Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[J Money]

So is this a coworker fam?


I might have to observe this situation and see how things are for you within a month.


Consistent advice I hear to never do that type of shyt where you work.

I don't work directly with her though. We work 2 different shifts

I hope you used a condom with her




And breh that breeding her talk is a madness



Slow it down my G

I'm just saying breh girl got her head on right and if she insists on not using condoms again I know im eventually gonna cum inside so whatever happens I wouldn't be mad either way

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

I don't work directly with her though. We work 2 different shifts


I'm just saying breh girl got her head on right and if she insists on not using condoms again I know im eventually gonna cum inside so whatever happens I wouldn't be mad either way

Man even if it’s a different shift be careful. It might not have to deal with work but if someone finds out at work someone will always be mad. Just human nature to hate and start drama. I actually have some friends as a prime example right now.


And then she seems level headed now until she catch feels and she keeping track of your life and work.


That’s one decision I’m actually afraid of doing.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Exactly. Tell upfront, “this is what I’m looking for, this is why I’m on the app, etc, if that’s not what you’re into, We can part ways, I don’t want any confusion”

Yup. Gotta be busy, focus on yourself, and enjoy the process. You can slip a few sexual innuendos here and there, but just enjoy the process, learn something new.

Yep this year I made my dating life a lot easier by just being upfront with my expectations and theirs and also both being adult enough to keep the communication lines open so everyone feels listened to. That comes down to stuff like them knowing I take my sexual health very seriously and I expect the same of them.

I’m currently seeing some solid women and we’ve all had the convo. If they don't feel it anymore they can leave and there will be no hard feelings, but they’ve all been here and enjoying themselves. They value the honesty instead of the bullshyt. Very career focused like me, so sometimes they just want to unwind and have someone they trust who is consistent.

It works for us.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

I want to get with a PAAG so bad


Like where they at fam

 

[Ahadi]

Yep this year I made my dating life a lot easier by just being upfront with my expectations and theirs and also both being adult enough to keep the communication lines open so everyone feels listened to. That comes down to stuff like them knowing I take my sexual health very seriously and I expect the same of them.

I’m currently seeing some solid women and we’ve all had the convo. If they don't feel it anymore they can leave and there will be no hard feelings, but they’ve all been here and enjoying themselves. They value the honesty instead of the bullshyt. Very career focused like me, so sometimes they just want to unwind and have someone they trust who is consistent.

It works for us.

Yup.

Clear communication = less drama

In a sense you’re also creating an image of what she should look for when she’s dating & creating a peaceful / normal environment. They’ll value that a lot, along with sexual health.

 

[J Money]

Man even if it’s a different shift be careful. It might not have to deal with work but if someone finds out at work someone will always be mad. Just human nature to hate and start drama. I actually have some friends as a prime example right now.


And then she seems level headed now until she catch feels and she keeping track of your life and work.


That’s one decision I’m actually afraid of doing.

You right and I agree but ima see where this shyt goes and keep yall updated. Going out again Sunday.

 

[VertigoKnight]

I want to get with a PAAG so bad


Like where they at fam

Where you live at?

I’ve got 6 on the roster atm

 

[Morose Polymath]

I'm just saying breh girl got her head on right and if she insists on not using condoms again I know im eventually gonna cum inside so whatever happens I wouldn't be mad either way

Re-think this train of thought before you end up with Child Support and your life forever changed/ruined

 

[Apollo Creed]

Re-think this train of thought before you end up with Child Support and your life forever changed/ruined

Dudes deserve to ger a train ran on em by family courts

 

[J Money]

Re-think this train of thought before you end up with Child Support and your life forever changed/ruined

Dudes deserve to ger a train ran on em by family courts

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Where you live at?

I’ve got 6 on the roster atm

The Midwest dog


Feels like they’re non existent here… they don’t go out or nothing

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

I want to get with a PAAG so bad


Like where they at fam

Wear does you resides at?



They're all over the place. But if you're affraid of p*ssy... that's not going to aid in your quest.



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[Ahadi]

Self-awareness is key brehs.

As you get older, trust your gut.

I was in previous / conflicting situation with a non-black woman, but as I’m getting older, legacy becomes an important part for me. To have a black family one day. I hope to be able to show a black boy, what he’s able to accomplish and be that example. I want him to be able to love and take pride in his skin.

It was a great woman, but for me, creating this strong black family dynamic is important and reaching the highest level of happiness,

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Self-awareness is key brehs.

As you get older, trust your gut.

I was in previous / conflicting situation with a non-black woman, but as I’m getting older, legacy becomes an important part for me. To have a black family one day. I hope to be able to show a black boy, what he’s able to accomplish and be that example. I want him to be able to love and take pride in his skin.

It was a great woman, but for me, creating this strong black family dynamic is important and reaching the highest level of happiness,

Beautifully said.

This thread has re-enforced to me understanding what you truly want and the means to get there. Living without a father and seeing how baby mother/baby father drama impacts a family, I strive to have a strong family unit. This means I have to check my sexual discipline, vet the women I do want to be with, and push myself physically/mentally/spiritually in order to take care of said woman and children.

 

[Ahadi]

Beautifully said.

This thread has re-enforced to me understanding what you truly want and the means to get there. Living without a father and seeing how baby mother/baby father drama impacts a family, I strive to have a strong family unit. This means I have to check my sexual discipline, vet the women I do want to be with, and push myself physically/mentally/spiritually in order to take care of said woman and children.

Exactly. Understanding yourself, become the best version puts you in a better perspective, but also masculine frame.

Im glad you understand from a man’s point of view. My family members would say “I think you had something good” which to me sounds like fear talk.