Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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The thing is the good ones will catch you off guard no signs or warnings sometimes and your sitting there like wth :mjcry: what did I do wrong? I don’t understand or FML
When it comes down too it you just gotta hope for the best expect the worse. You can’t be stressing if or when save a piece of yourself so if it ever happens it won’t break u. Never trust 100% I say 90% max idc how great she is because that 10% can ease the pain or blow if comes to fruition. Sure you should still do right by her just know you can get played for a fool and not see it coming and nothing you can do. Just enjoy the time memories love etc….
Its a cruel world out there whether ur a simp, alpha male , 6 figs, 6ft tall your replaceable as easy as a woman’s underwear
Just have a sense of balance of happiness and awareness.
you still married right :patrice:
 
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My relationship of 3 years just ended this week. I caught her talking to some next dude. I thought she was "the one". We were in the process of buying a house, planning to get married & have a baby in 2022:to:

I'm going to take a few months to process this & get over it. I will focus on my career, gym, self improvement etc. Spring/Summer i will be back on the dating scene since 2018

Damn, shyt is crazy out there:mjcry: I think I’m just gon find my love for gaming back.
 

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Lol how women have all this power when they’re essentially the losers.... in need of a mans guidance/protection. Even these modern day career women aren’t happy about their role and would rather have someone else responsible for their well-being.... how tf are this many men struggling with these brats with a twat???
 

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I ain't trying to make women the focal point of my life but it would be nice to have some to text on the side or smash or just flirt with at least.

Nothing serious for now
I think subconsciously in your head, you're beating yourself up and over thinking it. I wouldnt mention it in your profile, but you can be straight up and say that you just got out within the first few conversations, just so that you're transparent.

Also this dependent on how you see the chick. If she's nothing serious then why bring it up.

But also a man, you have to get back on your feet. Being a bum ain't cool. I don't care if you have scrub dishes at a restaurant or wait tables in the mean time to get on your feet. It says a lot about character and humbling yourself.
 

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Brehs I'm rusty as fukk and need some help.


I spent last year in jail and have only been out for a few weeks. Idk how to navigate this dating scene with the covid shyt going on.


I haven't had much success with the online apps either...I ain't ugly, I ain't fat, I got 2 college degrees, but also got no job. I been honest about my situation in my profiles, about the jail time and shyt ... Should I not do that? Should I just fake the funk for now until I get my feet wet?

breh get an STD check and spend this year getting your life together.

you dont deserve to be dating right now
 

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Lol how women have all this power when they’re essentially the losers.... in need of a mans guidance/protection. Even these modern day career women aren’t happy about their role and would rather have someone else responsible for their well-being.... how tf are this many men struggling with these brats with a twat???
It's women that I just started talking too, that want for me to help guide through running their business and shyt :why:
 

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Brehs I'm rusty as fukk and need some help.


I spent last year in jail and have only been out for a few weeks. Idk how to navigate this dating scene with the covid shyt going on.


I haven't had much success with the online apps either...I ain't ugly, I ain't fat, I got 2 college degrees, but also got no job. I been honest about my situation in my profiles, about the jail time and shyt ... Should I not do that? Should I just fake the funk for now until I get my feet wet?

No need for any woman to know unless you were in jail for like sexual assault or abuse of a female :patrice:
 

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My relationship of 3 years just ended this week. I caught her talking to some next dude. I thought she was "the one". We were in the process of buying a house, planning to get married & have a baby in 2022:to:

I'm going to take a few months to process this & get over it. I will focus on my career, gym, self improvement etc. Spring/Summer i will be back on the dating scene since 2018


So many foul women out here these days. Don't know how real successful good lasting relationships I know of these days
 

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My relationship of 3 years just ended this week. I caught her talking to some next dude. I thought she was "the one". We were in the process of buying a house, planning to get married & have a baby in 2022:to:

I'm going to take a few months to process this & get over it. I will focus on my career, gym, self improvement etc. Spring/Summer i will be back on the dating scene since 2018

Happens to us all breh. I was dating a chick and it was perfect for nearly 3 years, even bought a ring and popped the question. She was so happy, crying, told her family and friends etc. then a week later she had "doubts" and a few weeks after that returning the ring and that was it.

Then it's like a stroke victim how you have to relearn everything, how to heal, deal with your emotions, how to get back out there etc.

While the girl you loved you're in the back of her mind as she gets on with life
 

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My relationship of 3 years just ended this week. I caught her talking to some next dude. I thought she was "the one". We were in the process of buying a house, planning to get married & have a baby in 2022:to:

I'm going to take a few months to process this & get over it. I will focus on my career, gym, self improvement etc. Spring/Summer i will be back on the dating scene since 2018

trip to the court house dont take 3 yrs.

fall back reflect and come back sharper
 

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Tell us about when you’ve thought a girl was “different” and she let you down, this will help a lot of the bruhs in here the most.

I got this girl number one time while unemployed. I told her I wasn't dating right now because I didn't have a job she said she didn't care. "We can build together blah blah." I just knew we were gonna get married.:wow:

A month later she randomly snapped on me and told me I needed therapy. I said with what money??? :yeshrug::mjlol::skip:
 

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Happens to us all breh. I was dating a chick and it was perfect for nearly 3 years, even bought a ring and popped the question. She was so happy, crying, told her family and friends etc. then a week later she had "doubts" and a few weeks after that returning the ring and that was it.

Then it's like a stroke victim how you have to relearn everything, how to heal, deal with your emotions, how to get back out there etc.

While the girl you loved you're in the back of her mind as she gets on with life

:picard:Damn...The game is so cold :wow::mjcry:
 

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breh idc if she is the mayor of nyc a women telling u how much she wants to make in a marriage is :camby:
She don’t dictate how much u should make or a career u should do.
Ur basically saying for ex: let’s say im a plumber I make $80,000 a year but since I didn’t make the cutoff amount I ain’t good enough :dahell:
And that is a good amount to make
A woman who wants to be with u and loves u will respect what u do for a living and not tell u what u should make as a damn couple just because she was raised having a good life better than others
Breh if u were that plumber she be happy for who u are and the amount u make is what I’m saying
Sure she can help u build something to make more like be the supervisor plumber and increase it by supporting you but she should also be bringing in money to help make the situation even more fruitful not just u

u don’t have to agree with me but she just sounds like a headache with those standards instead of just supporting u to do what u want she is telling what u need to do to make her happy that’s not how it’s supposed to be
She is entitled to what she feels she deserves and wants
Just like a guy is entitled to wanting a girl with a big ass and big t*ts but if we say that we’re wrong but cuz a women wants a guy to have so much money and pay everything it’s wrong :snoop: this is the world we live in now but at same time u don’t have to abide by it
But I’m telling u this ur gonna be unhappy trying to appease to her standards instead of doing what u feel is best for yourself and making ur self happy

:whoo::whew:

damn dad. Preach! :ohlawd:
 
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