Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Got two different bytches snapchat from work. Mothafukk my ex.


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Started chatting to a chick on the weekend who I'd matched with on Tinder before I deleted the app. We had a video chat on WhatsApp and it went well enough. Relaxed and plenty to chat about.

I messaged on Sunday morning and she messaged back a few hours later. No problem, the message I sent wasn't urgent and I knew she was working for a few hours.

We had two messages back and forth.

Then she messages me monday evening. And tells me she's really bad at messaging back promptly.

Uh huh!:francis:

Every chick whose told me that, shyt goes south very quickly.

We swapped 2 messages and I sent the last message. Which was replying to her request to go on a walk. Nada since then. And I'm not double messaging.

This chick 37 yrs old and awful at messaging?

Get the fukk outta here!

:mjlol:

I'm not even mad. I psychologically see this shyt play out now and can only laugh at the absurdity.

A lot of these chicks dont realise that switched on men know what counts as actual high interest vs lukewarm stalling and hmm maybe energy and will act accordingly.
 
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Started chatting to a chick on the weekend who I'd matched with on Tinder before I deleted the app. We had a video chat on WhatsApp and it went well enough. Relaxed and plenty to chat about.

I messaged on Sunday morning and she messaged back a few hours later. No problem, the message I sent wasn't urgent and I knew she was working for a few hours.

We had two messages back and forth.

Then she messages me monday evening. And tells me she's really bad at messaging back promptly.

Uh huh!:francis:

Every chick whose told me that, shyts goes south very quickly.

We swapped 2 messages and I sent the last message. Which was replying to her request to go on a walk. Nada since then. And I'm not double messaging.

This chick 37 yrs old and awful at messaging?

Get the fukk outta here!

:mjlol:

I'm not even mad. I psychologically see this shyt play out now and can only laugh at the absurdity.

A lot of these chicks dont realise that switched on men know what counts as actual high interest vs lukewarm stalling and hmm maybe energy and will act accordingly.


Which is worse to you; A person you can vibe with in person but sucks on the phone, or vice versa?

I myself can handle a boring person, face to face, but if someone can't text, I sit there just facepalming, its like dealing with an old family member who just got a new phone.
 

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Basic women bore me. Brehs that cuff ugly Betty women, how y’all do it? Meat won’t even get hard for a plain Jane :dame:

I'm not fukking, its only a blowjob. Also I look for butterfaces, so long as she has a 10 body, her face can be 3, I won't be looking at it much. Also, unless you're paying for escorts, there isn't a place where you can find an influx of pretty women, its statistically impossible, the law of averages exists for a reason. So you go through a few 5's, even 6's, but its rare to go back to back with 7's, and 8's. Do I have hot women in my carfax? Sure, but I have a lot more fuglies due to the averages. Any and all my ex's however, have been cute/hot, I'm not spending months to even years with some ugly broad thats for sure. But if we're talking just racking up numbers? Yeah, expect fugo's...they'll even pay for you attention/presence.
 

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Which is worse to you; A person you can vibe with in person but sucks on the phone, or vice versa?

I myself can handle a boring person, face to face, but if someone can't text, I sit there just facepalming, its like dealing with an old family member who just got a new phone.

Hmm I'd say I'd like someone I vibe with in person.
I'm trying to keep phone chit chat to setting up meets.

I can handle a boring person as well but as much as I can carry a convo I want someone to make an effort.

The funny thing is me and this chick talked about how when people don't match your energy it's a red flag.
 

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Yeah I straight up told her no I’m not interested in being friends and we prob shouldn’t hang out. She’s like I still wanna see you every now and then. :mjpls:I didn’t say much after that besides ok cool.


In my gut I feel like I’m a week or two from smashing
:sas1:woke up to a "I miss you jerk" text this morning from her
 

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I'm not fukking, its only a blowjob. Also I look for butterfaces, so long as she has a 10 body, her face can be 3, I won't be looking at it much. Also, unless you're paying for escorts, there isn't a place where you can find an influx of pretty women, its statistically impossible, the law of averages exists for a reason. So you go through a few 5's, even 6's, but its rare to go back to back with 7's, and 8's. Do I have hot women in my carfax? Sure, but I have a lot more fuglies due to the averages. Any and all my ex's however, have been cute/hot, I'm not spending months to even years with some ugly broad thats for sure. But if we're talking just racking up numbers? Yeah, expect fugo's...they'll even pay for you attention/presence.
That makes sense. I’m just rather picky so I’d rather smash quality and not really concerned with the #s.
 

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That makes sense. I’m just rather picky so I’d rather smash quality and not really concerned with the #s.

I agree, the only problem I ran into for a while, was refusing easy lays/fun times over chicks that looked cute/hot but didn't know how to flirt let alone fukk. A butterface with a great body who's limber and knows how to fukk, will always be my main target. There's nothing worse than a pretty face that's unhealthy and can't fukk.
 

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I mean... if you talk to enough women over the entirety of your existence, you will come across women who hit you with some form of "let's just be friends".. which could mean she either lost interest for whatever reason, found another dude (and moved you to the bench), or was never interested to begin with but doesn't want to be direct.

Either way, it's rejection... which doesn't matter. Whether she says "i'm not interested", "this isn't the right time", "let's just be friends"... just realize that you know you've matured when you no longer linger or micro-analyze such nonsense.

Oh, you ain't tryna fukk? Cool. *KIM*
Good insight here
 

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Damn I stumbled across my ex FB

She look so good, even better than she did when we was dating:mjcry:

That glow up from 18 to 21 is something :wow:

Don't get weak and text her....and you "stumbled"? onto her page? :comeon:

Stop it, block, ignore, do what you have to, and focus on yourself. Her glow up lasts till 25, you're can go well into your 50's if you take care of yourself
 

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Don't get weak and text her....and you "stumbled"? onto her page? :comeon:

Stop it, block, ignore, do what you have to, and focus on yourself. Her glow up lasts till 25, you're can go well into your 50's if you take care of yourself
I’m on top of my game right now I can’t get much better:manny:Graduated fire academy in January, best shape I ever been in, stable career. I ain’t talk to her in a year, she’s in a relationship right now anyway.

This was the type of shorty you bring around the fam and have your uncles saying “I see you nephew”:myman:

everyone I’ve messed with since then has just been....ight
 
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