Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[DaRealness]

Fellas if a bytch is struggling in any way when you meet her, I don’t care how fine she is, do not help her or start a relationship.

Once she gets straight and get all her issues squared away, she gonna get cocky as fukk. Gonna probably force you out with disrespect and manipulation… then go do what she REALLY been wanting to do.

I’m speaking from hurt and truth. I didn’t listen to others that said the same thing, but it happened just how they said it would.

Yup. I don't do the self work only to for a grown woman who should have been healing and ironing out her own damn issues. There's too many available resources nowadays for people to still be stuck and not get their act together. I'm too old and wise at this point to be cleaning up anybody's mess.

 

[Canon]

What’s y’all take on the struggles of moving on?

I’m struggling heavy. I have a girl that I’m dealing with, but I can stop thinking about my ex.

I’ve been moved out the house we shared for about a month now, no contact. We haven’t had any intimacy since I got caught cheating back in July.

I keep checking her IG and shyt… she be posting stuff about dating and she been out of town a couple of times. She definitely fukking someone else because she spend the night away from the house like once a week. Can’t bring myself to uninstall the doorbell camera because umma nosy stalker ass obsessed nikka right now still in his feelings.

I’m trying my best to be happy with the new chick and stop watching my ex new life.



It hurts and I can’t even enjoy my favorite foods at the moment. Stomach be gurgling n shyt… no appetite. Can’t sleep. Tryna not to go out sad like Kanye lol

I understand that cheating was wrong and that’s her excuse, but even before then, after she finally got her life together she started acting funny with the p*ssy and trying to call shots. Being all difficult and combative. Got super cocky like she can get any nikka to take care of her. After I built her up and took care of the household.

shyt makes me mad on god

delete the social and all of that and go completely no contact

only problem is when they try to come back

 

[dotherightthing]

no magic pill, gotta feel that ish just focus on getting yourself better and don't make no fast/stupid moves. you learn and you get stronger in time.

What’s y’all take on the struggles of moving on?

I’m struggling heavy. I have a girl that I’m dealing with, but I can stop thinking about my ex.

I’ve been moved out the house we shared for about a month now, no contact. We haven’t had any intimacy since I got caught cheating back in July.

I keep checking her IG and shyt… she be posting stuff about dating and she been out of town a couple of times. She definitely fukking someone else because she spend the night away from the house like once a week. Can’t bring myself to uninstall the doorbell camera because umma nosy stalker ass obsessed nikka right now still in his feelings.

I’m trying my best to be happy with the new chick and stop watching my ex new life.



It hurts and I can’t even enjoy my favorite foods at the moment. Stomach be gurgling n shyt… no appetite. Can’t sleep. Tryna not to go out sad like Kanye lol

I understand that cheating was wrong and that’s her excuse, but even before then, after she finally got her life together she started acting funny with the p*ssy and trying to call shots. Being all difficult and combative. Got super cocky like she can get any nikka to take care of her. After I built her up and took care of the household.

shyt makes me mad on god

 

[Rozay Oro]

@Krisrunner2049

This book is a must for all who haven’t become that nikka yet in their life. I bought the physical to support the OG but I just started the kindle unlimited free trial to read it on my phone since I spend so much time in this office.

 

[DJSmooth]

My assessment of chicks of different age ranges

18-26
High youthful energy, trainable, attracted to jewelry and shiny things, not set on life yet, prime of looks, attention spans of 7 yr old. Mostly fukk buddy material. Warning: A lot of birds in this age range

27-30+ Out of ho phase/Recovering hoe, looking for nice guys to trap, Age range with some of the most bitter women on the planet, asks where you work, goals, aspirations.
Exceptions are those with no kids, physically active in the gym, loves to travel, sexually experienced, positive and free-spirited outlook -- these are the gems to look for.

End of the day, dominate and lead em.

 

[RealCrownHeights]

I mean..cmon breh. You know better. It's time to let her go for the betterment of your mental and emotional health. Moving on too fast, knocking down new women doesn't always help, especially when you've been in a long term relationship. We've all mostly been there. It only satisfies us for a few moments.
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DELETE the doorbell camera app before the new year unless you want to wake up at 2 am, check the app and see another nikka walking in about to handle business, and then your emotions may get the better of you and will end up seeing you on social media trending

You know what to do as a man. Look into some new hobbies, hit the gym, read, redirect your focus,etc You know the routine. You've been on here constantly. A new, better woman will come into your life soon enough to compliment who you are as a man and you won't have to build.

The cheating we don't need to address, we all understand the possible consequences as men when we do it. She made her choice, and it sounds like you were checking out either way. Let her go. None of us are perfect. Hell I checked my ex's Twitter earlier in a moment of weakness, I admonished myself and now I'm moving on. If you go crawling back she'll have you on edge constantly. And you will as well.

