she was pissed she came home and would talk to me and I ignored her on some petty shyt she left 
Idk if she does have guy lined up but day before she sent me that text she was with her friends for a whole day so I’m assuming it’s something they said to her
She let me do anal
You will breh
I remember my first time being dumped. Bought flowers, begged, wrote a card, poems.
Couldn’t fathom how someone who said they loved me etc would now be so cold, someone I talked to every day for three years could just stop just like that
learned a lot , it’s always best to go no contact and don’t look back. You save your dignity
I remember last girl that dumped me it was through text I didn’t even say anything , month later she called me crying and how she wanted another chance (didn’t give one)
If someone wants to be with you they will if they don’t there’s nothing you can do
I don’t know what it is about that 2 and 3 year mark in a relationship, but nikkas be getting dumped lol
I also been through that twice. I never begged tho..
One had broke up with me because I got caught cheating. She literally told me it was nothing I could say or do. I did what most men did and not took ownership of it and blamed her… but, I told her I didn’t want to leave, it was a mistake, and I did love her. When she started ignoring me everyday at home and being cold I KNEW I had to leave, otherwise when she started fukking other nikkas I couldn’t say that she didn’t tell me what it was.
I went get me an apartment three weeks after she started giving me the cold shoulder.
she with a rap nikka with money now.. she seems happy as hell.
couldn’t be me tho… we did some NASTY nasty shyt while in that relationship.
. I know I have a problem but I spent too long tryna avoid looking at ass and getting p*ssy just to fit in, my time now
You a whole weirdo brehOut of the whole group of yung nikkas I was standing with I was the only one looking at this slim thicc white girl that passed by. But the way thecoli tell it is that all the yung nikkas my age is like me, but it’s the opposite
You werent fit to lead a house anyways. You have too many issues you need to resolve
If she's a late bloomer, then it's understandable - still a lot of it is red flags. Some women feel like once they are "unshackled" from someone they are going to "live their best life"Is it normal for a 33 year old woman with kids to be going out every weekend with her friends?
like I never met a woman that goes out all the time and every time her homegirls and cousins call her.
I’m talking bars, clubs, pool parties, all that…
frequent girls trips too
claims her last nikka was controlling and she stopped “going out like that” for a couple of years..
In my mind, “I was like bytch I see why!”
im sure that’s a main factor as to why they ended or am I trippin?
I know she has kids Coli, but she has a lot of other good qualities and I’ve dated women with kids before
what y’all think?
Is it normal for a 33 year old woman with kids to be going out every weekend with her friends?
like I never met a woman that goes out all the time and every time her homegirls and cousins call her.
I’m talking bars, clubs, pool parties, all that…
frequent girls trips too
claims her last nikka was controlling and she stopped “going out like that” for a couple of years..
In my mind, “I was like bytch I see why!”
im sure that’s a main factor as to why they ended or am I trippin?
I know she has kids Coli, but she has a lot of other good qualities and I’ve dated women with kids before
what y’all think?
If she's a late bloomer, then it's understandable - still a lot of it is red flags. Some women feel like once they are "unshackled" from someone they are going to "live their best life"
I got one that's 34, divorced and has an 11 year old. Didn't party in college - failed married and since 30 she's been like what you described.
Since I've know here (less than a year) she ALWAYS doing something, karokee, planning trips, hookah, lounge, dinner, girls nights, girls trip and it's exhausting just trying to keep up so I can stay engaged in good conversation.
What it comes down to if you're trying to get serious with her is balance - if she ain't willing to cut back on all that then she just ain't the one
I got one for tiktok thots
