Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[TRUEST]

Breh, mind you, i don't work at a business where there's any women (so i actually shot my shoot with customers, went on a date with one last week but that turned out to be brickwall, just didn't mesh well and not seeing her without a mask until we met in person was rolling the proverbial dice).


I don't use dating apps... so any chance I get, I'm going to pounce on the opportunity.


For instance, since the first of May, i've acquired half a dozen numbers and while i haven't gotten horizontal with any of them yet, I'm still just trying to get back into the dating game after a traumatic/toxic relationship, so getting back to my bold attitude and pizazz again is key.


My ass is generally very audacious by nature, so cold game is where I excel at the most... but the gym thing is scary because I understand it's an establishment that people go to get their fitness on and their in a zone, it's their own personal health time...i get it.


What I've come to realize as of late is that more and more women are leaving the music/headphones at home. This makes them more susceptible to day game; aka... they want to be approached.


I'll report back If i run into the pinay again.



Fam, i got a story from this gorgeous Indian chick from London that i met on mother's day at a bar. Fam, i knew that if a woman was going out for drinks on such a holiday in lieu of being with ma duke's, she's vulnerable (she was with three of her girls, just had brunch and her girls whom were cool as fukk, so i'm building rapport with her set first cuz she stepped inside to grab drinks). Eventually approached her at the bar counter, then my homeboy comes in with his drunk ass and comments on her nose and asked if it's ever been broken. Breh..> WTF!!!


She was irked like a mothafukka and called him out on it... and even though she simmered down, i was able to isolate her from the situation, got her a drink, number and asked her out on a date, she hasn't replied. and I think my boy may have fukked that up for me. She probably sobered up and made me guilty by association...


She was a resident doctor at the university hospital here.



Fukk man... I almost scored my first doctor but idiot comrade sabotaged my shiit. FUKK!!!!



*sighs*


I just gotta keep on pressing.



Approach more women cuz i understand it's all a numbers game.



Out of the next 1000 girls... someone's gotta bite.



lol.

Relentless attitude

 

[YOGEBEAR09]

Man she’s everything I want looks wise. I hope I don’t fukk it up....it’s bad enough I gotta wait until after I get off

Man stop thinking like that and think that she would be lucky if you fukked with her. Cant be acting like these hoes is a goddesses and thinking shyt gonna go good.

 

[YOGEBEAR09]

@Benjamin Sisko you welcome fakkit

 

[J Money]

Man stop thinking like that and think that she would be lucky if you fukked with her. Cant be acting like these hoes is a goddesses and thinking shyt gonna go good.

Damn dude really negged you for the advice

 

[Krisrunner2049]

The ONS/hookups/random pieces be getting old, but it’s all I know, I tried my hand at dating and that shyt was repulsive. Been on a lil break but I will resume once I’m back in LA with actual attractive women

 

[YOGEBEAR09]

Damn dude really negged you for the advice

This is deeper than women

 

[Leao2005]

I got a girl who I matched with on Tinder out Europe, moved to IG messages. good convo. however, the earliest I will see her will be next year assuming I go back to Europe.

Should I continue convo throughout the year or just start the convo up when I touch down.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Talking to chicks after 9pm especially first messages is a crapshoot.

That's when they usually winding down for the night. At least she said she'd message you when she feels better.

And if she doesn't, then it wasn't to be.

Deep Thanks bro

 

[phcitywarrior]

I got a girl who I matched with on Tinder out Europe, moved to IG messages. good convo. however, the earliest I will see her will be next year assuming I go back to Europe.

Should I continue convo throughout the year or just start the convo up when I touch down.

Just hit her up a week or two before you go (if you go). Let her know you’ll be touching down in a bit and would like to catch up.

I personally like to keep it to about 7-10 before I actually arrive. Enough time where you guys can warm up an old convo, but short enough that its spontaneous.

You never want to do that pen pal stuff unless you guys have already met in person and have some sort of rapport. You also don’t want to give too long of a lead time as you run the risk of being “lost in the shuffle”. From my experience, women like spontaneity so use it to your advantage. But, as with all things YMMV.

