Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MAKAVELI25]

So talking to some of the single coworkers who date and do apps it seems like there’s the new version of “it’s not you it’s me”. Which is “I have so much going on in my life right now and don’t think I’m ready to put myself out there”.

3 dudes I talked to last week all said different women gave them those lines. Yet the next day one of those chicks is posting thirst traps on Instagram.

Lol at thinking this is new. Various iterations of "I'm interested but my work/personal life,family/etc. is keeping me busy" have been around since we communicated by grunting and making sounds.

The bottomline is that in the dating game, if someone can't see you or speak to you for whatever reason, 99% of the time it is because they don't want to.

 

[MikelArteta]

Lol at thinking this is new. Various iterations of "I'm interested but my work/personal life,family/etc. is keeping me busy" have been around since we communicated by grunting and making sounds.

The bottomline is that in the dating game, if someone can't see you or speak to you for whatever reason, 99% of the time it is because they don't want to.

exactly this isn't 1999 where not everyone had a cell phone etc.

I can message someone in a small village in africa right now and get a reply 2 seconds later. I Can videocall them and see em.
Majority of people are working from home and bored silly in many big cities. Excuses nowadays are just total BS

 

[MikelArteta]

It's hard to explain it. I did the same mess with my ex. I liked another a guy more than him, but the other guy's flakiness pushed me towards my ex who showed me more interest. I ended up loving him until he moved and the LDR brought us to the end.


I know, but the weight loss from the heartbreak keeps me looking well.

life is easier when you deal with people who like you.

you don't have to do this and that for someone to take a 10 million dollar check right? Or a kid a ps5 right?


Why would you need to do this and that for someone to show you the interest you want

 

[Silkk]

If you’re not committed no one owes you anything. Just like a job interview no obligation to get back to you if they don’t like you.

I’ve been on dates that went for hours even some went back to their spot and all that yet still never heard from them. It’s life

Yeah, I'm at the point that sometimes you'll just have a pleasant time with someone and that's it. And like you said nobody owes anyone anything.

It's also why I don't ever message a woman after a date. If she likes you she'll be in touch.

If she doesn't then, Nothing I can do. Certainly won't be blowing up her phone.

Im at the point where im about to block every chick in my phone and only take it off when I want to talk to them.

 

[Actually6Foot3]

So talking to some of the single coworkers who date and do apps it seems like there’s the new version of “it’s not you it’s me”. Which is “I have so much going on in my life right now and don’t think I’m ready to put myself out there”.

3 dudes I talked to last week all said different women gave them those lines. Yet the next day one of those chicks is posting thirst traps on Instagram.

tried to put my boy on to the friend of a chic I was smashing early last year.

the broad sent her pics to my chic who sent me to me and I had my boy send me his pics so i could forward to her.

All of a sudden the friend is taking a break from dating and men to work on herself and isn’t interested in a double date and it has nothing to do with my boy blah blah of course he ain’t buy that shyt.


the friend was good money too

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

Why is it that men have to "take hints" while pursuing a women that may or may not be interested, and if he reads the situation wrong it's his fault? Why can't women just be upfront?

I just had a conversation with one of my homeboys about this girl he was trying to get with on tinder. They matched and were texting back and forth. Ended up exchanging numbers. Apparently the next day she ended up telling him off because he asked her if she wanted to fukk

She said and I quote "thats creepy as fukk. You should've taken the hint that I didn't want to go there because I've never mentioned having sex with you. You're objectifying me"

I've been with her before but he didn't know until I told him. She lives in our area. Believe me when I say I asked this same girl "when can I come over?" and we fukked the same day with no hassle

I know my homeboy isn't creepy and this girl only said what she said because she didn't like him like that. My thing is, why match with the nikka and give him your number? Why is it his fault that she isn't feeling him but can't tell him straight up?

Idk if it's a feminism thing with these women nowadays or something else but that shyt really had me confused

 

[MoveForward]

I'm a complete piece of sh1t... I broke it off with this chick because I realized she wasn't right. I couldn't put my finger on it but something was amiss, so I blamed myself and made up all kinds of sh1t to make it seem like I was the problem.

I didn't talk to her for a few days and I thought we would leave it at that. Well this broad hit me up telling me I was arrogant, I wasn't all of that anyway, said I wasn't a real man, talked crap about my pops, and she even brought up my divorce.

The usual sh1t broads do when you quit them
... Well I wasn't amused

I said some horrible things to this woman brehs... She told me her deepest darkest secrets and I brought all of that sh1t up. She got under my skin, especially when she started talking about my dad when he was nothing but nice to her and her son.

