They don't know what the fukk they want
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Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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So update to this one.
So my man was on IG this morning. I know him and her had been in sporadic contact.
Last time she messaged him was last September seeing how covid life was going for him. For some reason he still had her on IG, but she hadn't posted anything since they split. Anyway she popped up this morning and posted a story. First time since they split. I know he still loves her and he told me curiosity got the better of him and he clicked her story and the picture that greeted him is below. Take it in mind my friend is the whitest of white men.
He suspected she had gotten back with her ex as they moved to Canada together but he stayed in Toronto and she moved to Vancouver. I had no idea her ex was black. Makes me look back at her inviting me out to the cinema just me and her very uncomfortably. I really hope it was innocent and she wasn't looking to tussle with the first black guy that crossed her path that she was comfortable enough with.
Anyway told him that this is a maybe a big sign that he needs to get himself back out there and just meet women with no expectations. I know this guy was holding out hope she'd come back.
she is pregnant
that is so cold
Damn I stumbled across my ex FB
She look so good, even better than she did when we was dating
That glow up from 18 to 21 is something
im in the same situation but on a good side
my girl is 22 fine ass fukk
her ex who date her from 18 to 21 saw the glow up and she happier now , so he keep texting her and even post her on his whatsapp status to get her attention
she even give me the phone to see it
man hate it when their exes look better , happier and winning in life
How to do this without bein a simp?
Why do people still follow their exes on socials? It's unnatural it's not the way god intended, but modern technology puts people in this position to keep up with previous partners lives.
Not to sound like an old head cause socials have been around for pretty much my entire sexual activity, but once it was over I usually just lost their number and unfollow on everything.
Only way I continue to follow is if I feel zero feelings for them anymore. Fukk I look like watching her be happy with someone else
Not to sound like an old head cause socials have been around for pretty much my entire sexual activity, but once it was over I usually just lost their number and unfollow on everything.
Only way I continue to follow is if I feel zero feelings for them anymore. Fukk I look like watching her be happy with someone else
Which has mofos always trying to ice skate uphill instead of doing what is logical.
How come she ain't text me back? is this a shyt test? did she pull back? did I do too much? did I not do enough? What can I do other than bushing her and moving on like a man?
Ain't no gem been said in the past few months that @kevm3 ain't say 8 years ago.
But if ppl don't want to prioritize self-improvement nor stop being a hermit with no social life...
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Your honor, I was merely capping.
waiting for a chick to be available only to have her pop up pregnant would make anyone a villainshe is pregnant
that is so cold
I unmatched her last nite.
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When a chick tells you she'd do anything you ask of her (sexually) what thoughts come to your mind 
When a chick tells you she'd do anything you ask of her (sexually) what thoughts come to your mind
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So, I was thinking... I always ask women that I meet how long they have been single and they always say for a few years. We obviously know they have had situationships and tryst that they're not counting, that doesn't bother me.
So why is it with me I have to be the ni99a that is their Tyler Perry story? I never get to be the situationship ni99a, they want commitment with me. It never fails, they start off with a bunch of compliments about my looks and station in life. Then they tell me their deepest darkest secrets, their problems, and all of the their famial business. If we have sex they get all funny when I pull out the rubber...
Then they start wanting to take up all of my time texting all day and then as soon as 5 hits, I start getting calls. Do I have simp written on my forehead?
So why is it with me I have to be the ni99a that is their Tyler Perry story? I never get to be the situationship ni99a, they want commitment with me. It never fails, they start off with a bunch of compliments about my looks and station in life. Then they tell me their deepest darkest secrets, their problems, and all of the their famial business. If we have sex they get all funny when I pull out the rubber...
Then they start wanting to take up all of my time texting all day and then as soon as 5 hits, I start getting calls. Do I have simp written on my forehead?
Which has mofos always trying to ice skate uphill instead of doing what is logical.
How come she ain't text me back? is this a shyt test? did she pull back? did I do too much? did I not do enough? What can I do other than bushing her and moving on like a man?
Ain't no gem been said in the past few months that @kevm3 ain't say 8 years ago.
But if ppl don't want to prioritize self-improvement nor stop being a hermit with no social life...
Most of those 'relationship gurus' move on to something else eventually like Tariq Nasheed. Kevin Samuels even pivoted out of giving advice to men and I'm sure it's for a similar reason. I've stopped posting about these kind of topics because at a certain point you are saying the same things over and over to cats who refuse to solve the root of the problem and instead are looking for some quick fix solution or hidden secret that is going to get them the results they want, but it doesn't work that way.
If a woman isn't returning your calls or this and that, the answer isn't to try harder or to learn more tips and techniques to try to sway her. The answer is to MOVE ON. If there's no interest there, there's no purpose in continuing to deal with her. Everything ain't for everybody, so if a woman isn't digging your get down, then move her out the way so that the one that really is can get to you.
The key issue is a lot of men simply have low self esteem and little concept of their worth, so they are trying to trick and deceive a woman into dealing with them, hence the constant requests for conversations or social tricks to turn a cold woman into one that wants them. The real key is to embrace who you are at all times and be real with what you want. The key is to put yourself out there and to deal with women that like you for you. Having to put on all these extras is essentially telling a woman that you alone aren't enough and that you have to cover up your low worth by compensating. This is why a lot of women gravitate towards men who never change despite their constant attempts to change that man. "He must be worth a lot if he refuses to change who he is despite everything I've tried." If you go somewhere to buy something and try to negotiate and the seller refuses to lower the price, you'll have much more confidence that you are getting your money's worth than someone who drops the price 50% in the first conversation. All of these tricks and all of this personality shifting will get a man exposed and it will send off the signal that you are low value.
The Bible says, "Seek ye first the kingdom of God and the all these things shall be added unto you." That's the advice I heeded that had the most effect on me. Once I stopped chasing women and felt that I had to have one in my life and when I focused on what God had for me to do, then that's when things changed up the most for me. Cats that make women their life are in for a rude awakening once this or that woman isn't giving them play or ends up ditching them. NEVER make women your life. Women are to INTEGRATE into your life and never be the sole purpose you exist. God made men the leader, so that means you should be doing things and they should be following you, not the other way around.
The minute a woman starts getting cold is the minute you need to let her go and keep it pushing. When she checks out emotionally or if she was never involved emotionally in the first place, then you already know what's coming.
Depends on the chick. If she’s generally a decent catch then you just come across as a good catch. If these are one offs then it’s a similar thing and maybe they are “tired” of being someone’s casual.
Just set the expectation of what you want and let it play out.