Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[J.E.T.S]

Is it normal for a 33 year old woman with kids to be going out every weekend with her friends?

like I never met a woman that goes out all the time and every time her homegirls and cousins call her.

I’m talking bars, clubs, pool parties, all that…

frequent girls trips too

claims her last nikka was controlling and she stopped “going out like that” for a couple of years..

In my mind, “I was like bytch I see why!”

im sure that’s a main factor as to why they ended or am I trippin?

I know she has kids Coli, but she has a lot of other good qualities and I’ve dated women with kids before

what y’all think?

 

[TRUEST]

Is it normal for a 33 year old woman with kids to be going out every weekend with her friends?

like I never met a woman that goes out all the time and every time her homegirls and cousins call her.

I’m talking bars, clubs, pool parties, all that…

frequent girls trips too

claims her last nikka was controlling and she stopped “going out like that” for a couple of years..

In my mind, “I was like bytch I see why!”

im sure that’s a main factor as to why they ended or am I trippin?

I know she has kids Coli, but she has a lot of other good qualities and I’ve dated women with kids before

what y’all think?

She ain’t the one for you. Best way to deal with her is on a fucck buddy deal. Let her hit u up. And when she does, invite her over. Very soon she’ll realize u ain’t like the last n1gga. But why? Her quest to find out will leave her vulnerable enough for u to control and subdue psychologically if you know what you’re doing. U can’t convince girls like her to stop being night crawlers. U just can’t so stop trying to.

 

[The ADD]

Is it normal for a 33 year old woman with kids to be going out every weekend with her friends?

like I never met a woman that goes out all the time and every time her homegirls and cousins call her.

I’m talking bars, clubs, pool parties, all that…

frequent girls trips too

claims her last nikka was controlling and she stopped “going out like that” for a couple of years..

In my mind, “I was like bytch I see why!”

im sure that’s a main factor as to why they ended or am I trippin?

I know she has kids Coli, but she has a lot of other good qualities and I’ve dated women with kids before

what y’all think?

So you want a partner that’s constantly out in the mix?

 

[J.E.T.S]

She ain’t the one for you. Best way to deal with her is on a fucck buddy deal. Let her hit u up. And when she does, invite her over. Very soon she’ll realize u ain’t like the last n1gga. But why? Her quest to find out will leave her vulnerable enough for u to control and subdue psychologically if you know what you’re doing. U can’t convince girls like her to stop being night crawlers. U just can’t so stop trying to.

im not trying to lol

I fukked her a few weeks after meeting her. She was was telling me about how her ex cheated and they broke up. Said he was controlling and blamed her for him cheating.

my question to the Coli was is all that going out normal for women in their thirties?

i’ve literally only met 20 somethings that does all of that.

 

[J.E.T.S]

So you want a partner that’s constantly out in the mix?

fukk no. Who does?

 

[The ADD]

fukk no. Who does?

The way it originally read it sound like you were trying to pursue something with her beyond FWB.

As far as going out yeah plenty of women across all age groups do it.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Is it normal for a 33 year old woman with kids to be going out every weekend with her friends?

like I never met a woman that goes out all the time and every time her homegirls and cousins call her.

I’m talking bars, clubs, pool parties, all that…

frequent girls trips too

claims her last nikka was controlling and she stopped “going out like that” for a couple of years..

In my mind, “I was like bytch I see why!”

im sure that’s a main factor as to why they ended or am I trippin?

I know she has kids Coli, but she has a lot of other good qualities and I’ve dated women with kids before

what y’all think?

why you do this to yourself breh

 

[Max.]

Yeah I agree with you bro. Just getting dumped out of no where sucks this like my first time experience something like this. But I guess I will get over it with time

no lie bro she probably has someone already lined up…maybe a guy at work…or some shyt…

idk if ur ex has friends but them bytches prolly trashed u too

 

[Max.]

Is it normal for a 33 year old woman with kids to be going out every weekend with her friends?

like I never met a woman that goes out all the time and every time her homegirls and cousins call her.

