Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Killigraphy]

Not gona front. I’ll be scratching my head sometimes at these bad joints being with regular looking guys.

Maybe dude has bread or something.



But then again, I wouldn’t want my girl advertising on social media

If its not money, its definitely game. I've seen in shape dudes who are handsome, fail at grabbing even the biggest of ho's. Being handsome/tall and in shape, makes it slightly easier for them to open up to you, but its not a closer...you still have to charm your way into women. I haven't seen a pimp with a six pack yet.

 

[Killigraphy]

How do you guys react to meeting chicks on dating apps but when actually seeing them face to face they're at least a stone or 2 bigger.

It's misleading af but do you give em the benefit of the doubt because of covid or do you bush em because of false advertising

Part of me wants to give them a grace period to get back to their original weight but the other side of me is like fucc em, if i can mantain my body weight during this pandemic then they should be able to as well.

Always video chat. If I'm ever surprised, I don't sweat it, she's gonna end up giving me head anyway. If she couldn't get fit to date, she more than likely is booty call material anyway. If she was a former slimmy, then I bring it up immediately; "we're gonna have to hit the gym together", being naturally fit, women tend to not even bother arguing with me about it, the only options I provide; fat and a booty call or in shape and she can be my girl.

 

[Killigraphy]

Y’all dress up to go to bars in wealthy areas? I just drove thru La Cienega blvd and them posh white girls were looking good in their tight dresses, I’m not the type to hit up women from the back, but connecting afterwards would be cooli got nothing but t shirts, dikkies pants, polos, slacks, a few short sleeve dress shirts, and 1 suit

Even my regular dress, as casual as it is, has people thinking I'm either a bouncer or doorman. And this is with a peacoat, blazer or long sleeve shirt. Its lovely "curse" to have, so I don't really dress up for bars, I rather get to know the bouncers, they know where all the dealers and proper ho's are at.

 

[Krazy]

Get in the gym and pick up hobbies. Idle time while in a sex drought leads to self destruction

Nah I’m back in the gym that’s where I was last night
Self development vibes over summer.
Ain’t chasing nobody

 

[Astroslik]

Anyone have any experience dealing with a pregnant woman (not my child)? The hormones are crazy, like a completely different person. Picking fights right out the blue for no damn reason smh

 

[Dre23]

I'm tired of Rom Wills making the same video over and over again.

Every video he makes can be summarized as "body is greater than everything else" which can be easily proven false.

You're actually wrong. He never said the body is greater than everything else. He says the body is the base. Its the bait that draws women in.

 

[Wise]

If its not money, its definitely game. I've seen in shape dudes who are handsome, fail at grabbing even the biggest of ho's. Being handsome/tall and in shape, makes it slightly easier for them to open up to you, but its not a closer...you still have to charm your way into women. I haven't seen a pimp with a six pack yet.

If that ain’t gospel right there then I don’t know what is

 

[Tommy Sheppard]

Being in a longtime quiet period and having no options is frustrating.

Girl I was seeing earlier this year casually moving strange.
Whilst I do wanna smash, I continue to reach out to actually check that she’s good. And i don’t feel the same courtesy is extended to me.
Ain’t met since March and seems I’m the only one trying to spend time.

Yet when I asked her straight up on some
If the funs over that’s cool I just like to know what’s good.
She claiming she just busy etc and that it’s not that she doesn’t wanna see me…Yet making 0 effort to show otherwise.

So ima cut my losses put my pride aside for too long can’t beg to see no girl that I’m only trying to duck.


So where the hoes at??
Maybe it’s time to settle down and find a good woman
I ain’t ready yet though still trying to be happy with life lmao so I don’t be trying to go down that route out of respect

was in a exact similar situation as you, she got bushed she ain’t feeling you anymore breh, your turn is over.

y’all gotta stop reaching out to these hoes when you get bored, while they entertaining another dude your boosting her ego texting and reaching out to her because that’s the last piece of ass you had.

 

[Apollo Creed]

was in a exact similar situation as you, she got bushed she ain’t feeling you anymore breh, your turn is over.

y’all gotta stop reaching out to these hoes when you get bored, while they entertaining another dude your boosting her ego texting and reaching out to her because that’s the last piece of ass you had.

lmfao exactly. If you bored go find something productive to do. Only woman you need to proactively reach out to to check on is your mom or your daugheter.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Anybody here ever snatched a girl from a stud?

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

You're actually wrong. He never said the body is greater than everything else. He says the body is the base. Its the bait that draws women in.

He says shyt like women don't care about face or money. They're only sexually attracted to the body. Sorry for not being clear.

Body can draw some women in, but I've seen and experienced a lot more of looks and money drawing women in than body.

