Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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lol dealing with women is such an emotional back and forth. Trying to learn how to not get overwhelmed in the moment and being calm/collected when dealing with them is hard.
Cause deep down I be wanting the bytch and I always give into my emotions and do too much, then lose the bytch.
Why does the switch up always come? you'll be cool with a girl and then poof 4 or 5 months go by and she cuts you off.
I can always get them hooked in for a lil while then they all jump ship and then im stuck waiting til the next one. I gotta get the mindset that I need to keep my options open, instead of overly investing in one.

Not yours just your turn. It's like netflix some chicks will come across you and binge you and once they are done onto the next, or they take it a slow here and there but it still reaches an end date. The best thing you can do is always have a backup
 

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lol she did. all women keep they options open and I play myself every time by not doing the same lol

The old saying women always have dikk in a jar or a man in a jar. Or a man in coma they can wake up any day. They always have their javale mcgee , keldon johnsons on stand by just in case.

So many things that used to bug me or aggravate me in the past with women diminish because of keeping a "roster". Having a bunch of women in rotation is like having F U money. If you go into work tomorrow and have a million in the bank if you are treated like crap you'll just quit.

However if you have 50k in debt and have no other options its harder so you just take the abuse, disrespect.

Same with chicks, one acts up? Adios. One ignores you meh who cares instead of checking your phone constantly hoping she texts back. Not feeling one meh adios. However if you just have that one chick you're talking to, oh its ok hope you and kayvon have a nice work dinner out.

Send a message and get a omg i was so busy just seeing this 5 days later and you're like ah no worries i know how busy this time of the year is, what are you up to? :picard:
 

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SMH thought I had a real one but she talking about going to Rhode Island for a few days with "a co-worker" next week??

SMH another one bites the dust. I'm just gonna pull back and use this as an opportunity to explore some more options.

That's how it is breh but why you jealous? He's just a "friend" :troll:
Nothing is going to happen, omg I've known him for years :troll:
 

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The old saying women always have dikk in a jar or a man in a jar. Or a man in coma they can wake up any day. They always have their javale mcgee , keldon johnsons on stand by just in case.

So many things that used to bug me or aggravate me in the past with women diminish because of keeping a "roster". Having a bunch of women in rotation is like having F U money. If you go into work tomorrow and have a million in the bank if you are treated like crap you'll just quit.

However if you have 50k in debt and have no other options its harder so you just take the abuse, disrespect.

Same with chicks, one acts up? Adios. One ignores you meh who cares instead of checking your phone constantly hoping she texts back. Not feeling one meh adios. However if you just have that one chick you're talking to, oh its ok hope you and kayvon have a nice work dinner out.

Send a message and get a omg i was so busy just seeing this 5 days later and you're like ah no worries i know how busy this time of the year is, what are you up to? :picard:

:dead::deadrose:
 

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That's how it is breh but why you jealous? He's just a "friend" :troll:
Nothing is going to happen, omg I've known him for years :troll:

im usually all for being cool headed. but when women try this sh1t, ive learned that berating them with a very angry tone and THEN breaking up with them, usually sets them straight.

i've said the equivalent of the following to women:

me: are you serious?
me: you see nothing wrong hanging out with a guy, when you have a boyfriend? i dont give a fucck if he's gay or you've known him for years or that u never hooked up with him.
me: who the fucck raised you, you hoe? u cum bucket, stupid b1tch, c*nt. fucck u
her: :merchant:. (cause keep in mind, im a calm and collected man. so for me to go apesh1t on them like this usually lets them know, yeah this n1gga aint the one to fucck with - he cray cray)

her: u know what, im done with this. delete my number
me: fucck u. already deleted

a week goes by and she has the nerve to wanna clear things up.

usually, if the girl you're dating does anything like this, u have to have the wisdom to realize from that point on that she aint the one. so its perfectly OK to throw a bomb in the relationship and let the chips and pieces fall wherever the fucck they wish.
 