I’m talking bars, clubs, pool parties, all that…

frequent girls trips too

claims her last nikka was controlling and she stopped “going out like that” for a couple of years..

In my mind, “I was like bytch I see why!”

im sure that’s a main factor as to why they ended or am I trippin?

I know she has kids Coli, but she has a lot of other good qualities and I’ve dated women with kids before

what y’all think?

its not normal breh…thats a fwb situation…bytches go out for attention…red flag

 

[lamont614]

She cold cause she with another man

what you mean ? explain

 

[MikelArteta]

this last page crazy
Same thing I’m going thru

My ex just dumped me I can’t believe she is being so cold towards me it’s crazy

I’ve come to terms with it I’m salty because I fukked I had so many chances I just needed one more




Damn did she ever talk to you again the one you was begging?

the one that was begging she called me a few months ago said we should meet up i said sure but never heard from her after that.

 

[MikelArteta]

what you mean ? explain

Women will rarely get out of a relationship to be single many times they have their eye on another guy. They tree branch as in always having something set up before they move on

sort of like a job people rarely quit without having another job lined up

 

[MikelArteta]

And just saying when a woman dumps you 95 percent of the time it’s over. She’s thought about it for months, she’s talked to her girls, mom maybe even close guy friends giving her one sided story that they all agree with and you go girl.

When she’s kissing you, being affectionate she’s slowly detaching, she’s mourning the loss of the relationship while she’s with you.

you might pick up things and ask what’s wrong and get a nothing everything is great to calm your fears

it’s just like at work when they getting rid of your azz

they’ve had meetings to discuss you, slowly give you less work etc. Then one day you come into work and have a 9am meeting where someone from hr is there and you’re being walked out.


So when women drop them thangs on you it’s already over she’s mourned the relationship

it’s why when men cheat wnd a woman breaks up in anger many times she goes back because the emotional ties are still there and she didn’t have time to break it



be a step ahead , now that I’m older the moment I feel a chick waning I just eject


I was cavorting with this chick for a few months we meet up one day at her place, she’s just on her phone I always gotta say something. I then said I’m going and ask if she wants to do breakfast she said nah that’s ok

I knew that was it, never said another word and I’ve never heard from her again


Another chick was on that we have a spiritual connection never met a guy like you blah blah. I remember texting her two days later get the ive been so busy blah blah


Never said anything again never heard from her again


Gotta be a step ahead always

 

[Kal El]

And just saying when a woman dumps you 95 percent of the time it’s over. She’s thought about it for months, she’s talked to her girls, mom maybe even close guy friends giving her one sided story that they all agree with and you go girl.

When she’s kissing you, being affectionate she’s slowly detaching, she’s mourning the loss of the relationship while she’s with you.

you might pick up things and ask what’s wrong and get a nothing everything is great to calm your fears

it’s just like at work when they getting rid of your azz

they’ve had meetings to discuss you, slowly give you less work etc. Then one day you come into work and have a 9am meeting where someone from hr is there and you’re being walked out.


So when women drop them thangs on you it’s already over she’s mourned the relationship

it’s why when men cheat wnd a woman breaks up in anger many times she goes back because the emotional ties are still there and she didn’t have time to break it



be a step ahead , now that I’m older the moment I feel a chick waning I just eject


I was cavorting with this chick for a few months we meet up one day at her place, she’s just on her phone I always gotta say something. I then said I’m going and ask if she wants to do breakfast she said nah that’s ok

I knew that was it, never said another word and I’ve never heard from her again


Another chick was on that we have a spiritual connection never met a guy like you blah blah. I remember texting her two days later get the ive been so busy blah blah


Never said anything again never heard from her again


Gotta be a step ahead always

This is straight facts lol.

people don’t just wake up and decide they want to break up. I had been marinating on that idea for a good year with my ex before finally ending it.

And yeah the older I get the less chasing I’ll do. If I get low effort responses then I already know what time it is. Plenty of other girls that will be into you to get stuck up on pursuing ones that are treating you like a 5th option.

 

[Ahadi]

Anyone else got a burner ig account for thots?

Gotta separate it.