Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[RaspberryFitted]

I blocked breh but the most important thing I learned is to NEVER mention the age difference. Like, ever. No jokes, no brief side comment, nothing.

EDIT: negs don’t mean shyt to me bruh ignored you because all you do is cry like a bytch and disregard everyone’s advice. I just thought the older women topic was interesting

 

[Man On Fire]

These Hoes

 

[Killigraphy]

I blocked breh but the most important thing I learned is to NEVER mention the age difference. Like, ever. No jokes, no brief side comment, nothing.

EDIT: negs don’t mean shyt to me bruh ignored you because all you do is cry like a bytch and disregard everyone’s advice. I just thought the older women topic was interesting

You're always gonna have detractors or just guys who really don't have any game, they've just been lucky, or bitter. I tell every guy on here; be a sponge, formless, be water. Your job is to always be learning. I don't care how much p*ssy I get, how many women talk to me, etc, I'm always in learning mode. From the micro to the macro, anything that I can add to the repertoire is vital to me.

 

[J.E.T.S]

Fellas if a bytch is struggling in any way when you meet her, I don’t care how fine she is, do not help her or start a relationship.

Once she gets straight and get all her issues squared away, she gonna get cocky as fukk. Gonna probably force you out with disrespect and manipulation… then go do what she REALLY been wanting to do.

I’m speaking from hurt and truth. I didn’t listen to others that said the same thing, but it happened just how they said it would.

 

[CountryBoyL]

Well me and shorty are officially over. I could feel the energy shift the past few weeks since we moved into our own cribs and shyt. My gut was telling me she was only being nice and cordial the last 5 weeks since we still was living in our townhome together. But once we started moving stuff I could feel it. So I called her this morning and checked her on it and sure enough the whole “dating while living separate” deal was off the table . Broad pulled all types of petty reasons as to why she couldn’t move forward. Lowkey blew me with the bullshyt as I took her as a woman that kept it real but instead she was playing me to the very end until our final walk through inspection with our old landlord smh. We gave each other our apartment keys back today and that was that.

 

[J.E.T.S]

Well me and shorty are officially over. I could feel the energy shift the past few weeks since we moved into our own cribs and shyt. My gut was telling me she was only being nice and cordial the last 5 weeks since we still was living in our townhome together. But once we started moving stuff I could feel it. So I called her this morning and checked her on it and sure enough the whole “dating while living separate” deal was off the table . Broad pulled all types of petty reasons as to why she couldn’t move forward. Lowkey blew me with the bullshyt as I took her as a woman that kept it real but instead she was playing me to the very end until our final walk through inspection with our old landlord smh. We gave each other our apartment keys back today and that was that.

how long was y’all together?

 

[Ahadi]

Once you move into different cribs the relationship is done lol. It’s like going backwards.

It takes a special higher level kind of guy to be able to pull that off.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

You're always gonna have detractors or just guys who really don't have any game, they've just been lucky, or bitter. I tell every guy on here; be a sponge, formless, be water. Your job is to always be learning. I don't care how much p*ssy I get, how many women talk to me, etc, I'm always in learning mode. From the micro to the macro, anything that I can add to the repertoire is vital to me.

Absolute gem right here! There’s something to learn from anybody you come across. This thread is always my go-to anytime I log on to here. I feel it goes beyond women, even though it’s the main focus.

Fellas if a bytch is struggling in any way when you meet her, I don’t care how fine she is, do not help her or start a relationship.

Once she gets straight and get all her issues squared away, she gonna get cocky as fukk. Gonna probably force you out with disrespect and manipulation… then go do what she REALLY been wanting to do.

I experienced this with a chick a while back. Met her when she wasn’t shyt, we broke it off when she started feeling herself. She showed me both men and women put a facade on their life. All that energy portrayed in public isn’t the same when you’re alone and sit in your thoughts. That’s why I’m glad this thread preaching knowing yourself, being comfortable with you, and being the best you.