It doesn't hurt to have a great body, but most of the time a woman's sexual attraction is based on a man's face. This has been proven countless times.

See, guys like Rom Wills make money off of selling hope. Face is almost impossible to change and thus cannot give his customers hope if they have a bad one.

That's why he'll cite studies slightly relating to body, but completely ignores the many studies about looks. The rest of his proof are just anecdotes...

Sorry for ranting. I used to like his videos when they were more balanced and nuanced.

 

[Babymama Magnet]

Finally got back into the whole talking to women thing after this low self esteem shyt I got caught in

Got rejected a fukkton these past couple months

Took like a 2 month hiatus wallowing in my own self pity

Getting back into the game, I know what I’m looking for now. Those women I woulda past by out of fear

So im doing this 30 Day approach challenge which started today. I honestly don't like approaching, main reasons being i don't know what to say to the girl once i've approached them and i don't want to end up looking stupid either + from a young age I've always been shy which has inhibited me from pursuing girls... but fvck it, i need to learn and improve myself when approaching/conversating with women.

Everyday i'm gonna do my best in logging what happened everyday and track my progress. The goal is to approach at least one girl everyday

Day 1

- Had the opportunity to approach this middle eastern/south asian chick at the bus stop today. Had no clue what to say to her (main problem. My mind goes blank). We get on the bus and i go upstairs, she stays down. We get off at the same destination and this is the perfect time to make the approach but i p*ssy out because she was looking at her phone. So i walk ahead but when i look back i see shes looking around confused as if she doesn't know where she is. Perfect opportunity to go ask her if she's lost and start a conversation.. Again my mind pussies out and i keep on walking.

- Walking towards this big booty suspect midget turk. Again perfect opportunity to stop and approach (even though she had her headphones in) but i don't. She's not my type . Had to remind myself the reasons why i'm doing this

- Grocery shopping and i look eyes with this cute black girl, brownskin and big booty. She had a typical black girl look on her face like "Don't approach me, not interested" so i keep it moving (Should have approached anyway). So we bump into each other in the aisle a couple time and as im going to the check out i see her from afar checking me out then looking away. I don't bother because i'm already about to pay but im pissed off with myself while walking out because she seemed like she had interest.

- Went to another supermarket and saw a girl i used to go to school with. Black girl, decent looking, big booty This is a warm approach so i go over, say hello and we have a brief chat about what we're doing. I decide to cut the chat because the conversation was getting dry but i ask her if she had a man and i asked her for her number (i really didn't care for her number ) She said she had a man.. cool so we say goodbye and i bounce. The feeling of rejection swiftly goes.

I was beating myself up the whole day because i had prime opportunities to approach and i wasn't but happy got the first one out. Revise, what happened, make the adjustment and go onto tomorrow.

Last year i decided to do a 30 day approach because i wanted to tackle my anxiety when moving to women (especially on the street) and not pass out on opportunities

It actually helped and I've became more confident. Maybe you should try this.

I'll give you a few tips:

1. The First approach is always the hardest but when you get past that hurdle it becomes easier (sorta like taking a cold shower... the anticipation makes it seem worse then it is but you start getting use to it)

2. You're gonna forget the feeling of the cold approach rejections real quick so fucc your pride and take it on the chin when it happens.

3. Have fun with it. Don't be so serious, the only outcome you should be attaching for cold approaching it getting better at doing it... not getting her number or smashing (although that is the cherry on top).


Get out there and get your approach on player

 

[Uno Venova]

Last year i decided to do a 30 day approach because i wanted to tackle my anxiety when moving to women (especially on the street) and not pass out on opportunities

It actually helped and I've became more confident. Maybe you should try this.

I'll give you a few tips:

1. The First approach is always the hardest but when you get past that hurdle it becomes easier (sorta like taking a cold shower... the anticipation makes it seem worse then it is but you start getting use to it)

2. You're gonna forget the feeling of the cold approach rejections real quick so fucc your pride and take it on the chin when it happens.

3. Have fun with it. Don't be so serious, the only outcome you should be attaching for cold approaching it getting better at doing it... not getting her number or smashing (although that is the cherry on top).


Get out there and get your approach on player

Good post breh, and another one, even if the interaction is fukking terrible, it ALWAYS feels better than not doing anything at all

Just always go in with good intentions, don't make the chick feel uncomfortable, and take rejection gracefully.

 

[Guvnor]

I swear she took at my phone screen and saw notifications from females texting me. Almost ruined my whole weekend smh, good thing I was able to spin it and say they was coworkers.

Close call! Anyone ever been in a similar situation?

 

[Apollo Creed]

I swear she took at my phone screen and saw notifications from females texting me. Almost ruined my whole weekend smh, good thing I was able to spin it and say they was coworkers.

Close call! Anyone ever been in a similar situation?

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