I don’t even wanna go out tonight, tired of getting rejected like a mfer every time I go out
GodDamn man
you gotta change up some things, get back in there!
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GodDamn man
you gotta change up some things, get back in there!
Its gonna be a wild one.
That's why my ass is parked atm. Gym and Getting on with business so I can enjoy this summer fully.
You get it
Leave that santeria alone and be the best you my brothaTell me your success stories brehs.
Krazy
Rifle weh taller dan palm tree
Are any of y'all like the procrastinator / homebody type to the point where you just don't be having the energy or the willpower to dress up nicely, and take a broad out somewhere?
I understand it's the game and you got to work for the ass but damn. The shyt just don't be it for me, at times
Post nut clarity has me like this.
I'll be making plans nut and come back to the text like ugh ion even wanna see you.
Key.
Things like that will open up opportunities with women and develop you as a person.
Also less likely to get caught up on a smut that you've overinvested in.
I think you should focus on yourself first and then give advice. I'm not unhappy. You are. Maybe there's a reason for that?
Dudes be forcing themselves to go to bars, clubs, lounges, etc they dont even want to be at for the chance to find a woman lol
A lot of men don't value themselves. At all. Dudes do things they have no desire to do just for ass. Shame.
Krisrunner2049
Pretty boi CFO Squirrels Burgers KillaKwuads
waiting for the girl to bounce
Just coming from someone who has been haunted by demons. I’m currently good.
Killigraphy
Banned
It sucks, but that's game. I used to be the club boy type, but it got old, and at some point I bounced, bartended and was even the doorman. It became more about creating connections and networking. I got more p*ssy meeting friends of friends than anything else. Which makes sense, hoe's hang out with hoe's, so they'll inadvertently get you laid. At times I don't even want to hit any of the socials, but with the pandy going on, all we have our IG, FB , Pof, and everything else. So I set it, and forget it, go read a book, and watch the messages flood my phone.
So brehs...This chick matched with me on tinder for the 3rd time 
The second time I actually didn't realise we matched before until later, something in the convo sounded like deja vu and I remembered the convo we had last time.
I just hit her with the " So when we linking" cause we aren't doing this talking thing again
The second time I actually didn't realise we matched before until later, something in the convo sounded like deja vu and I remembered the convo we had last time.
I just hit her with the " So when we linking" cause we aren't doing this talking thing again
I think the club/lounge/bar scene is a form of sparring/practice...
You can lowkey experiment with stuff and see what works and what dosent...And watch how others interact...
Being in that environment by YOURSELF is a huge feat alone...
I don't think men should go their looking for ass, but that scene has its benefits and fine tunes your "awareness"
Killigraphy
Banned
So brehs...This chick matched with me on tinder for the 3rd time
The second time I actually didn't realise we matched before until later, something in the convo sounded like deja vu and I remembered the convo we had last time.
I just hit her with the " So when we linking" cause we aren't doing this talking thing again
I remember a while back, I met up with a broad and we had a good time, I invite her to my apartment, and she replies with "I don't do casual sex", I immediately responded with "I don't do casual conversation", and walked away. Like a man from Compton said, this dikk ain't free.
I always thought the same thing, except instead of practice, it was kinda like a bonus round or a boss fight depending on your skill level. If you are used to talking to women sober and cold approaching, then the club scene feels like slow motion with alcohol having everyone telegraphing their pitches. OTOH, if you don't know how to talk to women, then the club is not really the place to learn because if your game isn't very tight, even if you get the #, you gotta outshine the 4-5 other nikkas that hollered that night. OTOH, if you met some chick at church or the mall, you legit could be the only suitable nikka she's met in the past month.
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Anyways, I got vaccinated last weekend. Finna be back out in these streets starting next week. To work my way up to it, I started rereading some books on confidence & conversation to tighten up my game. With regards to confidence, I'm mostly just working on losing my ego. I asked for a chicks # a few weeks ago and she tried to pivot to the social media and I felt some type of way. Gotta get back in the mindset that I can just keep it pushing and not feel salty.
With conversation, the area I'm looking to polish up on is ways to quickly be disarming/charming. When I used to do cold approaches, flashing a big smile usually gets a reactionary smile and then I could go in, but now with everyone masked up, I gotta figure out how I can show personality quickly because they are going to be on guard from the moment I initiate.
I also restarted my kettlebell workouts again to try and get the physique a little better. I gotta set something up specifically for my biceps and chest because those are the areas that get the most attention in a t-shirt.
On a related note, I hope yall take time to occasionally sit down and figure out where you game is slacking and how you can improve it, or what conversations/obstacles you might encounter with women after the last year of minimal socializing. A little effort beforehand goes a long way and preparation is often the only difference between a dude that seems smooth and a dude that trips getting out of the blocks.