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It’s Already happening.


I’m in the top 10% of brehs and I had a gang of matches pop up yesterday, all dimes.

I can’t keep up @paperbag

i think summer and maybe even fall for cuffing season these apps gonna boom.

summer for one night stands in other cities cause of folks traveling lol
 

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How do y’all start conversations with matches that have nothing in their bio. And just their pictures.

like just telling them they’re attractive or pretty is wack and over done.
 

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How do y’all start conversations with matches that have nothing in their bio. And just their pictures.

like just telling them they’re attractive or pretty is wack and over done.

troll something in their pic or come left field. If she gets it then she may be someone who wont have dry convo. Keep in mind there is a fine line between coming off witty and being a weirdo.
 

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How do y’all start conversations with matches that have nothing in their bio. And just their pictures.

like just telling them they’re attractive or pretty is wack and over done.

drop an opinion opener if there's nothing stronger to go on, something like "Waffles or pancakes for breakfast?" they always respond to food.
 

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is speaking to a chick everyday counter productive? we don't text a lot throughout the day but she always calls once she leaves work :jbhmm:

I'm thinking of ignoring the calls now since we meeting in person on the weekend anyway
 

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what advice yall have for being able to recover for Round 2 faster? when I was younger I used to be ready to go again in 10-15 min but now it takes much longer
 

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is speaking to a chick everyday counter productive? we don't text a lot throughout the day but she always calls once she leaves work :jbhmm:

I'm thinking of ignoring the calls now since we meeting in person on the weekend anyway

I wouldn't ignore a call, just keep the convo short by saying you gotta do something. If yall actually link up then the only time convo is a problem is if she sucks at keeping up or its taking away energy from productive activities.
 

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I wouldn't ignore a call, just keep the convo short by saying you gotta do something. If yall actually link up then the only time convo is a problem is if she sucks at keeping up or its taking away energy from productive activities.

It's more this. If she calls thats two hours gone right there without me even realizing. It just gives me an easy out to continue procrastinating and demonstrates I ain't doing shyt with my time.
 

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It's more this. If she calls thats two hours gone right there without me even realizing. It just gives me an easy out to continue procrastinating and demonstrates I ain't doing shyt with my time.

what time of job do you have? If there is something you can say you are studying for then use that to minimize the time. I'd carve out X amount of hours a week you dont mind to communicate. Flat out ignoring isn't the best thing to do if you want someone on your roster, but making them aware 'hey working on this goal' should make them mindful and if they aren't mindful then that is a red flag you ask yourself if you want to deal with.
 
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