Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Brandsdale]

since most of yall just hit 30s

whats the game plan before we check out?

if no partner in the next 5-6 years.... whats the game plan

If I fail I fail, just so long as I tried

By 36, I think i might have to pack it up for real and just cop a couple dogs and be a bachelor for life

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

How old are these chicks you seen this with?

Chicks in their 30s. They feel pressured to get married and have kids before it's too late.

I agree but i csn kinda empathize on some level with them. I think some of them feel like they could get with a dude, be with him shooting at the gym, running after the loose balls, help him win then championship only to get traded right after...

Not saying they are right to always want the finished product but i understand...

Yeah I get it too.

One thing I've realized is that women in their 30s are jaded to a certain degree from past experiences and you have to pay for the sins of past men.

become the best version of yourself then choose who meets your requirements. Trying to commit to someone while you are working on yourself often leads to you being at their mercy and ultimately losing focus

I used to think like this but it's like am I not deserving of love because I'm not a completely finished product?

I'm not rich yet but I do some great things career wise.

I literally was on NBA League Pass commentating a game. I'm trying to figure it out like everyone else.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Chicks in their 30s. They feel pressured to get married and have kids before it's too late.




Yeah I get it too.

One thing I've realized is that women in their 30s are jaded to a certain degree from past experiences and you have to pay for the sins of past men.





I used to think like this but it's like am I not deserving of love because I'm not a completely finished product?

I'm not rich yet but I do some great things career wise.

I literally was on NBA League Pass commentating a game. I'm trying to figure it out like everyone else.

only women that will ever love you unconditionally is your mother. Sooner you understand that the better.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

only women that will ever love you unconditionally is your mother. Sooner you understand that the better.

I definitely understand that but the fickleness and overall fleeting nature of women and relationships is still crazy to me. It doesn’t get to me the way it did in my 20s. Now that I understand it, I recognize it and it doesn’t shake me up emotionally the way it used to.

 

[Brandsdale]

An example of laying down the foundation and putting an end to “shyt test”. Could of done less yelling, but dude knows his worth.

The comments: “He’s toxic! He’s toxicity” “he’s a narcissist”

Really like how dude explained to shorty how things go irl

You can’t really ever meet someone else’s standards of communication without there being a constant Cycle of disconnect, critique, followed by correction in order to satisfy your girl. But, if you have an open door policy, then what’s the issue?

 

[RealAssanova]

I did explain it to her. But she still same came back with the “It’s still not making me feel good, I just don’t like it, you would stop it you care that much”. I even called her out on some shyt she did similar to that and I never complained and she started crying and then hung up.

What i’ve come to realize now is that “explaining” things to women never works in our favour or solves the issue at hand. Instead, things end up getting drawn out even more which results in you becoming unnecessarily agitated. Or worst, you end up in an argument which is what the woman wants and nikkas should NEVER argue with a woman. It subconsciously says to her she can get to you which means you’re weak.

Simply state your point, deny or deflect ONCE and say nothing more afterwards. She wants to continue? Cool. Walk away from her or ignore her.

Explaining/talking/arguing is a feminine trait and is for the birds. Men are about action.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I definitely understand that but the fickleness and overall fleeting nature of women and relationships still shakes me up. It doesn’t get to me the way it did in my 20s. Now that I understand it, I recognize it and it doesn’t shake me up emotionally the way it used to.

I assume you want kids?

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

I assume you want kids?

Yes

 

[DapMeUp!]

One thing I've realized is that women in their 30s are jaded to a certain degree from past experiences and you have to pay for the sins of past men.

Damn

You just described the last two situations I was in. They weren't 30 but late 20s so same concept really

These women would tell me all the shyt they went through with their ex.
I don't even come close to putting them through half of that, but a lil shaky situation arises and they are ready to bounce Nikkas gotta be perfect for you after your ex got 50 chances

 

[Apollo Creed]

Damn

You just described the last two situations I was in. They weren't 30 but late 20s so same concept really

These women would tell me all the shyt they went through with their ex.
I don't even come close to putting them through half of that, but a lil shaky situation arises and they are ready to bounce Nikkas gotta be perfect for you after your ex got 50 chances

hence my point of being the best version of yourself possible. We often deal with nonsense because we think this is all we can get. Lotta brehs don't know their worth. You ever heard of the 'breh who don't know he looks good' or (pause) the 'breh who doesn't realize he has a big D'. Women bank on trying to get saved by men who do not know their worth so those men can be their slaves. The men who know their worth don't have to jump through hoops with women (because when they sense nonsense they bounce).

 

[MikelArteta]

hence my point of being the best version of yourself possible. We often deal with nonsense because we think this is all we can get. Lotta brehs don't know their worth. You ever heard of the 'breh who don't know he looks good' or (pause) the 'breh who doesn't realize he has a big D'. Women bank on trying to get saved by men who do not know their worth so those men can be their slaves. The men who know their worth don't have to jump through hoops with women (because when they sense nonsense they bounce).

Pretty much. Many men don't know their worth

Damn

You just described the last two situations I was in. They weren't 30 but late 20s so same concept really

These women would tell me all the shyt they went through with their ex.
I don't even come close to putting them through half of that, but a lil shaky situation arises and they are ready to bounce Nikkas gotta be perfect for you after your ex got 50 chances

you’ll sit and listen how these dudes were cheaters, azz holes never did this and that and you’ll ask how long they were together and you hear like years

While after a few weeks you buy her a medium instead of large coffee and it’s a it’s not working out the way I thought it would I thought you’d be the man who’d finally listen to me

 

[Apollo Creed]

Pretty much. Many men don't know their worth



you’ll sit and listen how these dudes were cheaters, azz holes never did this and that and you’ll ask how long they were together and you hear like years

While after a few weeks you buy her a medium instead of large coffee and it’s a it’s not working out the way I thought it would I thought you’d be the man who’d finally listen to me

“emotional abuse” is the go to excuse

 

[Serious]

Ig legit the best the place to pick up women. I have a ghost account, but there’s a lot of regular women who are easily accessible.

 

[Serious]

since most of yall just hit 30s

whats the game plan before we check out?

if no partner in the next 5-6 years.... whats the game plan

Escorts. Women turn 21 everyday. No one care if you got penthouse money. Only brokeboys get the stigma

 

[VertigoKnight]

I definitely understand that but the fickleness and overall fleeting nature of women and relationships still shakes me up. It doesn’t get to me the way it did in my 20s. Now that I understand it, I recognize it and it doesn’t shake me up emotionally the way it used to.

Yeah when you deal with enough of them and see how it is. It can shake you to the core.

I'm sorta happy though. I've already done the whole marriage thing and now know how to mostly approach these situations for my own peace of mind. Now when a chick I thought I was vibing with just straight up vanishes I don't sweat it.

You younger cats if you've tuned in have all this knowledge on deck to sidestep a lot of bullshyt. But you also have to deal with a lot of chicks who've grown up in the social media age who are just plain not relationship material.