Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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That's pretty damn petty imo. Obviously there's some unresolved feelings there on her part. This is just probably something you're going to have to deal with if you care about her.
I do care about her but she is wyling. Not worth the stress IMO even though we had fun times together.

If she can't get past the petty shyt, she isn't worth your time.

You answered your own question.

I don't how close you and this girl is but that is a straight bushes situation to me.
Nowadays I'm zero tolerance doesn't take me much to bush a women.

Sounds like this friendship or whatever you wanna call it has run its course.

much respect for all the advice y'all. Just wanna make sure I wasn't bugging or being too harsh.
 

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So this chick I was suppose to go out with this weekend called me last night. Told me she in hospital im like :wtf: u ok ?what happen?She said her leg and I'm like what happen she said "I can't go into that etc" so I'm like :patrice: so we chop it up ,I believe I heard nurse or her mother in background all of a sudden she says "gotta go" and hung up fast. I'm like wtf. So I text her ,she says she's coming home today (last night) and if problem gets worse she's going to ENT (Ears Nose Throat). I'm familiar with that because I have family member who goes there ironically. I haven't heard from her since last night and I'm not gonna visit. She's type of she texting she is like "gotta go" and to do it on phone is odd. I'm just throwing her in bushes at this point.My BS meter is high with this one.
 

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Anyone have any experience dealing with a pregnant woman (not my child)? The hormones are crazy, like a completely different person. Picking fights right out the blue for no damn reason smh
Firstly why are you dealing with a pregnant woman? Is she a friend or you out here smashing pregnant women?:usure:

Either way she’s pregnant so it’s too be expected I guess hormones all over the place and feeling tired and like shyt.

I guess would be not engage in these fights she starts picking and distance yourself a bit. If it’s impacting you especially
 

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fukk is up with these dating apps hiding everything behind paywalls and using any opportunity to advertise benefits of paying a subscription.

neverbbeen heavy on the dating apps, had tinder but never used it much. Back on it and it’s changed, signed up for bumble for the first time similar situation
 

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Being in a longtime quiet period and having no options is frustrating.

Girl I was seeing earlier this year casually moving strange.
Whilst I do wanna smash, I continue to reach out to actually check that she’s good. And i don’t feel the same courtesy is extended to me.
Ain’t met since March and seems I’m the only one trying to spend time.

Yet when I asked her straight up on some
If the funs over that’s cool I just like to know what’s good.
She claiming she just busy etc and that it’s not that she doesn’t wanna see me…Yet making 0 effort to show otherwise.

So ima cut my losses put my pride aside for too long can’t beg to see no girl that I’m only trying to duck.


So where the hoes at??:mjcry:
Maybe it’s time to settle down and find a good woman :mjgrin:
I ain’t ready yet though still trying to be happy with life lmao so I don’t be trying to go down that route out of respect
 

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How do you think the dates were going before they ended?
1st one was fantastic, got deep, spiritual, was close and touchin most of the night.

She's still enthusiastic and already saying where she wants to go next but :yeshrug:

The second date is the one where it was more average, we talked about sex a lot but she had a time constraint that made it tough to really get into it:jbhmm:
 

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1st one was fantastic, got deep, spiritual, was close and touchin most of the night.

She's still enthusiastic and already saying where she wants to go next but :yeshrug:

The second date is the one where it was more average, we talked about sex a lot but she had a time constraint that made it tough to really get into it:jbhmm:

First one reminds me of my date last weekend.

Really sexy asian chick that I matched with on Hinge. We met up and walked to a nearby park and talked about lots of different stuff that we're both into. She even came back to mine to eat but I couldn't read her. She left mine and we didn't even hug. I was thinking

:patrice:

I was busy for the rest of the weekend. Then on Monday evening she messaged me saying did she upset me or something as I hadn't sent her some recommendations of stuff I was telling her about.

Anyway she rang me and we chatted more and she was upfront and told me she finds me fascinating and attractive and wants to see me again.

So we're meeting tomorrow. Tbh I really like this chick so far and don't feel the need to rush her into bed.

We've both agreed that we don't want to text too much and would rather meet and talk face to face and we've had a few convos about kink and she's on the same wavelength as me in terms of her sexual desires and wants.

We'll see how things go. Optimistically hopeful.

And I cant say that about many women these days.
 
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Being in a longtime quiet period and having no options is frustrating.

Girl I was seeing earlier this year casually moving strange.
Whilst I do wanna smash, I continue to reach out to actually check that she’s good. And i don’t feel the same courtesy is extended to me.
Ain’t met since March and seems I’m the only one trying to spend time.

Yet when I asked her straight up on some
If the funs over that’s cool I just like to know what’s good.
She claiming she just busy etc and that it’s not that she doesn’t wanna see me…Yet making 0 effort to show otherwise.

So ima cut my losses put my pride aside for too long can’t beg to see no girl that I’m only trying to duck.


So where the hoes at??:mjcry:
Maybe it’s time to settle down and find a good woman :mjgrin:
I ain’t ready yet though still trying to be happy with life lmao so I don’t be trying to go down that route out of respect


Get in the gym and pick up hobbies. Idle time while in a sex drought leads to self destruction
 

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So chick I'm pursuing on IG asked her followers a question she has busy job as police officer. She asks what's everyone doing for weekend. I said sitting home in my draws watching playoffs she hit thumbs up and laughed.....think I might for it :mjgrin:
 

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So chick I'm pursuing on IG asked her followers a question she has busy job as police officer. She asks what's everyone doing for weekend. I said sitting home in my draws watching playoffs she hit thumbs up and laughed.....think I might for it :mjgrin:
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I'm tired of Rom Wills making the same video over and over again.

Every video he makes can be summarized as "body is greater than everything else" which can be easily proven false.
 

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Finally got back into the whole talking to women thing after this low self esteem shyt I got caught in

Got rejected a fukkton these past couple months

Took like a 2 month hiatus wallowing in my own self pity

Getting back into the game, I know what I’m looking for now. Those women I woulda past by out of fear
 
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