Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Apollo Creed]

Too many red flags man


@Babyface @Killigraphy

these dudes moving with no guidance.

why is a dude with a woman 2 yrs and the goal aint marriage? If you moving in with a woman it should be post an engagement.

anything before that is dumb. If you moving in with someone to “save money” you shouldnt be in a relationship, your focus should be bossing your life up.

this is what happens when dudes play boyfriend to get consistent sex, they end up in an endless cycle of confusion because they playing house with no intention of actually building a “house”.

@Bossyyyyy

 

[Bossyyyyy]

these dudes moving with no guidance.

why is a dude with a woman 2 yrs and the goal aint marriage? If you moving in with a woman it should be post an engagement.

anything before that is dumb. If you moving in with someone to “save money” you shouldnt be in a relationship, your focus should be bossing your life up.

this is what happens when dudes play boyfriend to get consistent sex, they end up in an endless cycle of confusion because they playing house with no intention of actually building a “house”.

@Bossyyyyy

ofc the goal is for us to stay together. im pretty skeptical towards marriage tho (just don’t want the govt involved)

to the monetary point, i agree. when i first started dating her, i realized damn this is kinda expensive, it’s like my money just vaporizes, but @ the same time im here now. my #1 focus is tryna boss up, but there’s times i feel like i have a weight on me. somedays i feel like ladies are a big distraction. to the moving in point, i just think it’s better to buy a house than move in a apt…which would be a $ dump

and to your last point, you’re off completely. if i were around solely for sex, this train would’ve went off the rails a minute ago

I agree I am moving w/o guidance, that’s the part about all of this that sucks. I be thinking it’d be nice to bounce some of this stuff off others, but for the most part I keep things very private between she and I. It be feeling like I’m walking w a blindfold on sometiem

 

[Apollo Creed]

ofc the goal is for us to stay together. im pretty skeptical towards marriage tho (just don’t want the govt involved)

to the monetary point, i agree. when i first started dating her, i realized damn this is kinda expensive, it’s like my money just vaporizes, but @ the same time im here now. my #1 focus is tryna boss up, but there’s times i feel like i have a weight on me. somedays i feel like ladies are a big distraction. to the moving in point, i just think it’s better to buy a house than move in a apt…which would be a $ dump

and to your last point, you’re off completely. if i were around solely for sex, this train would’ve went off the rails a minute ago

I agree I am moving w/o guidance, that’s the part about all of this that sucks. I be thinking it’d be nice to bounce some of this stuff off others, but for the most part I keep things very private between she and I. It be feeling like I’m walking w a blindfold on sometiem

stay together but your a marriage skeptic, i stopped reading there. All you’re doing is wasting time and money so do whatever you want.

 

[Serious]

stay together but your a marriage skeptic, i stopped reading there. All you’re doing is wasting time and money so do whatever you want.

My man all over the place and stay contradicting himself, even he don't believe the shyt he just wrote.

 

[Apollo Creed]

My man all over the place and stay contradicting himself, even he don't believe the shyt he just wrote.

exactly. Dudes know they messing up but their pride wont let them admit so they juelz.

if a chick is worth being with more than a year dont waste her time unless she explicitly is also against marriage. Dudes dont want to commit which is fine but then dont be about that rotation and dating life so they hold marriage minded chicks hostage.

bro a terrorist

 

[Bossyyyyy]

stay together but your a marriage skeptic, i stopped reading there. All you’re doing is wasting time and money so do whatever you want.

all i said was i wouldn’t want to involve the govt…

nd pride ??

My man all over the place and stay contradicting himself, even he don't believe the shyt he just wrote.

In the post, I literally agreed w bro saying I too feel like I’m moving w/o guidance. Beyond that, what wouldn’t I believe?


for the most part the relationship good albeit i have my gripes and reservations

 

[Action Mike]

This paag better not be on some bullshyt

 

[Rozay Oro]

How bout I go fukkin this big bytch from work without her catchin feelings and just bein a fwb?

She choosin. She a cute face big bytch. We in the same room for hours. Might as well hit it since she got her own shyt.

 

[J.E.T.S]

How bout I go fukkin this big bytch from work without her catchin feelings and just bein a fwb?

She choosin. She a cute face big bytch. We in the same room for hours. Might as well hit it since she got her own shyt.

I got one of those too lol. Her ass soooo phat and she light skinned. nikkas be losing their mind over her

 

[Rozay Oro]

I got one of those too lol. Her ass soooo phat and she light skinned. nikkas be losing their mind over her

nikkas get hypnotized over a booty

 

[J Money]

My tastes have changed and I'm being more honest with myself now too. Big girls just don't attract me like that anymore, need a gym fit woman in my life. Whenever I see a big girl with a cute face I'm just thinking "I can level this girl up if I take her to the gym " which is kinda unnecessary effort when I might as well bag a girl already in the gym

I guess big girls are just low hanging fruit for me in a way but life has shown me low hanging fruit women really there for a reason stop grabbing that shyt which ain't nice to eat and put in more effort

 

[RaspberryFitted]

My tastes have changed and I'm being more honest with myself now too. Big girls just don't attract me like that anymore, need a gym fit woman in my life. Whenever I see a big girl with a cute face I'm just thinking "I can level this girl up if I take her to the gym " which is kinda unnecessary effort when I might as well bag a girl already in the gym

I guess big girls are just low hanging fruit for me in a way but life has shown me low hanging fruit women really there for a reason stop grabbing that shyt which ain't nice to eat and put in more effort

Body Positivity have these women going from low hanging fruit to rotten fruit. Started coming across women who are bigger than me yet I was taller than them. How you under 25 and the fat on your arm hanging off your elbow.

 

[VertigoKnight]

My tastes have changed and I'm being more honest with myself now too. Big girls just don't attract me like that anymore, need a gym fit woman in my life. Whenever I see a big girl with a cute face I'm just thinking "I can level this girl up if I take her to the gym " which is kinda unnecessary effort when I might as well bag a girl already in the gym

I guess big girls are just low hanging fruit for me in a way but life has shown me low hanging fruit women really there for a reason stop grabbing that shyt which ain't nice to eat and put in more effort

Always good coming to that realisation. A chick can have a cute face, but if she’s overweight that's a definite no for me. What gets me is these fat woman think black guys should just accept them, as they think we’re thirsty and will accept anything thrown at us. If I’m working out and staying in shape and they’re making no effort. What are we doing?

A big girl whose not trying to improve herself, represents a woman with no self control. And as you get older she’ll only get fatter. I want a woman who fulfills my other wants, but who is also looking after herself mentally as well as body wise.

I’m not walking round with a fat girl ever.

Heck even sneaking through their place at night would make me feel grubby afterwards. You have to set yourself some standards in every facet of your life and any woman you're with should mirror your quality. Thats not saying find a beautiful bimbo but being overweight and not active is a massive red flag to me.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Is the damage irreparable?

This girl she’s married but i think she just liked my attention. We’d snapchat and text everyday. She even invited once to hang out but I couldn’t. She’s said other two times how we should hangout.

One day I’m all drunk on a day off and I text her you turn me on like a dumbass. Now she won’t Snapchat or text me like she used to. She’ll respond to me but she won’t initiate it anymore nor put effort to continue the convo. I tried joking but she just doesn’t care anymore I guess. She would even double text me a lot if I took too long.

It’s whatever but damn my phone dry.

 

[Ahadi]

What’s the point of joints making you wait when clearly they aren’t into YOU like that? Or maybe they do & im just BF material to her

(Attention? Or do they see you as the emotion support guy? Not the dikk guy?)