Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Sinnerman]

"So are you a real accountant or are you just a tik tok accountant."

I got that message from someone I matched with last night and I've been salty ever since

 

[Deathstroke]

Breh y’all been together a year and seen each other once every two months

When you put it like that breh
Yea because of covid and all that. We literally talked everyday but ya. I’ll take my L on this one.

 

[goatmane]

Damn another reminder Tinder is hard for yall in 2020...

So last night I got sent this link of tiktok live stream. this fat Latina with big titties looking for "no hook ups" but then gives her location to a college football player she was complaining that he was boring to talk to and they plan to link up next week

Keep in mind she had 1600 likes from dudes and was straight laughing at some dudes pics

nikkas in the comments were furious

 

[Krisrunner2049]

Damn another reminder Tinder is hard for yall in 2020...

So last night I got sent this link of tiktok live stream. this fat Latina with big titties looking for "no hook ups" but then gives her location to a college football player she was complaining that he was boring to talk to and they plan to link up next week

Keep in mind she had 1600 likes from dudes and was straight laughing at some dudes pics

nikkas in the comments were furious

That’s why I stopped fw tinder

 

[sosayeth]

Met this chick last month. She's pretty dope... had all the right responses and answers when we talked. Thought I found a needle in a haystack. Then, we went roller skating and I get this...

Good morning

I’m feeling pretty good actually. I enjoyed hanging out with you last night. However, before we move forward I want to make sure we are on the same page. I enjoy talking to you and I think it’s great that we have a lot in common, but I don’t see this blossoming into anything romantic. I wanted to hangout more before making that determination. I don’t want to waste you time. If you’d like to stop communication , I understand. However, I’d like to continue to get to know each other as friends.

When she said, "great that we have a lot in common " that's an understatement. So far, everything we talked about was, "Wait... you like that too? No way." Same musical tastes, similar trains of thought on racial and political topics... Not gonna lie, I was but I didn't respond.

Fast forward to today...

Hey! I figure you've blocked me or deleted my number by now, BUT on the off chance you see this...today marks 5 years since Prince passed. I thought of you as I was scrolling through some posts about him. I hope all is well.

Our favorite artist is Prince. Want to respond, but not sure how because I would want to turn it into a chance to link up again... but I'm not entirely sure what I did "wrong" the first time.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Met this chick last month. She's pretty dope... had all the right responses and answers when we talked. Thought I found a needle in a haystack. Then, we went roller skating and I get this...



When she said, "great that we have a lot in common " that's an understatement. So far, everything we talked about was, "Wait... you like that too? No way." Same musical tastes, similar trains of thought on racial and political topics... Not gonna lie, I was but I didn't respond.

Fast forward to today...



Our favorite artist is Prince. Want to respond, but not sure how because I would want to turn it into a chance to link up again... but I'm not entirely sure what I did "wrong" the first time.

move on lol

 

[DapMeUp!]

Met this chick last month. She's pretty dope... had all the right responses and answers when we talked. Thought I found a needle in a haystack. Then, we went roller skating and I get this...



When she said, "great that we have a lot in common " that's an understatement. So far, everything we talked about was, "Wait... you like that too? No way." Same musical tastes, similar trains of thought on racial and political topics... Not gonna lie, I was but I didn't respond.

Fast forward to today...



Our favorite artist is Prince. Want to respond, but not sure how because I would want to turn it into a chance to link up again... but I'm not entirely sure what I did "wrong" the first time.

Don't even respond.

Pretty sure she has someone else in those guts at the moment and she wants you on the hook
Women are so obvious at times.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Don't even respond.

Pretty sure she has someone else in those guts at the moment and she wants you on the hook
Women are so obvious at times.

Yup. Keep dudes in orbit till they tired of who they with and move to the next.

 

[Lord Bison]

Met this chick last month. She's pretty dope... had all the right responses and answers when we talked. Thought I found a needle in a haystack. Then, we went roller skating and I get this...



When she said, "great that we have a lot in common " that's an understatement. So far, everything we talked about was, "Wait... you like that too? No way." Same musical tastes, similar trains of thought on racial and political topics... Not gonna lie, I was but I didn't respond.

Fast forward to today...



Our favorite artist is Prince. Want to respond, but not sure how because I would want to turn it into a chance to link up again... but I'm not entirely sure what I did "wrong" the first time.

