I use over 4 different apps including Snapchat to cold approach online. I tell them "hey im _______ " and I then leave. The VIBE is important, so I give them a glimpse. I can't lie... POF got some fineeeeee merchandise!
How to keep a convo? The secret for keeping a convo is LEADING and talking without a filter. FLIRT with her. Why? Cause females want to know if you find them desirable. Don't be afraid to escalate physically.
Stop playing it safe. If you're passionate about something, let her FEEL it!
If me and her are walking, right, I talk about what's in our environment. Crack some jokes. I used to do with chicks I worked at retail with. Breaks the ice.
Mentality? Adopt a high-value mentality. Think of it as a job. You're hiring her to get on your program. If she doesn't fit, time to replace her.
Im introvert asf but my personality easygoing, chill and energetic. Feeling nervous? Take some deep breaths, drink some water and get out of your head.
Remember, we are men. We ain't supposed to be scared. We take charge and make things happen!