I know some people that have talked to chicks for 3-4 months prior to a trip and they hit it off. Some others don’t start talking to chicks until they’re at the boarding gate about to go lol.

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

I got a girl who I matched with on Tinder out Europe, moved to IG messages. good convo. however, the earliest I will see her will be next year assuming I go back to Europe.

Should I continue convo throughout the year or just start the convo up when I touch down.

Breh, that's dope.


I'm going to Puerto Vallarta next month and i don't have a tinder. I see youtube videos of dudes matching up with women well before their vacation/trip to establish some rapport/build connection with potential prospects/victims during their travels.


Like i mentioned, I don't have dating apps.


I literally have to start approaching women the second I land at the airport and go from there. It's tougher but I always do well because all i've got is my spirit and animated/nonchalant personality (cuz i damn near ain't wealthy and all that good lookin').


7 day solo trip. This is my Forgetting Sarah Marshall excursion to help me heal and explore for my sanctity and sanity.




Even tho I think you're going about this hella early since you're not going until next year... these out-of-country dating app matches... it's essentially pen palling, yeah?


I dunno, if i'm not going somewhere for a year... i'd do it a few weeks/a month before my trip. That's just so long to make them wait for you to see them.


But good luck in Europa, fam.

 

[Leao2005]

Breh, that's dope.


I'm going to Puerto Vallarta next month and i don't have a tinder. I see youtube videos of dudes matching up with women well before their vacation/trip to establish some rapport/build connection with potential prospects/victims during their travels.


Like i mentioned, I don't have dating apps.


I literally have to start approaching women the second I land at the airport and go from there. It's tougher but I always do well because all i've got is my spirit and animated/nonchalant personality (cuz i damn near ain't wealthy and all that good lookin').


7 day solo trip. This is my Forgetting Sarah Marshall excursion to help me heal and explore for my sanctity and sanity.




Even tho I think you're going about this hella early since you're not going until next year... these out-of-country dating app matches... it's essentially pen palling, yeah?


I dunno, if i'm not going somewhere for a year... i'd do it a few weeks/a month before my trip. That's just so long to make them wait for you to see them.


But good luck in Europa, fam.

I just wanted to see the people in different cities during that free passport era and Germany I had a huge amount of success in terms of matches.

 

[TRUEST]

So theres this cute short hair jada pinkett at my job..thing is we chat...but theres ALWAYS SOMEONE around...

Last friday she asked me what i was doing this weekend..happy friday etc..always cheesing.but there was a fukkn GM 10 feet away...so i kept it short...i only see her twice a week she works in a diff department..

Her: what u got going on this weekend.
You: nothing much. You?
Her: same. Not much.
You: *chuckling in a flirty way* look her in the eyes and say “you know what that means right?”
Her: *smiling* cause she’s glad you caught on to what she was after.
Her: what does it mean?
You: catch me later and I’ll tell you. Motion discreetly to the eavesdropper that inevitably will be hanging around hoping to cock block you.

If she does accost you later, u won. Then u say let’s hang out. Grab a drink.

don’t bullsh1t here. Go straight to the point.

 

[King]

Just came to the GOAT realization I gotta write this shyt down.

There’s no reason to have social anxiety because we’re essentially all kids. Like we’re literally children, we’ve just been children a long time.

So there’s nothing wrong with introducing yourself to someone and being social because we’re all just kids. There is no consequence for being a kid and interacting with other kids. We used to do that shyt freely before society told us it was wrong.

That bad ass bytch I’m too afraid to talk to is just a grown ass kid and I’m still the kid on the playground who would’ve walked up to her and asked her to play tag with zero inhibitions.


We’re all just kids, no one is above or below anyone. Kids say hello to everybody.

 

[Guvnor]

How do you brews handle a chick who "forgot to reply to you" till the next day. Mind you this chick got two kids and is older but that ass is out of this world and she's cool to talk to.

Smh she ended up calling me last night but I didn't pick up. Might just bush it!

 

[Leao2005]

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