Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Noriega]

Anytime this girl get in my car I gotta remind her to put her seatbelt on, then she catch an attitude

shyt is an automatic for me

 

[Leao2005]

Mmmhmm. U have a chance with this girl. But. But u need to stop being so accommodating. That screams desperation. Just ask her to come over randomly. Hey I’m gonna be at so and so bar at 6. Meet me there. If she says she can’t, leave her on read.

if a woman doesn’t give u the answer u want, stfu and remain silent

So where should I have stop responding ideally. The I work on 26th. The alright cool?

And due to various reasons, bar inviting and inviting to the crib is not an option right now.

Told you bruh.

She still watching your stories cause she gets some type of fulfillment cause you tried your luck with her again in a simpish manner. She feeds on your feed if you can catch my drift.

Only way to recover is to start posting stories with other attractive chicks on your arm. Like block everybody except her and her mutuals . Start posting oldies but dont let it look like you literally uploading them just to stunt. It needs to look in the now.

If I was in this situation I would quit her cold turkey, too much energy for me.

Good luck.

Alright.

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[Krazy]

what's the best first text to reconnect back with an old joint.


She followed me back on the gram and liking my recent(ended up following her back as well) and she viewing stories. but hasn't reached out through text. I think she wants me reach out.

My mans was saying I should just wait till she reaches back first.

I tried this the other day.
There isn't a best text.
Gotta work with whats available, If she was active on social media I would interact with his stories ec.

I sent that how you doing text to an old joint.
The response made me chuckle.
She knew what I was after ultimately

Hit me with the "Yeah im good and I'm still happily in a relationship"

Respected it nice and concise

 

[Krazy]

Met this chick off bumble

the first normal female I’ve met on there. We’ve been on dates and talk all night. Today this bytch hits me with she likes to date multiple dudes at one time

Lol thats common though.

Until you express or she expresses ya'll exclusive or want to be then...Assume youre not.

Its hard pill to swallow knowing someone else could be hitting whilst you are or whilst youre lining up dates but its the game.

Respect her honesty, she could have lied and had you believing you were her one and only.

If you're feeling her express to her you wanna be exclusive and see where it goes.
Assumptions are the worst when it comes to dating lol, thats how you end up hurt over a chick that was never yours.

Make it known and clear where you wanna proceed, you sound like you like her and potentially could go further so...And its not just someone you wanna just hit.

Shes not gonna blindly dump her eggs into one basket - Chances shes probably done that before and got fukked over and neither should you.

Dont get me wrong its a lot easier and simpler dealing with one person at a time...I get it, I'm like that in the sense that If Im seeing a chick even casually and my needs are met, I'm not chasing other women.

But I wouldnt completely cut off any off or avoid any other potential women.

People be switching up out the blue...Learn from me I was sexing this chick that changed up now its tumble weed in terms of women...A big part of that was because mentally I was stressed and down due to a lot of other things so I didnt care for dating like that but yeah keep those options open playa until you know for sure.

 

[Sinnerman]

Honestly, balancing these women sometimes make me miss when I was p*ssyless during the pandemic

 

[Krazy]

Fellas, we have to hold ourselves to a higher standard in all aspects in life. Key word OURSELVES, not just the women we date. I've realized that a lot of men want women to view and treat us a way we don't even view or treat ourselves. Frauding. We want to demand the best out of folks yet we go around accepting the bare minimum from ourselves half assing or procrastinating through life?

You can't expect someone to give you THEIR best self if YOU won't even give YOU your best self? How can you expect someone to respect you when it could be clear to them that you don't even respect yourself.

Food for thought. If it applies to you, you'll know.

Half assing on your finances/job/education
Half assing on your health/diet/fitness
Half assing on your looks/hygiene/clothing

Had to quote to repost.
Theres a lot of truth in this!

Focus on yourselves fellas and stop half assing.
Women come and go, but the things mentioned above.
Putting your all into those will carry you a lot further than putting your all into woman whilst half assing those.


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With that being said.
Stop dealing with women who make it feel like a chore to speak to them and make plans with them.
That shyt aint cute.

