Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Exactly. Understanding yourself, become the best version puts you in a better perspective, but also masculine frame.

Im glad you understand from a man’s point of view. My family members would say “I think you had something good” which to me sounds like fear talk.

I’ve learned that fear talk comes from a place of wanting to protect. They want you to marry that sweet girl, lock down that job offer, sign off on that new home simply because they want you (in their mind) to be in a comfortable spot in life. Not to see you struggle like they did.

We as men know comfortability brings complacency, which stalls progression. My sisters & mother are doubtful anytime I step outside the box for my own piece of mind, but be they same ones cheering when shyt works out :yeshrug:
 

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I’ve learned that fear talk comes from a place of wanting to protect. They want you to marry that sweet girl, lock down that job offer, sign off on that new home simply because they want you (in their mind) to be in a comfortable spot in life. Not to see you struggle like they did.

We as men know comfortability brings complacency, which stalls progression. My sisters & mother are doubtful anytime I step outside the box for my own piece of mind, but be they same
ones cheering when shyt works out :yeshrug:

THIS IS EXACTLY HOW I FEEL. (Gona rep you later) I know the outcome with her will be “comfortable” and I just don’t want to be comfortable, I want to experience the highest level of happiness and work to push myself out feeling just “comfortable” and find someone who can create additional inspiration.

I’m ethnicity loyal at the end of the day.

:manny:
 
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Met a fine ass single mother of 3. Seriously fine as hell, like IG model fine. #1 Baby daddy locked up for drug trafficking, #2 is an idiot deadbeat. She has a job, car and renting a house. She’s 34.. kids 8, 12, and 15.

I have none and I’m 36. What y’all think?
 

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Met a fine ass single mother of 3. Seriously fine as hell, like IG model fine. #1 Baby daddy locked up for drug trafficking, #2 is an idiot deadbeat. She has a job, car and renting a house. She’s 34.. kids 8, 12, and 15.

I have none and I’m 36. What y’all think?

You can’t be serious right now….
 

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Met a fine ass single mother of 3. Seriously fine as hell, like IG model fine. #1 Baby daddy locked up for drug trafficking, #2 is an idiot deadbeat. She has a job, car and renting a house. She’s 34.. kids 8, 12, and 15.

I have none and I’m 36. What y’all think?

I get it mane

But on paper this aint worth it
 

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Met a fine ass single mother of 3. Seriously fine as hell, like IG model fine. #1 Baby daddy locked up for drug trafficking, #2 is an idiot deadbeat. She has a job, car and renting a house. She’s 34.. kids 8, 12, and 15.

I have none and I’m 36. What y’all think?

Don't be the stepdad, be the dad that stepped up
 

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Met a fine ass single mother of 3. Seriously fine as hell, like IG model fine. #1 Baby daddy locked up for drug trafficking, #2 is an idiot deadbeat. She has a job, car and renting a house. She’s 34.. kids 8, 12, and 15.

I have none and I’m 36. What y’all think?

I mean as beautiful as she sounds the two BD's sound like too much potential trouble plus 3 kids?

That's a lot of effort. Seriously ask yourself what do you other than sleeping with her get out of this?
 

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I mean as beautiful as she sounds the two BD's sound like too much potential trouble plus 3 kids?

That's a lot of effort. Seriously ask yourself what do you other than sleeping with her get out of this?

I’m damn near open to giving anyone a try :noah:

mane all these women kids or no kids haven’t been worth anything but coochie so far for me.:mjcry:

I want something real.

edit: her tubes are tied. She just mentioned this on the phone. I don’t know if this a really good thing or bad thing. :yeshrug:
 

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Shorty who works at the gym has been eying me for a minute ,other day even told me how nice my shirt was etc. She came to work looking different other day.I asked for her name she told me and she knows mine. Im just going for it tomorrow if shyt dont workout gonna change my time etc.
 

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Shorty who works at the gym has been eying me for a minute ,other day even told me how nice my shirt was etc. She came to work looking different other day.I asked for her name she told me and she knows mine. Im just going for it tomorrow if shyt dont workout gonna change my time etc.
Update on how this goes. Im in the exact situation.
 

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I’m damn near open to giving anyone a try :noah:

mane all these women kids or no kids haven’t been worth anything but coochie so far for me.:mjcry:

I want something real.

edit: her tubes are tied. She just mentioned this on the phone. I don’t know if this a really good thing or bad thing. :yeshrug:

That's a great thing for all the wrong reasons :mjlit:
 

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Definetely will. Funny thing is I be so focused on my workout I dont want to forget. This is rare time where my #1 goal is to holler at her . Good luck on yours .
The only reason im on shorty at my gym cuz she would just stare at me in my eyes every time I walked in there. Its hard to focus when I be tryna holla at her.
 

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Met a fine ass single mother of 3. Seriously fine as hell, like IG model fine. #1 Baby daddy locked up for drug trafficking, #2 is an idiot deadbeat. She has a job, car and renting a house. She’s 34.. kids 8, 12, and 15.

I have none and I’m 36. What y’all think?

I’m damn near open to giving anyone a try :noah:

mane all these women kids or no kids haven’t been worth anything but coochie so far for me.:mjcry:

I want something real.

edit: her tubes are tied. She just mentioned this on the phone. I don’t know if this a really good thing or bad thing. :yeshrug:

Imagine being on earth 36 years and did well enough for yourself not to get trapped with BM drama then you decide to piss it all away for a woman that fukked up 3 times just because she is fine. :cape:
 
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