I'm going to just step away from dating for 2021 and be voluntarily celibate.

 

[Deafheaven]

Mind you Ive fukked this goofy bytch already and she sends me nudes and vids weekly. Hell the night before she was talking about deep throating me. And ironically I still didnt expect to smash, I dont expect shyt from no on. Girl made up a whole scenario to make herself angry

This how you reply to foolishness. No need to get emotional, let them goofy heauxs fester in their idiocy. Dont stoop to their level

 

[Astroslik]

I'm a complete piece of sh1t... I broke it off with this chick because I realized she wasn't right. I couldn't put my finger on it but something was amiss, so I blamed myself and made up all kinds of sh1t to make it seem like I was the problem.

I didn't talk to her for a few days and I thought we would leave it at that. Well this broad hit me up telling me I was arrogant, I wasn't all of that anyway, said I wasn't a real man, talked crap about my pops, and she even brought up my divorce.

The usual sh1t broads do when you quit them
... Well I wasn't amused

I said some horrible things to this woman brehs... She told me her deepest darkest secrets and I brought all of that sh1t up. She got under my skin, especially when she started talking about my dad when he was nothing but nice to her and her son.

I'm going to just step away from dating for 2021 and be voluntarily celibate.

Meh, fukk that bytch

You bring up my family (especially parents) all bets are off.

 

[Abraxus]

He's technically right.

You don't gotta be good looking to get the below average white women he gets.

 

[Vinny Lupton]

I'm a complete piece of sh1t... I broke it off with this chick because I realized she wasn't right. I couldn't put my finger on it but something was amiss, so I blamed myself and made up all kinds of sh1t to make it seem like I was the problem.

I didn't talk to her for a few days and I thought we would leave it at that. Well this broad hit me up telling me I was arrogant, I wasn't all of that anyway, said I wasn't a real man, talked crap about my pops, and she even brought up my divorce.

The usual sh1t broads do when you quit them
... Well I wasn't amused

I said some horrible things to this woman brehs... She told me her deepest darkest secrets and I brought all of that sh1t up. She got under my skin, especially when she started talking about my dad when he was nothing but nice to her and her son.

I'm going to just step away from dating for 2021 and be voluntarily celibate.

Man why do they do this happened to me not more than a week ago too. This chick said all sorts of shyt about my family, I never thought to say some unnecessary shyt to a woman because we broke it off. Grown babies alla dem

 

[King]

Read this:

Work on everything in this list and you’ll never have to worry about women again

 

[King]

I'm a complete piece of sh1t... I broke it off with this chick because I realized she wasn't right.

Nah you good breh, you don’t have to worry about her anymore.

Now go fukk as many women as you want until you find the next one you want to chill with for a while.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Why is it that men have to "take hints" while pursuing a women that may or may not be interested, and if he reads the situation wrong it's his fault? Why can't women just be upfront?

I just had a conversation with one of my homeboys about this girl he was trying to get with on tinder. They matched and were texting back and forth. Ended up exchanging numbers. Apparently the next day she ended up telling him off because he asked her if she wanted to fukk

She said and I quote "thats creepy as fukk. You should've taken the hint that I didn't want to go there because I've never mentioned having sex with you. You're objectifying me"

I've been with her before but he didn't know until I told him. She lives in our area. Believe me when I say I asked this same girl "when can I come over?" and we fukked the same day with no hassle

I know my homeboy isn't creepy and this girl only said what she said because she didn't like him like that. My thing is, why match with the nikka and give him your number? Why is it his fault that she isn't feeling him but can't tell him straight up?

Idk if it's a feminism thing with these women nowadays or something else but that shyt really had me confused

It's a combination of your boy lacking game and people (in this case,, the girl) misunderstanding the point of Tinder.

Most flirting should be nonverbal, if you are doing it right you should never even have to mention sex but the chick should still know 100% that you wanna fukk. I don't even ask chicks who I've already smashed if they want to fukk, let alone a chick I'm trying to add to the collection.

Also, Tinder is a fukk app, not a dating app. nikkaz out here using this shyt like match.com and JDate or some shyt.

 

[Krazy]

Lemme ask another question. Same dude who complained about an entitled ex.

He and I planned to meet on Sunday. My last message to him was asking if I should call so we can plan something. He left me on read. He watching my ig stories. Apart of me wants to follow-up, but another half said leave it alone.

What would you do?

Hmmm.

How often do you speak? Maybe he genuinely read and forgot to reply.
I'm guilty of this sometimes but usually when I see their story it'll remind me.

I would send one final message to see where his heads at just for clarity and find out If hes still interested in meeting you etc.