And yea she probably is fukking someone else, so what? Accept it and shrug it off. Nothing you can do, and it's none of your business. Instill this in your mentality and trust me you'll be better off. I know right now you don't want to look at it this way, but my April/May if you lock in, you'll be a whole brand new man

What’s y’all take on the struggles of moving on?

I’m struggling heavy. I have a girl that I’m dealing with, but I can stop thinking about my ex.

I’ve been moved out the house we shared for about a month now, no contact. We haven’t had any intimacy since I got caught cheating back in July.

I keep checking her IG and shyt… she be posting stuff about dating and she been out of town a couple of times. She definitely fukking someone else because she spend the night away from the house like once a week. Can’t bring myself to uninstall the doorbell camera because umma nosy stalker ass obsessed nikka right now still in his feelings.



It hurts and I can’t even enjoy my favorite foods at the moment. Stomach be gurgling n shyt… no appetite. Can’t sleep. Tryna not to go out sad like Kanye lol

I understand that cheating was wrong and that’s her excuse, but even before then, after she finally got her life together she started acting funny with the p*ssy and trying to call shots. Being all difficult and combative. Got super cocky like she can get any nikka to take care of her. After I built her up and took care of the household.

shyt makes me mad on god

What’s y’all take on the struggles of moving on?

I’m struggling heavy. I have a girl that I’m dealing with, but I can stop thinking about my ex.

I’ve been moved out the house we shared for about a month now, no contact. We haven’t had any intimacy since I got caught cheating back in July.

I keep checking her IG and shyt… she be posting stuff about dating and she been out of town a couple of times. She definitely fukking someone else because she spend the night away from the house like once a week. Can’t bring myself to uninstall the doorbell camera because umma nosy stalker ass obsessed nikka right now still in his feelings.

I’m trying my best to be happy with the new chick and stop watching my ex new life.



It hurts and I can’t even enjoy my favorite foods at the moment. Stomach be gurgling n shyt… no appetite. Can’t sleep. Tryna not to go out sad like Kanye lol

I understand that cheating was wrong and that’s her excuse, but even before then, after she finally got her life together she started acting funny with the p*ssy and trying to call shots. Being all difficult and combative. Got super cocky like she can get any nikka to take care of her. After I built her up and took care of the household.

shyt makes me mad on god

Going through the same thing, the brothers in here have some good advice. I even got to the point where I was going to do the fake hospital shi* or say I want to get admitted (I know I'm a sicko) just have to kind of pretend she doesn't exist. I took her off everything but peeped her twitter and snapped out of it today. End of the day you have to better yourself and become a better man. Like for me, one of the reasons my girl moved on because she is an anxious annie about securing money and all that in our age and I was indecisive, but if a year from not I'm 6 figured 6 cert up with furniture and kaws figures then shyt changes.

Also resist the urge for quick sex and porn. You feel like shyt afterward. I matched with a hinge joint and she dope and nice but for the first time in my life I couldn't get it up . And that's just a dopehmine hit. Going to delete the apps in the new year and just keep it a thousand we both aren't ready for dating.

Walking past places we had been to and I lost 18 pounds of muscle op, had a prayer with a pastor and a son that God can see me through this it takes time

 

[J.E.T.S]

Going through the same thing, the brothers in here have some good advice. I even got to the point where I was going to do the fake hospital shi* or say I want to get admitted (I know I'm a sicko) just have to kind of pretend she doesn't exist. I took her off everything but peeped her twitter and snapped out of it today. End of the day you have to better yourself and become a better man. Like for me, one of the reasons my girl moved on because she is an anxious annie about securing money and all that in our age and I was indecisive, but if a year from not I'm 6 figured 6 cert up with furniture and kaws figures then shyt changes.

Also resist the urge for quick sex and porn. You feel like shyt afterward. I matched with a hinge joint and she dope and nice but for the first time in my life I couldn't get it up . And that's just a dopehmine hit. Going to delete the apps in the new year and just keep it a thousand we both aren't ready for dating.

Walking past places we had been to and I lost 18 pounds of muscle op, had a prayer with a pastor and a son that God can see me through this it takes time

Damn breh.

yeah it’s sickening. Anytime i hook up with the new chick… my mind start wondering about my ex getting fukked by someone else. Instant killer.

