Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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So brehs...This chick matched with me on tinder for the 3rd time :bryan:

The second time I actually didn't realise we matched before until later, something in the convo sounded like deja vu and I remembered the convo we had last time.
I just hit her with the " So when we linking" cause we aren't doing this talking thing again:pachaha:

She responded to my initial message, but as soon as I mention linking....crickets :pachaha:

Bih thought she was just going to waste my time again :ufdup:
 

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I know coli brehs are the spit game at anything that walks type so I shouldn’t even ask but we getting at restaurant waitresses? Bih is kinda old, early to mid 30s just the type to go “you’re too young for me. You’re old enough to be my son” like dikk has a sell by date. Anyway bih is Latina and when she walked away I witnessed the wagon:ohhh:
 

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She responded to my initial message, but as soon as I mention linking....crickets :pachaha:

Bih thought she was just going to waste my time again :ufdup:

I hate chicks like this. Did you unmatch her?

When I was on tinder I had this asian chick who would always match with me. Every few months she would be back on there. For my own amusement I'd swipe and we'd match each time. We'd exchange a few messages then she'd vanish.

Last time I was on there I had Gold and could see that she swiped me again. But fukk it, if we haven't connected after the second time it's never happening.

:francis:
 

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I hate chicks like this. Did you unmatch her?

When I was on tinder I had this asian chick who would always match with me. Every few months she would be back on there. For my own amusement I'd swipe and we'd match each time. We'd exchange a few messages then she'd vanish.

Last time I was on there I had Gold and could see that she swiped me again. But fukk it, if we haven't connected after the second time it's never happening.

:francis:

I was going to unmatch, but she eventually got back to me talking about we probably never linked because the pandemic, and we should be able to link up now things are opening back up.

I hit her with the :gucci: We were speaking a few months before this shyt popped off properly.

I remember trying to set something up with her but she was talking about trying to get childcare to make sure she was free that weekend. Then I just never heard back about linking so I let it fade.
I'm just being super blunt with the chick this time around.

We link this week or next week or I'm cutting it loose. Like I said we done the talking thing there isn't much more to talk about if we aren't linking imminently.
 

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I was going to unmatch, but she eventually got back to me talking about we probably never linked because the pandemic, and we should be able to link up now things are opening back up.

I hit her with the :gucci: We were speaking a few months before this shyt popped off properly.

I remember trying to set something up with her but she was talking about trying to get childcare to make sure she was free that weekend. Then I just never heard back about linking so I let it fade.
I'm just being super blunt with the chick this time around.

We link this week or next week or I'm cutting it loose. Like I said we done the talking thing there isn't much more to talk about if we aren't linking imminently.

I'm pretty much fluent in time wasting language from these broads and the juelzing.
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A chick who is really serious won't say we "should" be linking up, it will be let's link up on such and such a day. I don't care for coulda, woulda, shoulda....

She just wants her usual attention fix.
 

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I'm pretty much fluent in time wasting language from these broads and the juelzing.
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A chick who is really serious won't say we "should" be linking up, it will be let's link up on such and such a day. I don't care for coulda, woulda, shoulda....

She just wants her usual attention fix.

Yeah it feels like attention games, but like I said I'm not wasting any energy on her.
Just getting straight to the point and to try to setup the link, if she's iffy about it I cut it loose:manny: Nothing to go back and forth about at this point
 

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I was going to unmatch, but she eventually got back to me talking about we probably never linked because the pandemic, and we should be able to link up now things are opening back up.

I hit her with the :gucci: We were speaking a few months before this shyt popped off properly.

I remember trying to set something up with her but she was talking about trying to get childcare to make sure she was free that weekend. Then I just never heard back about linking so I let it fade.
I'm just being super blunt with the chick this time around.

We link this week or next week or I'm cutting it loose. Like I said we done the talking thing there isn't much more to talk about if we aren't linking imminently.

Let's see if she's on it or will try to delay you again.

These chicks think their convo is really that interesting. It's the same ol trying to keep a man hooked with basic ass conversation.

Also pandemic is the weakest excuse ever. If a woman wants to get dikked down nothing is stopping her.

The only question me and the chicks I've seen had for each other was how many people were in their bubble.

Other than that we can do all the talking she wants when she gets to my place.
 

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But on the opposite end we have chicks who make it clear what's what.

No bullshyt and no games. We grown and busy out here.

Chick who recently got back in contact with me is coming round my place on Friday to hang out and get her back blown out.

Yeah we all got to remember this when we a struggling with making plans with a girl. It should never be hard if they are really interested

Reminds me of yet another girl I went out with a couple of times before the pandemic.
The first 2 times I met with her was so easy.
Now it's like pulling teeth I can't be bothered.
She flaked last time, and said we should link this week but I haven't heard from her yet

Obviously the interest isn't the same as it was before. I just need a fresh start new roster can't deal with the lack of cooperation :francis:
 

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you were fixing for disappointment. This is the summer of all summers to be single.

A lot of folks will be getting cheated on this summer
On God, this is going to be a summer to remember with the pandemic subsiding. Im about to be outchea, y’all niccas get off these apps and get in the streets.
 

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I've NEVER in my life met a girl so stupid brehs :snoop:


How do you turn down 5k tax free money and 2 weeks later not be able to pay your rent while also being sued for $3,000. I didn't even know regular retarded people exist but this shyt literally makes my head hurting thinking about how stupid this bytch is :mindblown:
 

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Aight so, I’m gonna start approaching women lagain

But I’m nervous because this whole new age shyt. I’m not tryna go viral on a tiktok or some shyt just for shooting my shot. A lot of these women on social media seem to be afraid of a random man talking to them.

I’m not some weirdo so I can sense where people are - am I reading too much into this?

Lowkey I feel like I’ve been using this fear as an excuse
 

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Aight so, I’m gonna start approaching women lagain

But I’m nervous because this whole new age shyt. I’m not tryna go viral on a tiktok or some shyt just for shooting my shot. A lot of these women on social media seem to be afraid of a random man talking to them.

I’m not some weirdo so I can sense where people are - am I reading too much into this?

Lowkey I feel like I’ve been using this fear as an excuse

at least you know it.

next step is to remove yourself from that weirdo internet bubble where bytches are uploading clips of guys for breathing too hard in their general vicinity.

do you have to move a certain way and protect yourself as a man? of course, but i promise it ain't as serious as you think.
 
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