjoying not talking to anyone and like @TradePascalSiakam says, it gets easier the older you get.

Even at 21, this shyt does feel easier than 18, I know what type of interest indicators to look for and what dates I want to do, not them. I had to do some self introspection on where to improve physically too.
How do you enjoy not talking to anyone? I’m not talking to anyone because I’m tired of the nothing coming from it or just getting curved. So it’s pretty much a defense mechanism now. “Can’t get curved, if you don’t shoot your shot.” But I wouldn’t say I enjoy it. Any advice?
 

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How do you enjoy not talking to anyone? I’m not talking to anyone because I’m tired of the nothing coming from it or just getting curved. So it’s pretty much a defense mechanism now. “Can’t get curved, if you don’t shoot your shot.” But I wouldn’t say I enjoy it. Any advice?

I’m happy cause while little seems to and Id rather just enjoy the next few months of chilling with no stress. I’ve assessed where I went wrong.

When summer comes Ill be back out there shooting my shots breh, don’t lock yourself out permanently :yeshrug:

Talking to women can be draining but you need to have an honest convo about what you’re doing wrong, what you want from your interactions and don’t allow yourself the comfort of defense mechanisms that ultimately lead nowhere.
 

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How do you enjoy not talking to anyone? I’m not talking to anyone because I’m tired of the nothing coming from it or just getting curved. So it’s pretty much a defense mechanism now. “Can’t get curved, if you don’t shoot your shot.” But I wouldn’t say I enjoy it. Any advice?

pick up hobbies to keep you busy and focused.

the thing js when you arent talking to anyone you should be working on a goal. You shouldnt just be living life and not improving. You want to get back into the game improved and more refined.
 

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I naturally pullback from chicks if I feel emotional drained. It just happens.

This chick from Bmore I'm talking is hot but here's the problem -- she's broke. She wanted me to cashapp but I was like "nawww" (Chief Keef voice). She's mad. Idc

I have two other chicks I'm talking too from online. Honestly, I rather meet women face to face. I'm more expressive offline than over text.
 
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