Well me and shorty are officially over. I could feel the energy shift the past few weeks since we moved into our own cribs and shyt. My gut was telling me she was only being nice and cordial the last 5 weeks since we still was living in our townhome together. But once we started moving stuff I could feel it. So I called her this morning and checked her on it and sure enough the whole “dating while living separate” deal was off the table . Broad pulled all types of petty reasons as to why she couldn’t move forward. Lowkey blew me with the bullshyt as I took her as a woman that kept it real but instead she was playing me to the very end until our final walk through inspection with our old landlord smh. We gave each other our apartment keys back today and that was that.

A new leaf has been turned my guy. CountryBoyW moving forward. Renovate whatever crib you at now, update ya wardrobe, dunno how in tune you are with yourself but get more in tune

 

[Action Mike]

I've slyly let some monsters creep into the rooster, my fault brehs but damn

 

[CountryBoyL]

how long was y’all together?

1.5 years breh

 

[CountryBoyL]

Absolute gem right here! There’s something to learn from anybody you come across. This thread is always my go-to anytime I log on to here. I feel it goes beyond women, even though it’s the main focus.




I experienced this with a chick a while back. Met her when she wasn’t shyt, we broke it off when she started feeling herself. She showed me both men and women put a facade on their life. All that energy portrayed in public isn’t the same when you’re alone and sit in your thoughts. That’s why I’m glad this thread preaching knowing yourself, being comfortable with you, and being the best you.



A new leaf has been turned my guy. CountryBoyW moving forward. Renovate whatever crib you at now, update ya wardrobe, dunno how in tune you are with yourself but get more in tune

I’d like to think I’m pretty in tune with myself. I’m actually starting a diary to vent thoughts off on. I have started to read and or listen to audio books. I just got done registering for classes for a certificate in computer networking at university of Maryland global campus. I’m almost done getting my project management certificate from them as well. My wardrobe is always ready so I’m good there. Just gonna focus on my kids and just slang iron on these broads from time to time

 

[Tr0yTV]

I’d like to think I’m pretty in tune with myself. I’m actually starting a diary to vent thoughts off on. I have started to read and or listen to audio books. I just got done registering for classes for a certificate in computer networking at university of Maryland global campus. I’m almost done getting my project management certificate from them as well. My wardrobe is always ready so I’m good there. Just gonna focus on my kids and just slang iron on these broads from time to time

Skip the course. Grab CCNA, Azure networking, or aws networking cert. Go read the IT thread if you really tryna eat.

 

[Serious]

I’d like to think I’m pretty in tune with myself. I’m actually starting a diary to vent thoughts off on. I have started to read and or listen to audio books. I just got done registering for classes for a certificate in computer networking at university of Maryland global campus. I’m almost done getting my project management certificate from them as well. My wardrobe is always ready so I’m good there. Just gonna focus on my kids and just slang iron on these broads from time to time

yall had kids together?

 

[RaspberryFitted]

I’d like to think I’m pretty in tune with myself. I’m actually starting a diary to vent thoughts off on

Journalizing has always been the wave. You read your thoughts from a few weeks ago like “damn, I was on THAT type of time? “

I got two journals: one’s for thoughts and one’s for my opinions on things I go through or see

 

[Killigraphy]

Once you move into different cribs the relationship is done lol. It’s like going backwards.

It takes a special higher level kind of guy to be able to pull that off.

You're essentially in High School mode all over again. Which is nice for the freedom. But there will be times where there's a power struggle. I myself don't like going to a bird's house for more than just a fukk n go. But if you're gonna be playing boyfriend, you have to be ready to be very cold, even so far as having to leave her house every time...that's to annoying for me, so I don't have any advice for that scenario. I don't like relinquishing power to anyone, let alone some broad, but, to also be fair, I never had to. Any woman who lets me into her house, knows its party time, She wants me there, more than she doesn't....

Still, I rather everything be in my domain/space. More control, easier to leave and in general they have to show their hand. Now if its just a quick fukk/movie? Sure, I suppose thats the gem right there, but its reliant on your easily walking away from the scenario.