Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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If a chick tells you "she needs space" because of overwhelming circumstances in her life..whats the proper response?

Let her get on with it.

No asking how she is etc, and you go kick it with other chicks in your rotation or new women.

"Wanting Space" is usually the precursor to a chick going ghost on you.

If it really is a situation then when she's dealt with it, she can reach out.
 

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Any Brehs got advice on how to get into that mindset of smutting out your gf?

Recently started dating this girl and its going good but the sex is too vanilla. I'm use to having more kinkier sex with girls i smut out

Don't play with the idea or ask, but also don't just jab her a$$hole (for example) with your whole fist. When I'm fingering or in doggy, I usually slip one fingers in her ass, even if she hasn't tried it before, she's too turned on to care. Do this with all things. When she's blowing you, starting choking her/putting her hair in a ponytail grip. Start with little smacks here and there, and then eventually rough her up. I had one girl who was afraid of being choked....after intense foreplay and fukking her mouth for a bit, she was all about that getting choked out life.

You must of course be righteous, don't be coy, but also don't look to destroy her in the first session. Build up to debauchery, make her want to be disgusting.
 

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They don't have to be your photos....its the internet, be smart and you can fake almost everything as a hobby. If You're simply not interested in that route, just list your job as "Plastic Surgeon Apprentice/Technician"....again attacking their vanity and insecurities, most dopey women will assume you've seen and heard it all, she'll open up immediately and talk about and show you her body.

And then what do you do from there? How exactly do you turn that into sex? Just talk about your job and then make a move or?
 

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Women that waste your time so you stop giving them attention
Always love to come back talking that talk about they wanna see you
Thinking you gone fall for the bullshyt

If you aint trying to see me tonight get the fukk off my phone i wasted enough time trying to make arrangements to pull up:comeon:

She just want attention so she feels she wanted and then can go back to doing bare minimum hoping ima keep hitting her up.

NOPE if you wanna see me then its down to you.
Wont be me asking to see you
You come to me with a date and time not no generic bullshyt:ufdup:

Or leave me alone.
 

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NYC black coffee tough guys aka the Stoozy Boys
And then what do you do from there? How exactly do you turn that into sex? Just talk about your job and then make a move or?

You'd be very surprised on the rate and speed that these women want to open up. Think about it, they're self involved, insecure/vain daddy issues wrapped in a quaint bow of being a ho....if she's given up to losers and "Juan" from the block, she'll see "your" skills and bask in wanting to give you p*ssy or at least do anything to be one of your models. Its almost too easy. So anything works, flirt, talk about her posing nude for you, etc.
 

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Let her get on with it.

No asking how she is etc, and you go kick it with other chicks in your rotation or new women.

"Wanting Space" is usually the precursor to a chick going ghost on you.

If it really is a situation then when she's dealt with it, she can reach out.

Since this happened...I didn't hit her up for 3 days....she text me saying "update on my current situation....blah blah" which is supposed what she got going on personally...she has been "overwhelmed" with life

I said "ok...hope all is well" and kept it moving.

Decided to test the waters yesterday and see what's up. Said she was busy taking her car to the shop and shopping for her kid. After that I asked "are we cool or you still want space "

No reply....I just deleted the number..

Done deal
 

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Slowly escalated while we were chilling in my place. particular cause she wasn’t on that type of time.

I think a lot of guys would benefit from knowing what the escalation was like. That's the biggest issue most dudes have. And this is a threesome so I would love to hear how exactly you escalated. Randomly started making out? Dancing? Hand holding?
 

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I think a lot of guys would benefit from knowing what the escalation was like. That's the biggest issue most dudes have. And this is a threesome so I would love to hear how exactly you escalated. Randomly started making out? Dancing? Hand holding?

Touching their hands. Making them feel comfortable. Most importantly, I didn’t force it this time. I just set the mood and let it play out.Turned on music. They started dancing. The main difference between this time and all my failed attempts was one of the girls initiated it with the other one. After a while she started kissing on her. Then I started doing it. They both have boyfriends so it was playful at first then it got serious.
 

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Touching their hands. Making them feel comfortable. Most importantly, I didn’t force it this time. I just set the mood and let it play out.Turned on music. They started dancing. The main difference between this time and all my failed attempts was one of the girls initiated it with the other one. After a while she started kissing on her. Then I started doing it. They both have boyfriends so it was playful at first then it got serious.

Get married brehs (message still applies even though they not married women) :ufdup:

Them girls probably wouldn't let their boyfriend's have a 3some if he asked :deadmanny:
 

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lol dealing with women is such an emotional back and forth. Trying to learn how to not get overwhelmed in the moment and being calm/collected when dealing with them is hard.
Cause deep down I be wanting the bytch and I always give into my emotions and do too much, then lose the bytch.
Why does the switch up always come? you'll be cool with a girl and then poof 4 or 5 months go by and she cuts you off.
I can always get them hooked in for a lil while then they all jump ship and then im stuck waiting til the next one. I gotta get the mindset that I need to keep my options open, instead of overly investing in one.
 

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I think a lot of guys would benefit from knowing what the escalation was like. That's the biggest issue most dudes have. And this is a threesome so I would love to hear how exactly you escalated. Randomly started making out? Dancing? Hand holding?

When I drive around I put my hand on their thigh and start giving it a light massage and if there's skin, I lightly rub my finger on it
 
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