Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Abraxus]

Everything is going well in the chat. We're joking, talking about each other's interests. Conversation just flowing. She asks me what am I looking for, so I keep it real with her. I told her I'm looking to meet new people, develop some chemistry and if we enjoy each other's company, we can get serious. She must have wanted to hear me say I'm looking for a relationship off the bat, because after I told her my goal on the platform, she says oh and unmatches. I try not to wrap my head around how women think but it's admittedly frustrating at times.

A few bytches did me like that too and I’m like ok lol you gonna run into another dude who’s going to do the same thing I was trying to do which is wipe my dikk across your lips! Let him lie and get the same results. Don’t matter to me, too many other women out here willing to lay down and open their legs. fukk you!

 

[Abraxus]

Really random thought here, but shouldn’t tall(6ft+) women be attracted to shorter men? Now , Wait. Hear me out here.



Evolutionarily speaking her relative height is a disadvantage in mating as a woman so shouldn’t she be aiming to even things out? Obviously I’m not talking about a 6ft woman and a 5ftdude, but something closer to balance. It seems to me that if the genetic pattern of seeking taller partners continues, each successive generation should have a much smaller dating pool.



any thoughts?

What? Man hell naw! You want it to be one way! But it’s the other way!

 

[VertigoKnight]

A chick with an OF is already a bad decision maker. Would be an automatic no and not someone to ever take seriously.

I even find a chick with an IG page where they showing their ass off clothed or other wise pretty distasteful as well.

It reeks of a constant need for attention from strangers, that I don't vibe with.

I've noticed that the women in my life that I've really gotten along with wouldn't even dream of it. Most of them barely post any pics of themselves let alone selfies as they have no want of that kind of negative attention.

 

[Neuromancer]

Really random thought here, but shouldn’t tall(6ft+) women be attracted to shorter men? Now , Wait. Hear me out here.



Evolutionarily speaking her relative height is a disadvantage in mating as a woman so shouldn’t she be aiming to even things out? Obviously I’m not talking about a 6ft woman and a 5ftdude, but something closer to balance. It seems to me that if the genetic pattern of seeking taller partners continues, each successive generation should have a much smaller dating pool.



any thoughts?

Humans don't function on this kind of logic. Women will always find a mate more often than not.

 

[AceAge]

Convert to islam and find a wife in Africa.

if you arent willing to do that you arent serious about this hoe fax thing.

Its 2021 chicks bussing it open in middle school. How can someone have a moral standard yet not be part of any institutions that align with your morals. Your church example is bad excuse because to your point you know who is and isnt bussing it lose in the church so whats the issue?

I assume you subscribe to the concept of a Creator rigjt? Because if you worried about body counts and are mon religious I’m gonna stop responding respectfully.

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I have to convert and move out the country just to find a long term partner that’s not for the town?

I basically just said i got a decent woman but I’m worried about GMB claiming another one if I take the plunge. Just venting bredren, thought this was a safe space.

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Yeah. @AceAge If she's not raising the flags like that I'm not sure what the issue is unless you have a bad feeling in your gut. If so then listen to it, just make sure it ain't gas.

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Gut is telling me a decent dude should’ve swooped in by now and wifed back when she was mid 20’s, but her ltr from that period went and had a side baby on her

Cynic in me is saying since shorty is out of school now and the viable picking and prospects not looking so voluminous or appealing as they used to be for her, she seeing its real in the field and she out here competing with the streets for the few leftover good dudes and she trying to lock one down.

Which, is what they supposed to do I guess.

 

[jesc07]

Somebody literally just posted that they shouldn't be so quick to bush some bytch on Onlyfans as a potential significant other.

I didn't say nothing about wifing a girl with OF but nothing wrong with dating one. But to each their own.

 

[Pegasus Jackson]

I didn't say nothing about wifing a girl with OF but nothing wrong with dating one. But to each their own.

"Dating" or "wifing"... it's subjective but still HIGHLY ill advised in my opinion.