 

[CountryBoyL]

Mane I’m having my ups and downs dealing with this break up. It like I can’t believe shorty basically played me like that. You know how when you first meet a jawn and y’all put EVERYTHING out on the table to help prevent bullshyt from popping up during the relationship? Well we did all that and now I feel like she was mad fake to me the WHOLE TIME. that’s what burns me up right now like damn shorty I’m a good man and I genuinely loved you and now we just deaded everything. It’s hard to just suddenly not see and talk to your girl like that. I’m trying not to think about her sex life and all that shyt cuz that’s none of my business but how suddenshe ended it and had the nerve to tell me she made the decision within a week. I know damn well she contemplated this for at least a few months and I would have appreciated her keeping it 100 and just saying this was a possibility in her mind. I’m just rambling mane, I’m gonna be aight. This is my first time going through an actual heartbreak as a grown ass man. I’m usually the one to break shyt off, he’ll I broke off my marriage like it was no problem. But now I can see what my ex wife meant when she said “how can you just be done with someone you love just like that”
Now I see that in my example shorty really didn’t love me .

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Only tips I’ve used when meeting up with chicks off these dating apps is to met up in a public place for the first time & sharing your location with a loved one. Any more gems I’m missing?

 

[Balla]

Only tips I’ve used when meeting up with chicks off these dating apps is to met up in a public place for the first time & sharing your location with a loved one. Any more gems I’m missing?

That’s good. You plan on going to their place, your place, or hotel?

Tell them your location for that too. Give names too lol.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Only tips I’ve used when meeting up with chicks off these dating apps is to met up in a public place for the first time & sharing your location with a loved one. Any more gems I’m missing?

That’s good. You plan on going to their place, your place, or hotel?

Tell them your location for that too. Give names too lol.

Y’all nikkas just text the bytch and eventually facetime lol. Y’all nikkas ain’t hoes givin locations and names to loved ones

 

[Rozay Oro]

Bootleg Babyface on here right. Talkin to new hoes while you miss the old one is a mf . I’m excited over new p*ssy. Two lil college girls but damn I still got feelings for a ho that don’t even care bout me.

 

[Guvnor]

I need some advice y'all. Been dating this chick for awhile and she had this male friend who she led on and basically friend zoned him years ago back in college. According to her story he moved on is engaged and soon to be married. She has hung out with the couple and has spoke to him from time to time even though she initially friend zoned him and they are just friends from back in high school.

She wants to go his wedding and I told her no.

Do y'all feel I'm being insecure or am I justified?

 

[SlimOG]

I need some advice y'all. Been dating this chick for awhile and she had this male friend who she led on and basically friend zoned him years ago back in college. According to her story he moved on is engaged and soon to be married. She has hung out with the couple and has spoke to him from time to time even though she initially friend zoned him and they are just friends from back in high school.

She wants to go his wedding and I told her no.

Do y'all feel I'm being insecure or am I justified?

Oh nah what it sounds like is she's lying to save face because they used to smash...there is no reason she needs to go to his wedding unless there's feelings still there on both ends.

 

[VertigoKnight]

What’s y’all take on the struggles of moving on?

I’m struggling heavy. I have a girl that I’m dealing with, but I can stop thinking about my ex.

I’ve been moved out the house we shared for about a month now, no contact. We haven’t had any intimacy since I got caught cheating back in July.

I keep checking her IG and shyt… she be posting stuff about dating and she been out of town a couple of times. She definitely fukking someone else because she spend the night away from the house like once a week. Can’t bring myself to uninstall the doorbell camera because umma nosy stalker ass obsessed nikka right now still in his feelings.

I’m trying my best to be happy with the new chick and stop watching my ex new life.



It hurts and I can’t even enjoy my favorite foods at the moment. Stomach be gurgling n shyt… no appetite. Can’t sleep. Tryna not to go out sad like Kanye lol

I understand that cheating was wrong and that’s her excuse, but even before then, after she finally got her life together she started acting funny with the p*ssy and trying to call shots. Being all difficult and combative. Got super cocky like she can get any nikka to take care of her. After I built her up and took care of the household.

shyt makes me mad on god

It’s hard.

When me and my ex wife officially split. It was hard to know some other guy fukked her less than three weeks later, I even had live updates before and after the deed between her and her friends as she left her discord notifications on and they popped up on the iPad we shared.

I never want to have that feeling again. But a full social media blackout of her is something that is invaluable. Heck when I split with my ex I also split with a woman I thought I was in love with who dumped me as things got too hot and ‘confusing’ for her and she bailed. So it was a double whammy.

I guarantee you after 2 months you’ll think of her but the feeling will lessen, I actually worked with my ex for a few months so I got to see her daily but we kept it professional.

We even talked about our dating lives until she got upset that I was dealing with Asian and Persian women.

But time does heal wounds now she barely comes up in my mind, occasionally I remember the good times but other than that