Which has mofos always trying to ice skate uphill instead of doing what is logical.
How come she ain't text me back? is this a shyt test? did she pull back? did I do too much? did I not do enough? What can I do other than bushing her and moving on like a man?
Ain't no gem been said in the past few months that
@kevm3 ain't say 8 years ago.
But if ppl don't want to prioritize self-improvement nor stop being a hermit with no social life...
Most of those 'relationship gurus' move on to something else eventually like Tariq Nasheed. Kevin Samuels even pivoted out of giving advice to men and I'm sure it's for a similar reason. I've stopped posting about these kind of topics because at a certain point you are saying the same things over and over to cats who refuse to solve the root of the problem and instead are looking for some quick fix solution or hidden secret that is going to get them the results they want, but it doesn't work that way.
If a woman isn't returning your calls or this and that, the answer isn't to try harder or to learn more tips and techniques to try to sway her. The answer is to MOVE ON. If there's no interest there, there's no purpose in continuing to deal with her. Everything ain't for everybody, so if a woman isn't digging your get down, then move her out the way so that the one that really is can get to you.
The key issue is a lot of men simply have low self esteem and little concept of their worth, so they are trying to trick and deceive a woman into dealing with them, hence the constant requests for conversations or social tricks to turn a cold woman into one that wants them. The real key is to embrace who you are at all times and be real with what you want. The key is to put yourself out there and to deal with women that like you for you. Having to put on all these extras is essentially telling a woman that you alone aren't enough and that you have to cover up your low worth by compensating. This is why a lot of women gravitate towards men who never change despite their constant attempts to change that man. "He must be worth a lot if he refuses to change who he is despite everything I've tried." If you go somewhere to buy something and try to negotiate and the seller refuses to lower the price, you'll have much more confidence that you are getting your money's worth than someone who drops the price 50% in the first conversation. All of these tricks and all of this personality shifting will get a man exposed and it will send off the signal that you are low value.
The Bible says, "Seek ye first the kingdom of God and the all these things shall be added unto you." That's the advice I heeded that had the most effect on me. Once I stopped chasing women and felt that I had to have one in my life and when I focused on what God had for me to do, then that's when things changed up the most for me. Cats that make women their life are in for a rude awakening once this or that woman isn't giving them play or ends up ditching them. NEVER make women your life. Women are to INTEGRATE into your life and never be the sole purpose you exist. God made men the leader, so that means you should be doing things and they should be following you, not the other way around.
The minute a woman starts getting cold is the minute you need to let her go and keep it pushing. When she checks out emotionally or if she was never involved emotionally in the first place, then you already know what's coming.
she lying