Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[VertigoKnight]

I was speaking more so on the mindset breh.

I’m also a fan of coming off as non judgementAl when talking to women in general. They’ll tell on themselves if they don’t feel like they’ll judged for it

Yep. I just sit back and listen to a woman once shes properly comfortable with me.

Both women I've slept with and women I've kept as actual friends. The latter are most interesting a woman who you're not going to fukk. Her filter after a while is off. And you can learn some stuff.

 

[Silkk]

The way that women interest and energy switch so quick is hilarious

 

[Killigraphy]

The way that women interest and energy switch so quick is hilarious

Extremely capricious creatures, the key? Treat them like children. Behavioral psychology always works. Provide positive and negative reinforcement. Make them jump through hoops, ignore and ice them whenever they act up. Always works. Ultimately, flighty creatures are the most weakest, no discipline and zero patience. Always stand above them, tell them they're wrong, never give up any battles, and always be self amusing, almost aloof to their behavior.

 

[Rozay Oro]

I took such a big L in February I can’t even bump this because I memorized her bday

I know I know y’all
Edit:
She not an ex btw just a floozy who wanted my dikk but I wanted her entirely. I’m good now.
Edit2:
Don’t judge me I loved making her laugh. fukk it hurts still.

I just caught myself being a simp. Help me get over her. I really don’t give a fukk about my current bytch and her son. No disrespect, I can make her laugh too. The girl before her I sat on her too long and fukked it up. I could’ve fukked but instead just did simp shyt. I’m so sad cause she was cute as fukk!


fukk my life brehs

 

[Killigraphy]

I just caught myself being a simp. Help me get over her. I really don’t give a fukk about my current bytch and her son. No disrespect, I can make her laugh too. The girl before her I sat on her too long and fukked it up. I could’ve fukked but instead just did simp shyt. I’m so sad cause she was cute as fukk!


fukk my life brehs

Never date single mothers....fukk em, take from em, but she's never gonna be your wife/girlfriend....though given the statistics....is shes over 22, you're gonna run into plenty. Really, there's a plethora of mantra's and phrases I can tell you to get rid of your simp behavior, but if you understand the game, it seems like you just slipped up. Which means, you need more fortitude, you have to be more stalwart in your endeavors, be righteous, be great, but also be moving the chains for sex/kissing/whatever. There's a point where she HAS to know, that you want to fukk...if she does, then its all on you.

Performance anxiety? Shyness? Whatever it is, you need to pull the trigger faster. Sounds to me like you're falling in love with her personality, which is fine....just get a blowjob while doing it. Seems to me like you either couldn't perform or just got lost in self amusing yourself. What exactly did you do that was simpish?

 

[Rozay Oro]

Never date single mothers....fukk em, take from em, but she's never gonna be your wife/girlfriend....though given the statistics....is shes over 22, you're gonna run into plenty. Really, there's a plethora of mantra's and phrases I can tell you to get rid of your simp behavior, but if you understand the game, it seems like you just slipped up. Which means, you need more fortitude, you have to be more stalwart in your endeavors, be righteous, be great, but also be moving the chains for sex/kissing/whatever. There's a point where she HAS to know, that you want to fukk...if she does, then its all on you.

Performance anxiety? Shyness? Whatever it is, you need to pull the trigger faster. Sounds to me like you're falling in love with her personality, which is fine....just get a blowjob while doing it. Seems to me like you either couldn't perform or just got lost in self amusing yourself. What exactly did you do that was simpish?

I don’t care anymore but it’s very simpish. I don’t want to talk bout it.

 

[Rozay Oro]

It make me sad, sorry.

 

[Macallik86]

Tinder bytch and a bytch from work. Idgaf these bytches been breaking my heart for muthafukkin years.

Fam. Almost everything you post in here is toxic AF. You need to see a therapist who can objectively show you where you are fukking up imo. Your response to everything that the girl does is "I'm going to cheat on her".

You are acting extremely insecure which is going to push away even the most down chicks, and you are reacting to things like a child. You clearly are not ready for a relationship and are a borderline alcoholic based on the amount of drunken posts you have on TheColi.

My guess is you have unresolved abandonment issues which causes you to be clingy with women and then lash out when your feelings aren't reciprocated. All of this corny shyt you are doing is pushing women away from you. Why are you even acting like you want a monogamous relationship with this women who isn't giving you the energy you want? Everyone in this thread has been in a situation where they felt like they weren't appreciated by a woman and knows what that feels like. It takes confidence and maturity to end things when that happens and know that you can find someone better.

Man up and end things with this chick if you feel like things are trash. Don't bytch about her in every other post or tell us how you're gonna cheat on her. If she aint giving you what you want, then let her go and find someone else.

Spoiler

Also, realize that until you fix all this toxic shyt, you might be able to get a woman, but you'll always have a lot of trouble keeping her.

 

[Serious]

Wrong

If you wanna be seen by the top babes on there, you have to be swiping no more than you're swiping yes. The algorithms try to match people at the same level

is this real?

 

[Serious]

The hotel room never worked for me when I didn’t have my spot.

The women would complain about feeling “cheap” and like hoes.

I aint gon lie, women legit feel some type of way when you checking out a hotel room with them.

 

[Serious]

Well just a tip here. Their is an app called Day Use where you can book a room at a luxury hotel for a few hours, some that don’t even do hourly rates or short stays. That way you don’t have to take girls to the motel six or some run down shyt. I’m talking hotel rooms with nice ass office spaces where you can bring your laptop and do work, good views of the city, balconies, good decor.

shyt that would impress them and make them feel comfortable for only 60-80 dollars for 4 or 6 hours. You could also rent out an air bnb as well.

Clutch, rep coming.

 

[Serious]

What does it mean when a guy describes his ex as entitled? I see guys say it here too. Can someone explain what do they mean by that?

traditional woman with modern tendencies

 

[Serious]

yall ever have women randomly blow up your phone, to check to see if you out with another woman.

Like I can't fully explain it, but I be out and about, be getting calls from this one chick, after I already told I'm having lunch with someone or meeting up with some friends.

 

[DaRealness]

yall ever have women randomly blow up your phone, to check to see if you out with another woman.

Like I can't fully explain it, but I be out and about, be getting calls from this one chick, after I already told I'm having lunch with someone or meeting up with some friends.

They just call you out the blue and ask if you're out with another broad?

 

[Serious]

They just call you out the blue and ask if you're out with another broad?

Nah more like call out the blue to disturb the peace, to confirm I'm doing xyz, when it was settled through text.

So it's like if you had another broad wit you, you'd be exposed.