If she switches up on you and starts acting funny...If you ask her whats up and she says nothing and still acting funny then thats on her.
Not for you to continually try ad piece together like a jigsaw...Its up to her to be vocal if you've done or said something thats made her feel a way.

Been there done that...waste of time, just gotta let them go...Dropped out this chick completely, she swears shes not acting different but she is so fukk it thats on her.
Given her ample opportunities to clear the air or just shed some light.
Sex aside thought she was a cool chick and someone I'd remain friends with...My stance now is keep it 100 or gtfoh, I aint goanna beg you stick around or respond/hit me up.

Some may have valid reasons and some just be playing silly games.

Obviously if this your wifey/girlfriend then proceed differently lol.

 

[DapMeUp!]

I don't know how you guys situations ended with your women.

But just putting it out there....if they ended it with you, Never...never reach out to them before they reach out to you.

And if they never reach out again charge it to the game

 

[VertigoKnight]

Lying or not, idk why he would tell you he has a roster, that doesn’t help him in anyway.

Yeah that's pretty dumb of him. Rubbing that shyt in a woman face has no positives whatsoever.

 

[Dave24]

Besides bars and clubs what other places are women receptive to meeting other people? I am 35 and am a virgin and am socially awkward. I want to get out there and try to talk/interact with as many women as possible so I can get better social skills and also lose my virginity.

 

[Balla]

Besides bars and clubs what other places are women receptive to meeting other people? I am 35 and am a virgin and am socially awkward. I want to get out there and try to talk/interact with as many women as possible so I can get better social skills and also lose my virginity.

How’s your career searching thing going, Look into anything new?


Anyway. Why don’t you like bars or clubs? Those are usually the best places where you’ll get a good number of women to meet consistently.

Other places could be a store, somewhere you’re going to eat, etc.

Thing is you won’t get the same amount of women to talk to compared to bars and clubs.

Just start out with stores and other places.

One thing that I think is good is talking to women outside the areas where the bars and clubs are at.

Women come up and talk to me when I’m out and about going to a club, bar, or somewhere to eat.

Maybe try that because women will be more social at that time and you’ll have more women to talk to without even stepping foot into a club or bar.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Besides bars and clubs what other places are women receptive to meeting other people? I am 35 and am a virgin and am socially awkward. I want to get out there and try to talk/interact with as many women as possible so I can get better social skills and also lose my virginity.

I imagine in your situation bars and clubs are hard if you're socially awkward. Can you hold a convo with a woman and keep her engaged? Can you dance by yourself and attract a women over?

I'd consider stuff like museum art nights and also see what meetup groups in your area take your fancy if you have hobbies.

You may not get any p*ssy but you'll definitely get over the hump of just talking to women with no pressure for an outcome. Just talk to everyone, men and women after a while it becomes second nature to approach a woman, hold a convo and not seem thirsty.

 

[noumena]

Is it hustling backwards to apply for a job cause a cute chick works there (small store)? I don't like cold approaching employees of stores at work and everyone knows work will get you close to people.

 

[Balla]

Is it hustling backwards to apply for a job cause a cute chick works there (small store)? I don't like cold approaching employees of stores at work and everyone knows work will get you close to people.

For 1 chick yes. That’s a great recipe to fall in love with a chick (not good). Apply to a job with multiple cute chicks.

 

[360dagod]

Besides bars and clubs what other places are women receptive to meeting other people? I am 35 and am a virgin and am socially awkward. I want to get out there and try to talk/interact with as many women as possible so I can get better social skills and also lose my virginity.

Before anything...

Posture and eyes mean alot..

Make sure they are in order...

Also make sure you have a slow grandpa pace while walking...

Nice and controlled breathing...

Start off with baby steps..

Compliment a female and tell her she looks sexy today etc...and keep building from there..

Also gym and getting in shape helps..

 

[brandy]

Besides bars and clubs what other places are women receptive to meeting other people? I am 35 and am a virgin and am socially awkward. I want to get out there and try to talk/interact with as many women as possible so I can get better social skills and also lose my virginity.

If you have any hobbies, try to find women centered around those things rather than putting yourself in uncomfortable environments. At least if you find folks centered around what you like, you have the comfort of your interest.