Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Just had a nightmare nap that made me realize how much I let ptsd, low self esteem, anxiety and depression eat up so much of my teen years and early adulthood. Still in my 20s and look great.

My question. New women in my life is always a great feeling. After the nut what? I’m just gonna get better with women to fukk more and better looking ones? When I get a better job I just gonna make bread for independence and to cop shyt?

Where do I find joy, peace and fulfillment that is long term and not short term like sex and drugs?
 

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Was talking to a chick the other day who hit me with that “My ex was crazy, I had to get away from him”


Left that bytch alone before it even got started :russ: Already know what that shyt means now. Any girl I’ve ever heard say that and still talked to been nothing but fukkery :heh:
 

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Just had a nightmare nap that made me realize how much I let ptsd, low self esteem, anxiety and depression eat up so much of my teen years and early adulthood. Still in my 20s and look great.

My question. New women in my life is always a great feeling. After the nut what? I’m just gonna get better with women to fukk more and better looking ones? When I get a better job I just gonna make bread for independence and to cop shyt?

Where do I find joy, peace and fulfillment that is long term and not short term like sex and drugs?

Ultimately our own bodies, tell us that one woman, simply isn't going to satiate the void inside that hungers for something greater than say; sex. Yes, sex feels great, its an awesome release, but its only that, a release....it isn't fulfillment, it isn't a goal, and accomplishment, its just* sex. Men are naturally stoic or one can argue that society makes us this way. We are to work hard, prosper, and ultimately die without complaint. Which for me, is fine, they said nothing about boasting, giving advice and knowing I'm the best version of myself.


For you and I, life must be hard, we wouldn't want anything else. Procrastination leads to loneliness, bitterness and resentment. "Easy" is what we want to call sleep, and eating, but not life. I want to struggle, I want the trial by fire, so that I know for a fact; I'm better than every human I run into. Its a delusion I allow myself because it makes me read more, work out plenty, and give advice whenever I can. If I'm to choose a side, its that where I'm the beacon of strength, not the barnacle of life.

Peace comes from within, and no, it isn't easy. Stop looking for an easy way into your happiness, you must struggle the hardest, for yourself. Create your sanctuary, surround yourself with anything that brings you the slightest ounce of peace. For me it was walking miles a day, music in my ear, and stopping to read a new book. It then morphed into collecting, hobby/model kits, drawing/painting, and eventually writing. Peace doesn't stop, there is no ceiling, always add, never subtract. Become a renaissance man of sorts, and you'll realize peace was always there, waiting to be discovered by he who dare be bold.










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Was talking to a chick the other day who hit me with that “My ex was crazy, I had to get away from him”


Left that bytch alone before it even got started :russ: Already know what that shyt means now. Any girl I’ve ever heard say that and still talked to been nothing but fukkery :heh:


They reveal themselves with what they reveal of others...the cover my change, the book is still the same.
 

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why did I get my balls drained last night:dame:and yet I’m hornier than ever today? This shyt ain’t a rare occurrence I just assumed regular sex was supposed to curb that shyt. I only ask for old head advice now cuz I know y’all nut 1x a week and be chilling.
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Unfortunately I live in a country ass town in the South with a population of about 15,000. Even the surrounding cities aren't really hitting on shyt.

Just a whole drought down here. Nothing interesting to do. I seriously need some kind of proactive hobby that is social in nature so that I can be out and about a little more. Can't really take cool pictures of you doing interesting shyt if there's nothing to do.

I don't really care for the bar/club scene.

Ultimately I want to move once I get some matters handled. Maybe North carolina. Maybe texas.
 

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Women really don’t want honesty. They say they do, but they don’t :mjlol:

Truth.

In actuality they tend to prefer lies, sentiments, and delusions. Even if they don't realize it.

100% straight honestly is pretty much career suicide with women if you're trying to be successful in the game
 
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Unfortunately I live in a country ass town in the South with a population of about 15,000. Even the surrounding cities aren't really hitting on shyt.

Just a whole drought down here. Nothing interesting to do. I seriously need some kind of proactive hobby that is social in nature so that I can be out and about a little more. Can't really take cool pictures of you doing interesting shyt if there's nothing to do.

