Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Guvnor]

Berhs or even brehettes who might be reading this, I need some advice.

I got this home girl of mine who me and her used to have sex occasionally but she knows I talk to other women so we are just good friends though there are some feelings there. Now the last time we saw eachother she chose to be petty and make me take the train home because I made a joke about her car being old. Recently I found out she did that because I had a connect four game in my bag and when she asked me why I had it I didn't wanna tell her. The truth is that I brought it with me over to this girl house I was spending the night at LOL. She chose to be petty and now I'm at a cross roads.

Part of me feels it's her car and she has a right not to let me in it though I'd never do that to her if I drove. The other part feels she disrespected me because she choose to be petty and she was laughing about the situation in her car that night.

 

[dizzy4111]

Berhs or even brehettes who might be reading this, I need some advice.

I got this home girl of mine who me and her used to have sex occasionally but she knows I talk to other women so we are just good friends though there are some feelings there. Now the last time we saw eachother she chose to be petty and make me take the train home because I made a joke about her car being old. Recently I found out she did that because I had a connect four game in my bad and when she asked me why I had it I didn't wanna tell her. The truth is that I brought it with me over to this girl house I was spending the night at LOL. She chose to be petty and now I'm at a cross roads.

Part me feels it's her car and she has a right not to let me in it though I'd never do that to her if I drove. The other part feels she disrespected me because she choose to be petty and she was laughing about the situation in her car that night.

That's pretty damn petty imo. Obviously there's some unresolved feelings there on her part. This is just probably something you're going to have to deal with if you care about her.

 

[Uno Venova]

two dates in a row that aint even end in a kiss, one chick even kept lookin at my lips then gon turn me down when i went for it..

nikka rusty asf apparently

 

[Atlrocafella]

This weekend is about to be Lit, Covid/mask restrictions lifted, fresh cut. Im hollering at all 7’s and above this weekend

 

[VertigoKnight]

two dates in a row that aint even end in a kiss, one chick even kept lookin at my lips then gon turn me down when i went for it..

nikka rusty asf apparently

How do you think the dates were going before they ended?

 

[havoc]

How do you rationalize being sexually attracted to someone, yet disliking them as a person?

Like if someone is just a horrible misguided individual to your big head... yet your little head is telling you to fukk that person

How do you deal with that? It’s one of those conundrums

Let me help you with that rationalization. p*ssy doesn't have a personality.

 

[havoc]

Berhs or even brehettes who might be reading this, I need some advice.

I got this home girl of mine who me and her used to have sex occasionally but she knows I talk to other women so we are just good friends though there are some feelings there. Now the last time we saw eachother she chose to be petty and make me take the train home because I made a joke about her car being old. Recently I found out she did that because I had a connect four game in my bag and when she asked me why I had it I didn't wanna tell her. The truth is that I brought it with me over to this girl house I was spending the night at LOL. She chose to be petty and now I'm at a cross roads.

Part of me feels it's her car and she has a right not to let me in it though I'd never do that to her if I drove. The other part feels she disrespected me because she choose to be petty and she was laughing about the situation in her car that night.

If she can't get past the petty shyt, she isn't worth your time.

 

[Krisrunner2049]

It’s officially my 4th time cold approaching and Idk if I’m made for this shyti get at 2 women each outing to minimize the risks. Did better in a city I didn’t even vibe with (SF/Bay area) than my hometown. But the amount of baddies in LA is overwhelming for a brehI'll give it a few more runs before I retire

 

[King]

Real talk - how the fukk do you stay safe when going to a girls place? Or even in reverse how do you protect yourself when inviting a girl to yours?

Idk if I’m just paranoid but that shyt seems unsafe as fukk. Especially if you met on online or something.

Like you’re caught between either going to a random location to potentially be set up by a girl you don’t even know that well

Or

You could be inviting a girl, and potentially a gang of mfers ready to rob your ass, to your place

I mean even if you go on a date first - she could be sharing her location to some killers the whole time and they could follow you right to yours. Or vice versa.

How the fukk do you stay street smart when doing the whole casual sex thing?

Let me help you with that rationalization. p*ssy doesn't have a personality.

My brain got integrity tho

 

[DapMeUp!]

Berhs or even brehettes who might be reading this, I need some advice.

I got this home girl of mine who me and her used to have sex occasionally but she knows I talk to other women so we are just good friends though there are some feelings there. Now the last time we saw eachother she chose to be petty and make me take the train home because I made a joke about her car being old. Recently I found out she did that because I had a connect four game in my bag and when she asked me why I had it I didn't wanna tell her. The truth is that I brought it with me over to this girl house I was spending the night at LOL. She chose to be petty and now I'm at a cross roads.