Make sure you leave her on read. Do not respond. All she's doing is setting up a ploy to get more attention from you so she can feel validated that you want her more than she wants you. It's all for an ego boost and nothing more.

Unless its you in those guts, you'd be better off utilizing your time and energy elsewhere.

If you come back here saying you responded Im negging you on sight

 

[sosayeth]

Don't even respond.

Pretty sure she has someone else in those guts at the moment and she wants you on the hook
Women are so obvious at times.

Yup. Keep dudes in orbit till they tired of who they with and move to the next.

That's always possible, of course, but I'd have thought she was a virgin if she hadn't told me she was in a high school through college relationship.

I was trying to teach her to skate backwards and made a joke about "bend your knees slightly like when you go to twerk," and she said matter-of-factly, "I don't do that." (That's what I meant by her having the right response to like everything.)

She doesn't do social media outside FB for family. Like I said, needle-haystack. I forgot to include she was sick of living here and before we met had asked her job to transfer her, so I'm wondering if maybe they told her no or to wait a few more months or something.

 

[sosayeth]

Make sure you leave her on read. Do not respond. All she's doing is setting up a ploy to get more attention from you so she can feel validated that you want her more than she wants you. It's all for an ego boost and nothing more.

Unless its you in those guts, you'd be better off utilizing your time and energy elsewhere.

If you come back here saying you responded Im negging you on sight

 

[phcitywarrior]

Met this chick last month. She's pretty dope... had all the right responses and answers when we talked. Thought I found a needle in a haystack. Then, we went roller skating and then I get this...

Yea just leave her. Her statement around she

“...doesn’t see this going further romantically but still wanting to get to know more as a friend...” is all you need to know.

You have an expectation that is not shared by her so leave it. Heck, I’d say she did you a favour by not wasting your time.

 

[DJSmooth]

Met this chick last month. She's pretty dope... had all the right responses and answers when we talked. Thought I found a needle in a haystack. Then, we went roller skating and I get this...



When she said, "great that we have a lot in common " that's an understatement. So far, everything we talked about was, "Wait... you like that too? No way." Same musical tastes, similar trains of thought on racial and political topics... Not gonna lie, I was but I didn't respond.

Fast forward to today...



Our favorite artist is Prince. Want to respond, but not sure how because I would want to turn it into a chance to link up again... but I'm not entirely sure what I did "wrong" the first time.

You didn't make her tingle in her pants. Don't respond to her ever again.

 

[MikelArteta]

Met this chick last month. She's pretty dope... had all the right responses and answers when we talked. Thought I found a needle in a haystack. Then, we went roller skating and I get this...



When she said, "great that we have a lot in common " that's an understatement. So far, everything we talked about was, "Wait... you like that too? No way." Same musical tastes, similar trains of thought on racial and political topics... Not gonna lie, I was but I didn't respond.

Fast forward to today...



Our favorite artist is Prince. Want to respond, but not sure how because I would want to turn it into a chance to link up again... but I'm not entirely sure what I did "wrong" the first time.

sosayeth the Lord

delete and block, unless you like being in the friend zone.

Remember this chick wasn't shy or scared to tell you that there is no romantic future, and as well she didn't feel anything messaging you way later after no contact. If she really wanted to be with you or changed her mind she would have let you know.

So many men are ok with just staying in the friend zone hoping a chick will change her mind. Screw that. The moment a chick tells me she just wants to be friends I depart. It would be like me working at a paid job and then they are telling me sorry we can't pay you anymore but you can still work 9-5.

 

[MikelArteta]

That's always possible, of course, but I'd have thought she was a virgin if she hadn't told me she was in a high school through college relationship.

I was trying to teach her to skate backwards and made a joke about "bend your knees slightly like when you go to twerk," and she said matter-of-factly, "I don't do that." (That's what I meant by her having the right response to like everything.)

She doesn't do social media outside FB for family. Like I said, needle-haystack. I forgot to include she was sick of living here and before we met had asked her job to transfer her, so I'm wondering if maybe they told her no or to wait a few more months or something.

To me a needle in a haystack is a good woman with qualities that you admire, you could envision her as your wife and carrying your children. Plus you find her attractive and she has you as the number 1 man in her life.

A woman that has you in the friendzone that's not special