 

[Killigraphy]

I think the best question is does she know how to be a partner. That's the problem. If you just fukking when do you gain the experience to be a partner? Sometimes it ain't even these chicks fault. They can't identify people who want to be serious and people who want to smash. How is her relationship with her pops?

You're mystifying "just fukking" unintentionally. Humans aren't robots, that's why you always hear that someone caught feelings in a friends with benefits situation. When in reality, both parties caught feelings, except one might have commitment issues. Unless you're a sociopath of course, but that's plenty rare.

You learn to be a good partner from showing affection, wanting to do something good or amicable for said partner. It comes naturally, like sharing or giving a fukk about anything. Children and relationships, don't come with instructions. So you learn from how you treat people in general. It's not a hard concept to understand, but easily complicated.

You don't teleport into p*ssy, you have to talk and relate with the opposite sex, some parameters however aren't spoken about due to red flags or personal issues, but as far as sex goes, it's a lengthy process, even for easy lays. That's why even the local doorknob won't fukk certain guys, even pornstars have standards, etc. Nothing is robotic when you're dealing with humans...even if they think it is.

Women have to express what they want, as do men. Lack of communication is the culprit here. Everyone knows how to be a partner...good or bad are the things you have to work on.

 

[Killigraphy]

Trust I’m always fresh when I go out, groomed well, nails cut, cologne on, tailored clothes etc.

I usually walk through at my own pace, standing up tall, checking things out.

But damn if a nightclub ain’t the hardest venue for me to talk in. I don’t have a super powerful voice so I usually tap em on the shoulder if they’re standing at the bar. But then they either can’t hear me or we’re yelling at each other over the music. Shyt fizzles out real fast.

And if they’re dancing it’s even worse. 9/10 I’m getting straight ignored. I’ve even had it where the entire group dips in unison like a school of fish with that hand holding thing they do


What’s your tips on a strong opener? I’m tryna stop em dead in the tracks. How do you get their attention and make em pay attention to you?

I usually say “that’s a nice outfit” or something along the lines of “happy Friday, what are you getting into tn”

There's no one tactic that's more reliable than time + proximity...create spaces where you can run into and talk to each other..a night club only works if she's blasted and wants to actually fukk you. A lot of these pick up guys dont ever record rejections, sure they talk about being rejected, but they don't go in on how much you will fail.

The simple go to's are working to her vanity. It at the very least, always get a response/conversation out of every woman I've approached. "Hey do you model? I'm a photog" Always grabs their attention. You have to play chess at thst environment, because every dude is like you, well dressed, groome, and all tapping shoulders. It doesn't work because it's been done to death. Introduce something new. A lot of these birds, never get told they can model, and or, told they should (if they're gorgeous), but never take it seriously. I have a fake IG and business card.....probably the only line/tactic that I'm batting 1.000 at. Everything else is hit or miss...leaning more on miss.

Don't want to go that far for p*ssy? Fine, time+proximity, is the second phase. But introducing yourself and trying a one liner is overplayed and boring.

 

[Lhark]

Women confuse me sometimes, why would she put her number in my phone unprovoked and leave me on read when I text you.

 

[Silkk]

97% of these bytches retarded

 

[George Gooney]

Women confuse me sometimes, why would she put her number in my unprovoked and leave me on read when I text you.

If you didn’t want her number why did you use it? She successfully turned you into a Time Ho. Delete the number and keep it moving.

 

[Lhark]

If you didn’t want her number why did you use it? She successfully turned you into a Time Ho. Delete the number and keep it moving.

I wanted her number she just decided to put her number in before I got a chance to ask for it.

 

[360dagod]

Women confuse me sometimes, why would she put her number in my phone unprovoked and leave me on read when I text you.

You gotta make that phonecall...

 

[jesc07]

Women confuse me sometimes, why would she put her number in my phone unprovoked and leave me on read when I text you.

It was a wrap from the jump. Always try to control frame.