Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[NoirDynosaur]

I naturally pullback from chicks if I feel emotional drained. It just happens.

This chick from Bmore I'm talking is hot but here's the problem -- she's broke. She wanted me to cashapp but I was like "nawww" (Chief Keef voice). She's mad. Idc

I have two other chicks I'm talking too from online. Honestly, I rather meet women face to face. I'm more expressive offline than over text.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I naturally pullback from chicks if I feel emotional drained. It just happens.

This chick from Bmore I'm talking is hot but here's the problem -- she's broke. She wanted me to cashapp but I was like "nawww" (Chief Keef voice). She's mad. Idc

I have two other chicks I'm talking too from online. Honestly, I rather meet women face to face. I'm more expressive offline than over text.

you should block someone when they ask for money.

only people i send bread to is fam in Africa and I do it on my time not theirs.

 

[sfgiants]

Have any of y’all Made Eskimo sisters of two bytches
Without knowing they were friends

this bytch I piped years back just randomly became friends with another bytch i fukked about a year back and one of them hit me “hey how do you know Cristina”
Me: i know a lot of cristinas
bytch: (links ig) did y’all date
Me: forgot how y’all know each other
bytch: we just met and she’s asking how I know u and kept asking me questions it was mad weird
Me:

 

[Claudex]

Brehs, I've unwittingly landed on old money. Help a breh make the most out of this.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Brehs, I've unwittingly landed on old money. Help a breh make the most out of this.

i assume you mean a woman from a family that is of higher “social status” than your family?

 

[Claudex]

i assume you mean a woman from a family that is of higher “social status” than your family?

Way higher, she's old class historic government money (where I'm from anyway). Family members are famous but don't even show up on google. No kids, husband/boyfriend, no messy back-story (and if there is it's probably buried in one of the tens of countries she's lived in), speaks 6 languages, drives a Rover, the whole shebang.

She ain't even really my type, but I saw something in her and I was on the prowl, landed it , somehow thought it would be a one time thing until she basically admitted to starting to have feelings to me. I broke it down to her that I don't feel the same, but she hasn't gone away still.

Edit: The bolded was an awkward talk, I could literally see a lot of doors close but I had to do it based on the abundance mindstate.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Way higher, she's old class historic government money (where I'm from anyway). Family members are famous but don't even show up on google. No kids, husband/boyfriend, no messy back-story (and if there is it's probably buried in one of the tens of countries she's lived in), speaks 6 languages, drives a Rover, the whole shebang.

She ain't even really my type, but I saw something in her and I was on the prowl, landed it , somehow thought it would be a one time thing until she basically admitted to starting to have feelings to me. I broke it down to her that I don't feel the same, but she hasn't gone away still.

Edit: The bolded was an awkward talk, I could literally see a lot of doors close but I had to do it based on the abundance mindstate.

use her for access to her network

if she is in shape and has clear skin put her on the team

not sure how old you are but you should he moving strategically in all aspects of life.

 

[brandy]

Lemme ask another question. Same dude who complained about an entitled ex.

He and I planned to meet on Sunday. My last message to him was asking if I should call so we can plan something. He left me on read. He watching my ig stories. Apart of me wants to follow-up, but another half said leave it alone.

What would you do?

 

[Apollo Creed]

Lemme ask another question. Same dude who complained about an entitled ex.

He and I planned to meet on Sunday. My last message to him was asking if I should call so we can plan something. He left me on read. He watching my ig stories. Apart of me wants to follow-up, but another half said leave it alone.

What would you do?

Leave it alone or at max, hit em with a "you good?" if this is someone you have high interest in. For men, disengaging from convo we deem dumb/unproductive can happen but usually convo to set something up, most productive dudes try to seek confirmation as quick as possible so we can adjust our schedules. I can see a breh deading convo if you were having pointless dry convo i.e (wyd, nothing, how was your day, good, etc).

 

[brandy]

Leave it alone or at max, hit em with a "you good?" if this is someone you have high interest in. For men, disengaging from convo we deem dumb/unproductive can happen but usually convo to set something up, most productive dudes try to seek confirmation as quick as possible so we can adjust our schedules. I can see a breh deading convo if you were having pointless dry convo i.e (wyd, nothing, how was your day, good, etc).

See I am in denial. I kinda already knew this.

 

[phcitywarrior]

Lemme ask another question. Same dude who complained about an entitled ex.

He and I planned to meet on Sunday. My last message to him was asking if I should call so we can plan something. He left me on read. He watching my ig stories. Apart of me wants to follow-up, but another half said leave it alone.

What would you do?

Most brehs that are on it will follow up pretty quickly when it comes to actually meeting up. I like to know where I stand with people so I don't waste time. Personally I'd just drop my potential date a quick line to see if we're still on, but you're a brehette so things are a little different...

EDIT: To answer directly, I'd say just leave it.

 

[Apollo Creed]

See I am in denial. I kinda already knew this.

I assume this is the only dude you are talking to? As a woman I can't tell you how to feel being that you lean more to your emotional side than I do, but no need to play games, if you have interest in dude, follow up with a "you good, noticed you didn't confirm?", and he doesn't respond or beats around the bush, just move on because you're setting yourself up for a larger hurt down the road.

In the modern dating game, everyone is talking to multiple people, it is what it is, the most you can demand is when someone has your time they respect it (and you do the same for them). Unless you all are in a committed relationship nobody owes the other explanations (you more so should just notate this stuff in your head as things that can be an issue if you do eventually commit to this person).

 

[brandy]

Most brehs that are on it will follow up pretty quickly when it comes to actually meeting up. I like to know where I stand with people so I don't waste time. Personally I'd just drop my potential date a quick line to see if we're still on, but you're a brehette so things are a little different...

That is why I am asking because I don't know, and I always try to give the benefit of the doubt. Maybe he thought he sent the message. idk

I assume this is the only dude you are talking to? As a woman I can't tell you how to feel being that you lean more to your emotional side than I do, but no need to play games, if you have interest in dude, follow up with a "you good, noticed you didn't confirm?", and he doesn't respond or beats around the bush, just move on because you're setting yourself up for a larger hurt down the road.

In the modern dating game, everyone is talking to multiple people, it is what it is, the most you can demand is when someone has your time they respect it (and you do the same for them). Unless you all are in a committed relationship nobody owes the other explanations (you more so should just notate this stuff in your head as things that can be an issue if you do eventually commit to this person).

So he isn't.

But I like him more than the others because we had good chemistry from my perspective. However, I need to learn how to divest from shenanigans. I'll message him to see what's up.

 

[Apollo Creed]

That is why I am asking because I don't know, and I always try to give the benefit of the doubt. Maybe he thought he sent the message. idk




So he isn't.

But I like him more than the others because we had good chemistry from my perspective. However, I need to learn how to divest from shenanigans. I'll message him to see what's up.

yeah, only person you should be 'attached' to is the person you choose to commit to. If you have other stuff going on, I wouldn't even respond back to him, but more so take not of how he tries to reengage you, but if it is something you were really looking forward, like I mention just seek confirmation and go from there. In this day and age everyone tries to 'one up' each other, and that just aint natural when it comes to human relationships.

 

[brandy]

yeah, only person you should be 'attached' to is the person you choose to commit to. If you have other stuff going on, I wouldn't even respond back to him, but more so take not of how he tries to reengage you, but if it is something you were really looking forward, like I mention just seek confirmation and go from there. In this day and age everyone tries to 'one up' each other, and that just aint natural when it comes to human relationships.

Noted. I messaged him to just check on him because he has told me personal things about his life/stress, but if I get no response, .