Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

That's always possible, of course, but I'd have thought she was a virgin if she hadn't told me she was in a high school through college relationship.

I was trying to teach her to skate backwards and made a joke about "bend your knees slightly like when you go to twerk," and she said matter-of-factly, "I don't do that." (That's what I meant by her having the right response to like everything.)

She doesn't do social media outside FB for family. Like I said, needle-haystack. I forgot to include she was sick of living here and before we met had asked her job to transfer her, so I'm wondering if maybe they told her no or to wait a few more months or something.

To me a needle in a haystack is a good woman with qualities that you admire, you could envision her as your wife and carrying your children. Plus you find her attractive and she has you as the number 1 man in her life.

A woman that has you in the friendzone that's not special

 

[RealAssanova]

Met this chick last month. She's pretty dope... had all the right responses and answers when we talked. Thought I found a needle in a haystack. Then, we went roller skating and I get this...



When she said, "great that we have a lot in common " that's an understatement. So far, everything we talked about was, "Wait... you like that too? No way." Same musical tastes, similar trains of thought on racial and political topics... Not gonna lie, I was but I didn't respond.

Fast forward to today...



Our favorite artist is Prince. Want to respond, but not sure how because I would want to turn it into a chance to link up again... but I'm not entirely sure what I did "wrong" the first time.

I respect her for being honest and giving you a way out but what i don’t respect is her trying to play on your emotions and rope u back in.

Like everyone else above said, ignore her.

 

[Apollo Creed]

That's always possible, of course, but I'd have thought she was a virgin if she hadn't told me she was in a high school through college relationship.

I was trying to teach her to skate backwards and made a joke about "bend your knees slightly like when you go to twerk," and she said matter-of-factly, "I don't do that." (That's what I meant by her having the right response to like everything.)

She doesn't do social media outside FB for family. Like I said, needle-haystack. I forgot to include she was sick of living here and before we met had asked her job to transfer her, so I'm wondering if maybe they told her no or to wait a few more months or something.

a chick under the age lf 35 with no social media doesnt have it because she is hiding something lol. Probably got ran off it. Unless chick is an autistic leaning computer nerd.

 

[Neuromancer]

I should go out at some point. I just don't have a lot of desire to just wander the streets. I was thinking about going to the Museum at some point.

 

[Neuromancer]

Met this chick last month. She's pretty dope... had all the right responses and answers when we talked. Thought I found a needle in a haystack. Then, we went roller skating and I get this...



When she said, "great that we have a lot in common " that's an understatement. So far, everything we talked about was, "Wait... you like that too? No way." Same musical tastes, similar trains of thought on racial and political topics... Not gonna lie, I was but I didn't respond.

Fast forward to today...



Our favorite artist is Prince. Want to respond, but not sure how because I would want to turn it into a chance to link up again... but I'm not entirely sure what I did "wrong" the first time.

Block her and delete her number. I have the same issue you do. Women I have a lot in common with don't seem to like me romantically. I usually end up with women I have one or two things in common with.

 

[Neuromancer]

Met this chick last month. She's pretty dope... had all the right responses and answers when we talked. Thought I found a needle in a haystack. Then, we went roller skating and I get this...



When she said, "great that we have a lot in common " that's an understatement. So far, everything we talked about was, "Wait... you like that too? No way." Same musical tastes, similar trains of thought on racial and political topics... Not gonna lie, I was but I didn't respond.

Fast forward to today...



Our favorite artist is Prince. Want to respond, but not sure how because I would want to turn it into a chance to link up again... but I'm not entirely sure what I did "wrong" the first time.

I like you as a poster. But so help me if you entertain the girl any further and we find out I'm starting the neg train personally. Move on breh.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Block her and delete her number. I have the same issue you do. Women I have a lot in common with don't seem to like me romantically. I usually end up with women I have one or two things in common with.

Do you come off as confident and knowledgable about the things you have a passion for, or obsessive/nerdy? Lol. Do some self examination.

 

[Rozay Oro]

 

[Deathstroke]

Sound like breh was sending money/buying gifts to make up for the distance lol

she was probably smashing anothwr dude the whole time and finally got to a point where another dude thats local will commit to her.

imo long distance should only be for FWB

I wasn’t doing none of that sending gift or money shyt..Do I sound like fkkn Quavo to you. if you gon make assumptions and not bring shyt to the convo.

She’s the one who was pushing for me to not give up this long distance shyt for the whole of last year. She literally would throw fits and start crying when I told her I couldn’t make it. Ya she was an ass about this situation now but I ain’t gon call her a cheater when she been loyal.

 

[sosayeth]

Block her and delete her number. I have the same issue you do. Women I have a lot in common with don't seem to like me romantically. I usually end up with women I have one or two things in common with.

Lol Breh. And then they're like, "Tell me about this thing you're interested in"... and I'm like 'cause I like pretty in-depth stuff and it's annoying when women pretend they're really interested in hearing about it, but they're not.

To me a needle in a haystack is a good woman with qualities that you admire, you could envision her as your wife and carrying your children. Plus you find her attractive and she has you as the number 1 man in her life.

A woman that has you in the friendzone that's not special

Yeah, that puts things into perspective.

 

[Deathstroke]

Ldrs suck if she's not close or one of you are planning to move close to each other wash your hands. It's a losing situation 99.9% of the time

Ya, she lives in Toronto with her parents and I’m in Montreal breh so you already know

 

[Apollo Creed]

I wasn’t doing none of that sending gift or money shyt..Do I sound like fkkn Quavo to you. if you gon make assumptions and not bring shyt to the convo.

She’s the one who was pushing for me to not give up this long distance shyt for the whole of last year. She literally would throw fits and start crying when I told her I couldn’t make it. Ya she was an ass about this situation now but I ain’t gon call her a cheater when she been loyal.

You just dont get it​

 

[VertigoKnight]

Met this chick last month. She's pretty dope... had all the right responses and answers when we talked. Thought I found a needle in a haystack. Then, we went roller skating and I get this...



When she said, "great that we have a lot in common " that's an understatement. So far, everything we talked about was, "Wait... you like that too? No way." Same musical tastes, similar trains of thought on racial and political topics... Not gonna lie, I was but I didn't respond.

Fast forward to today...



Our favorite artist is Prince. Want to respond, but not sure how because I would want to turn it into a chance to link up again... but I'm not entirely sure what I did "wrong" the first time.

The other brehs have already given you the good word.

Those kinda messages must have a template. I got a very similar message a few months ago. Wasn't too cut up though. Funny thing the same chick messaged me this past weekend talking about we should chat and go on walks now the weather is nice. I laughed and left it on read.

Sounds like whatever guy she's entertaining atm is probably making her p*ssy tingle but not her mind. And you would fulfil that orbiter role for her.

But yeah ignore and don't throw your dignity in the dustbin.

 

[Tr0yTV]

I got more hos than I got time. Sometimes even 2 or 3 different ones a day. I want to take a break but I need more

 

[Deathstroke]

You just dont get it​

Yea seems like you got everything figured out. Good for you.