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Exactly the worst thing as a man you can do is putting all your stock in one woman (i'm not talking about if you're in a serious relationship or marriage I don't condone cheating). Because when it's crashes you're sol and women switch up like this crazy.

Many men think they are the only one when you're just one of them hats on the table


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I think brehs just need to become indifferent. Use your energy to be productive, if you got time for multiple chicks go for it, but in general you should have a purpose where anything you do with a woman is on your time and your terms, and if she walks away it doesnt even matter. I understand sexual discipline varies by person so i wont tell brehs to not care about guaranteed sex, but i will say often times compromise themselves to maintain guaranteed sex
 

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SMH thought I had a real one but she talking about going to Rhode Island for a few days with "a co-worker" next week??

SMH another one bites the dust. I'm just gonna pull back and use this as an opportunity to explore some more options.
Only person that will ever keep it 100 with you is yourself lol.

Accept that humans are imperfect and dont tolerate things that dont align with your moral code.
 

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i got a promotion about a month ago i pretty much work from home but i'll show up to the office every now and then. i stopped by earlier today and one of my employees says hey i brought you something. Cool

She made food for me had me bring it home. thank you

hour later comes the text "hope u like :smile::wink: "

i did

she come back "u welcome :o: "

what we think... and no i cannot even contemplate.. no way... i'm the boss
 

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Always be talking to at least three women. I have more backups than NSA files. Even if you can't fukk them, use women. Make them pay for everything, have them earn your presence. You can definitely turn that one into your cash pig if you play it right, but always have more in the bank.
How can I turn her into a cash pig? I can't front one of the things that turned me on about her was that she paid for shyt even on the first date I paid for the bowling game we played and she paid for the drinks after. She doesn't mind paying and feels it's fair and she's also very feminine bringing me water and shyt when I visit her house or cooking for me. Always being thoughtful.

She likes to banter and shyt test but I always pass them and put her in check.

I also do have a rotation but I thought she was the one LOL.
How does that even get explained?
She was just like did I tell you, I'm going to Rhode Island next week with a co worker for four days. I don't know if it's a male or female so I left it alone and moved passed the convo but I think I'll double back to it sometimes during a convo real subtle like ask her about it and if she's excited and then ask who she is going with.
 
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That's how it is breh but why you jealous? He's just a "friend" :troll:
Nothing is going to happen, omg I've known him for years :troll:
Funny shyt is she did have a friend like that but I made her drop him. Some dude she pretty much led on, she said she liked spending time with him but wasn't into him. She would date him a little in college but pretty much dumped him and friend zoned him while he moved on with his life and got engaged. They didn't talk for awhile but she reached out during the pandemic and I told her it's either him or me.

According to her she didn't smash him and I was only the third guy she been with which I believe cause her shyt be damn near virgin tight and sometimes a struggle to get into but you never know.


Only person that will ever keep it 100 with you is yourself lol.

Accept that humans are imperfect and dont tolerate things that dont align with your moral code.
big facts! Not even gonna take her serious anymore, just meet up to fukk and chill at this rate I'll never be married and I accept that LOL.
 

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More than a casual but not established relationship.

I just told her cool....space is what you got.

She hit me up 2 days later with a long text about what she got going on....I said "ok".....this was yesterday. I don't plan on reaching out tbh

she probably got another guy that’s outta in work aka wants serious
 

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Funny shyt is she did have a friend like that but I made her drop him. Some dude she pretty much led on, she said she liked spending time with him but wasn't into him. She would date him a little in college but pretty much dumped him and friend zoned him while he moved on with his life and got engaged. They didn't talk for awhile but she reached out during the pandemic and I told her it's either him or me.

According to her she didn't smash him and I was only the third guy she been with which I believe cause her shyt be damn near virgin tight and sometimes a struggle to get into but you never know.



big facts! Not even gonna take her serious anymore, just meet up to fukk and chill at this rate I'll never be married and I accept that LOL.

how old are you?
 
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