Part of me feels it's her car and she has a right not to let me in it though I'd never do that to her if I drove. The other part feels she disrespected me because she choose to be petty and she was laughing about the situation in her car that night.

You answered your own question.

I don't how close you and this girl is but that is a straight bushes situation to me.
Nowadays I'm zero tolerance doesn't take me much to bush a women.

 

[Action Mike]

Real talk - how the fukk do you stay safe when going to a girls place? Or even in reverse how do you protect yourself when inviting a girl to yours?

Idk if I’m just paranoid but that shyt seems unsafe as fukk. Especially if you met on online or something.

Like you’re caught between either going to a random location to potentially be set up by a girl you don’t even know that well

Or

You could be inviting a girl, and potentially a gang of mfers ready to rob your ass, to your place

I mean even if you go on a date first - she could be sharing her location to some killers the whole time and they could follow you right to yours. Or vice versa.

How the fukk do you stay street smart when doing the whole casual sex thing?



My brain got integrity tho

It's simple for me

Phone call and facetime before even setting up a date to gage were there head is at and remove set up doubt

Bar date near there house or mine

If the vibe is right invite them over that date or date two

 

[King]

It's simple for me

Phone call and facetime before even setting up a date to gage were there head is at and remove set up doubt

Bar date near there house or mine

If the vibe is right invite them over that date or date two

Interesting, I’ve just been thinking of going the hotel route. Idk I’m just not as reckless as I used to be, cant have random girls knowing where I stay even if things seem right

 

[Abraxus]

This chick I’ve been talking to, we’re officially dating now. First white woman ive actually really dated. Sorry, Coli. Early this week she asked if we could go on a date this Saturday. I said yeah but where we goin? She said I’ll find out Saturday. Well she picked me up and took me to this French restaurant. Food was phenomenal. Had a charcuterie board and escargot as appetizers. Both of our first time eating escargot. Wasnt at all what I expected but not bad. Got this halibut special and she got this roast duck thing. Both great. Bill was like 120 before tax. She didn’t let me pay for shyt. Then after we went to the playhouse in the park and saw this ballet. I’m a huge fan of dance and just love any sort of great choreography, and she knows this, and we had a fukkin blaaaaaaaast.

Got some gelato after at a local spot then came back to my place. Post sex we were talking and in the background the local Cincy news was on after the game on ABC. Some gnarly shyt went down, just standard biggish city violence. She said, “That sounds really bad, but I know I’m safe here and whenever I’m with my boy.” I said, “So I’m your boy? So you wanna be my girlfriend?” She said yeah of course. Man I ain’t felt this way about a chick in a long long long time. She comes from some trash and put herself through undergrad then pharmacy school. Volunteers at the local food pantry at least once a week. Maybe the nicest human I’ve ever been involved with. She white but my momma is okay with it after she randomly FaceTimed me and got to talking with her lol. And she keeps supplies on deck for if my IBS is acting up. Mane. I’m smitten

You a big fan of dance huh? Who are you? Micheal Flatley or Zamfir mf? Master of the Pan flute? All that is homo shyt! Lmaooooo nah man, good to see you do your thing but damn son don’t fall in love so quick! Make her earn it! Ol Weekend listening to mofo!

 

[DaRealness]

Berhs or even brehettes who might be reading this, I need some advice.

I got this home girl of mine who me and her used to have sex occasionally but she knows I talk to other women so we are just good friends though there are some feelings there. Now the last time we saw eachother she chose to be petty and make me take the train home because I made a joke about her car being old. Recently I found out she did that because I had a connect four game in my bag and when she asked me why I had it I didn't wanna tell her. The truth is that I brought it with me over to this girl house I was spending the night at LOL. She chose to be petty and now I'm at a cross roads.

Part of me feels it's her car and she has a right not to let me in it though I'd never do that to her if I drove. The other part feels she disrespected me because she choose to be petty and she was laughing about the situation in her car that night.

Sounds like this friendship or whatever you wanna call it has run its course.

 

[MikelArteta]

Not gona front. I’ll be scratching my head sometimes at these bad joints being with regular looking guys.

Maybe dude has bread or something.



But then again, I wouldn’t want my girl advertising on social media

A fine chick can look at you and view you as 10/10
A ugly chick can look at you and view you as a 5/10