I don't really care for the bar/club scene.

Ultimately I want to move once I get some matters handled. Maybe North carolina. Maybe texas.

The internet exists, find hobbies you haven't tried before. From building models of any kind, to reading, drawing, painting, etc. You can pretty much do everything outside. From time to time I used hit the Adirondacks and go backpacking/camping. Bring my hatchet, some rope, MRE's, lighters, etc. and get away from the world. If you can't find someone who shares anything that you concentrate time on, they simply aren't worth it.
 

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They don't know what the fukk they want :bryan:


Essentially yes. And everything they do want, is far too utopian to ever come to fruition, hence why they fall for the same dumb lies, said by the same worthless fukkboys. This is why I don't care what they want, I know what I need, and it isn't a wailing banshee, or finding my happiness or success in someone else. Its my ship, I'm the captain, and my crew are the like minded, goal searching, b*stard children of the generation. A woman is never the solution to the everlasting void we as men try to fill. We are starved for greatness in a time where the lesser would see us castrated, voiceless and without a rebellious thought.

Be your own man, sail the seas, impart the wisdom you learn to those who would listen. We are masters in training, wise men still learning, and lions...still roaring.


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Essentially yes. And everything they do want, is far too utopian to ever come to fruition, hence why they fall for the same dumb lies, said by the same worthless fukkboys. This is why I don't care what they want, I know what I need, and it isn't a wailing banshee, or finding my happiness or success in someone else. Its my ship, I'm the captain, and my crew are the like minded, goal searching, b*stard children of the generation. A woman is never the solution to the everlasting void we as men try to fill. We are starved for greatness in a time where the lesser would see us castrated, voiceless and without a rebellious thought.

Be your own man, sail the seas, impart the wisdom you learn to those who would listen. We are masters in training, wise men still learning, and lions...still roaring.


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“fukk Them bytches”


I feel you breh :yeshrug:
 

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Also this morning had a real life quick gems thread chat with my friend

His GF of 6 months dumped him last night. Guy is real cut up about it. So they'd gone to a dinner party yesterday went back to her place afterwards and he felt the mood was off so asked her what was up? she told him she doesn't love him and needs to feel that to be with someone. He told her well if you don't love me what are we doing? She told him he was right and ended it.

All the signs were there. He'd felt shes been distant past few weeks. And she had told him she wanted a chat 3 weeks ago, but then wouldn't say what it was about. I told him she'd probably felt that way for weeks. For her it was probably a summer fling.

This chick though, a few weeks ago she messaged me on FB asking if I wanted to go and see Lion King with her as he didn't want to.

Now she did this without telling him she had done so. I respectfully declined and told her I was busy. I didn't say anything to my friend as I didn't want to cause some aggro. And I didn't know if her invite was innocent or her testing the waters.

Did tell him she's probably got a new guy ready to go.

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This a guy who doesn't have a lot of luck with picking up women so this one will sting.


So update to this one.

So my man was on IG this morning. I know him and her had been in sporadic contact.

Last time she messaged him was last September seeing how covid life was going for him. For some reason he still had her on IG, but she hadn't posted anything since they split. Anyway she popped up this morning and posted a story. First time since they split. I know he still loves her and he told me curiosity got the better of him and he clicked her story and the picture that greeted him is below. Take it in mind my friend is the whitest of white men.


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He suspected she had gotten back with her ex as they moved to Canada together but he stayed in Toronto and she moved to Vancouver. I had no idea her ex was black. Makes me look back at her inviting me out to the cinema just me and her very uncomfortably. I really hope it was innocent and she wasn't looking to tussle with the first black guy that crossed her path that she was comfortable enough with.

Anyway told him that this is a maybe a big sign that he needs to get himself back out there and just meet women with no expectations. I know this guy was holding out hope she'd come back.
 

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Women really don’t want honesty. They say they do, but they don’t :mjlol:


Maaann....this 40 year old bytch messaged me from facebook dating...lightskin...big lips n tittys...ill play...

20 mins after the # i lost interest...from her facebook posts to het texts...bytch was askn what what do i do to have fun??

We in a fukkn pandemic u idiot...i basically was like u goy big tittys whats good

"Im not like that...respect blah blah" blocked
 
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